Depressed and sick! Fiance Visa denied/ request more info... this is too much on us!!!!

[truannja 1]

Do Not give up..I was asked the very same questions when I did mine 3 months ago and was told to come back with call records and more pics...I did as they asked and on my second interview the very same day your fiance did hers..I was approved..they hardly looked at the stuff..So pleeeeease do not loose hope it will work out!

[naijaboy 16]

Do Not give up..I was asked the very same questions when I did mine 3 months ago and was told to come back with call records and more pics...I did as they asked and on my second interview the very same day your fiance did hers..I was approved..they hardly looked at the stuff..So pleeeeease do not loose hope it will work out!

Thanks!!!

[LADYDARE 28]

It's only a delay in the process, provide the additional documents and all will go well. Good luck.

[Justin and Kate 2]

Cheer Up ! Ive been to same situation while having interview at US Embassy in Moscow. I was the only girl who got the slip for denial, so to say, out of other 20 girls being interviewed that day. I think you can imagine my feelings. I was down and out...we thought this is the end bcuz we had no will no power to be apart. Officer asked to mail some more finantial papers...we did...and they didnt like them. They asked for something different...we sent them again...SO we were asked to send informtion 3 times...and they made us keep waiting and waiting without saying if my visa is going to be approved or not. And the papers which they requested were NOT even in the list of requered documenets ... we were IN shock. Officer said: YES,I know it's not requested BUT we want to look at this and this and this.

After 3 weeks of unbearable waiting I got my visa with DHL guy! SO You didnt get a denial you just need to work on this process a LIL more! Please dont give up.

I'm here now with my future husband in Chicago in our nice house, we are preparing for wedding...omg..I'm so happy..I'm like in haven when next to him. Dont give up, give your fiancee a chance to feel the same feeling forever.

Good Luck!

[Egypt's Heart 6]

Hey Naijaboy,

Be happy & dont be depressed because she is lucky to have another chance. This same case happened to someone I heard of. She got to the embassy another time and the same consular officer that interviewed her said why she brought new evidences ..... ? Imagine that ! And the consular later said the evidences she brought the first day was enough to get visa... At last, he gave her the visa.

So, prepare all the requested evidences and try again... YOU ARE NOT YET DENIED.

Best of luck

Also, any chance of YOU being at interview? It would not hurt, and it could help!!!!!!

[Channah&Aaron 51]

; Send more pictures and other proof and you should be OK!!

Btw, it's a known fact that it's very important to have pictures with other people on it (read: FAMILY, sometimes friends).

Good luck!!

[Olomi_811 130]

"delayed not denied" LOVE IT!

No need to feel helpless. Get yourself together and the things they need and send an email to request a new interview date...You were not denied just delayed...Good luck to you guys and welcome to VJ

[naijaboy 16]

Cheer Up ! Ive been to same situation while having interview at US Embassy in Moscow. I was the only girl who got the slip for denial, so to say, out of other 20 girls being interviewed that day. I think you can imagine my feelings. I was down and out...we thought this is the end bcuz we had no will no power to be apart. Officer asked to mail some more finantial papers...we did...and they didnt like them. They asked for something different...we sent them again...SO we were asked to send informtion 3 times...and they made us keep waiting and waiting without saying if my visa is going to be approved or not. And the papers which they requested were NOT even in the list of requered documenets ... we were IN shock. Officer said: YES,I know it's not requested BUT we want to look at this and this and this.

After 3 weeks of unbearable waiting I got my visa with DHL guy! SO You didnt get a denial you just need to work on this process a LIL more! Please dont give up.

I'm here now with my future husband in Chicago in our nice house, we are preparing for wedding...omg..I'm so happy..I'm like in haven when next to him. Dont give up, give your fiancee a chance to feel the same feeling forever.

Good Luck!

Thanks! Congrats to u!

[naijaboy 16]

Also, any chance of YOU being at interview? It would not hurt, and it could help!!!!!!

No it's not possible I just returned from Lagos 3 weeks ago and my job won't give me more time off.. I stayed for the whole month of august and was there 2 weeks in October

[Jacque and Gerry 5]

good luck!!!

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

With Lagos asking for more is not an immediate denial. It can go either way. Lagos is very fussy about pictures and call records. If you didn't take pictures together is public while you were there during your many trips you are probably going to have more trouble from them. Their approach is close to insanity and they will go out of their way to dig up reasons to deny people. All I can say is dig through the photos you didn't like and see what you can find. Did anyone else take pictures of you ?? Sometimes it is easy to forget pictures taken by others.

[Josie-Be-Happy 11]

Please cheer up as she wasn't denied the visa. Try to gather additional proof that they are seeking and re-schedule another interview. I totally understand how you feel when you said that one person holds the future of your relationship in his/her hands. We have to prove that we are in a real relationship and no matter how much documentation you provide, sometimes it's not good enough. Another individual can present the same documentation and their visa is approved. We have to fight hard to be with our loved ones. Keep your spirits up...easier said than done. Your fiance will get her visa.

Best wishes.

[carolynhotstuff 252]

Get letters from family and friends that know about your relationship and can talk about how in love you are. Has she met any of your family online? Have them give their name, address and phone number and what is their relationship to you. They don't have to be notorized but I think notorized letters are better.

[Danya1 0]

MARRIAGE FOR IMMIGRATION PURPOSES ONLY and your case is being returned to the approved DHS office im really dissapointed and so dont know what to do do u have any advice for me

[naijaboy 16]

MARRIAGE FOR IMMIGRATION PURPOSES ONLY and your case is being returned to the approved DHS office im really dissapointed and so dont know what to do do u have any advice for me

im honestly not sure what that denial means.. i feel your pain.. this journey is emotionally draining... i hope others on this forum can help!.. I think u should create a new Topic explaining your situation that way others can help u!

Edited September 23, 2011 by naijaboy