In much need of advice

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Jess i found through my sister in law,, this chick let the whole world know on FB ahead of time, she went to the doc last Friday to confirm it because "she just knew she was",,, u are right 3 weeks is too soon so i think she was trying to get pregnant so she kept checking w/ a doc,, she will a month tomorrow from what i read... Ill wait to see the baby bump to make him sign the divorce papers so we will stop using my mom to make me feel guilty and as an excuss to just stay legally married.....

^^ sorry i meant Vanessa!

Jessica thanks for the info!!

She announced on FB.. so that to me means that you know her.. oooh this just gets worse and worse... yeah it's just odd. 3 weeks... and I'm just stunned she announced on FB (if not simply because of the high fail rate in the first trimester (12 weeks)).. she announced who the baby daddy was an everything? I'm wondering if it's true and whether she just wants you to break up and then she'll "lose" the baby.

And "she just knew"? She had kids before? 'cause I certainly wouldn't think "pregnant" if I started to feel nauseous or goofy, I'd just think sick and wait it out. So then you've got monitoring her period which is possible ... but something is just fishy.

Did he admit how long they were having an affair? Maybe it'd been for a while and that was her way of finally making him come clean (and she's not really pregnant but he had to admit the possibility).

[Tatiana99 2]

Yeah i kinda knew her she is a friend of my sister in law.. This girl announced it on fb but send private messages to "my husbands" family telling them know she is carrying his child.. My in- laws confronted him & then he confessed to me he said he is very shocked she is pregnant but didnt say it cant be.... I find it veryyy odd to she is telling EVERYONE she is pregnant so early i mean atleast way a month.... Last night she send my sis in law a message saying she has been having "abnormal pains" she didnt experience with her 1st pregnancy ... Im sooo relieved u find it fishy as well!!! i thought it was just me that didnt want to accept the fact the she is pregnant but something doesnt seem right!! I mean she might as well b but idk her braggin of all the symptons & mood swings doesnt seem right...!

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Yeah i kinda knew her she is a friend of my sister in law.. This girl announced it on fb but send private messages to "my husbands" family telling them know she is carrying his child.. My in- laws confronted him & then he confessed to me he said he is very shocked she is pregnant but didnt say it cant be.... I find it veryyy odd to she is telling EVERYONE she is pregnant so early i mean atleast way a month.... Last night she send my sis in law a message saying she has been having "abnormal pains" she didnt experience with her 1st pregnancy ... Im sooo relieved u find it fishy as well!!! i thought it was just me that didnt want to accept the fact the she is pregnant but something doesnt seem right!! I mean she might as well b but idk her braggin of all the symptons & mood swings doesnt seem right...!

She might be pregnant. Either way he cheated and for me it would be over (I don't know if no baby makes a difference to you). But she is a mega B-word for bragging on FB about it... but... knowing so early, telling EVERYONE so quickly and now with the "abnormal pains"? Something just isn't right. I do wonder how long they've been together, that might be why she's doing it this way (not that it make it okay).. like maybe he made promises to her and she was sick of the lies and decided to out him. I can't say I'd do it the way she is, though I wouldn't intentionally have an affair with a married man either... odd. Time will tell.

I'm sorry it means a longer wait for your mother but it's just not worth the heartache and you deserve better.

[morocco4ever 63]

She gets pregnant with a married man's child, then "brags" to his family? What a class act. He deserves her. Sorry, but that is how an outsider sees it.