My fience was denied

[Canadian in GA 34]

well she needs to put on her big girl panties and get over it because she was NOT denied (as you said) and some people DO get denied. You just need to send in the appropriate paperwork. A couple of weeks delay maybe. No biggie.

AGREED!

She should not be so upset, yeah its stessful, believe me, i went though it, and ya I took it out on my husband a bit, just venting, but he was there for me, understood that i was being a little bit of a freako, but i calmed down, and he calmed me down- your supposed to be a team.

Edited September 13, 2011 by Canadian in GA

[Operator 1,927]

OK now here is the big question .. how do i deal with an upset fience

The first step is to try to figure out why she is so upset. It may not be you but you are the only one who can feel her pain.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

She'll get over it once she has the Visa in hand...

[Deema & Wayne 28]

I think when we all start this process, we know that it's going to be hard but don't feel the pain of it until we have a set back..she'll be fine, let her vent and tell her that it'll be worth the wait, that you'll do what it takes, yada yada, it's what chicks like to hear.

[Oneness 17]

Your answer leads me to believe that you didn't understand my question (sorry if I am wrong). I'll ask it a different way. So none of your ex's were born in another country and came to the US on a visa for which you were the petitioner?

No they were all US citisens

No they were all US citisens

[Solwalt 2]

Sorry about that, I had thought that have been approved, forgiveness. Try to call theImmigration Department to solve, Trust in God.

[Boiler 44,857]

Spell Fiancée correctly?

[Andie 147]

She would have been stressed going into the interview and if she discovered something she didn't know about before - would be wondering why perhaps? Or, didn't understand the result of the interview and thinks it is a denial?

Regardless of which case applies, it is not fair to you to ignore your calls. You wont know until you discuss it and you can then take the soft (maybe flowers) approach, or tell her you are sorting out the missing info. Either way, yes.... she needs to realise she is in this too and the process is not easy for either of you. That's life.

Edited September 13, 2011 by Andie

[Oneness 17]

Wow I am overwhelmed by the overflowing of support.

However I feel like I have let her down on her biggest day.

She took her sister and nieces to London to celebrate

and I violated a rule. Everyone is so right this is one of

the hardest things to do. In the begining you are on overload

with all the forms and that, rushing about. Here we are 1 1/2 years

latter and she has sold her home, last day of work is on the 23rd

Her pets are to be delivered to San Francisco this Friday and

I was going to fly out but on the 22nd I am glad I did not buy

the tickets yet. I LOVE MY JULIE AND I AM VERY SORRY to have hurt her

I have a copy of the divorce papers in hand and as soon as

I hear back from Julie and what her wishes are I will be

ready to get them notarized and to the post for express

delivery to the London Embassy

[Deema & Wayne 28]

Wow I am overwhelmed by the overflowing of support.

However I feel like I have let her down on her biggest day.

She took her sister and nieces to London to celebrate

and I violated a rule. Everyone is so right this is one of

the hardest things to do. In the begining you are on overload

with all the forms and that, rushing about. Here we are 1 1/2 years

latter and she has sold her home, last day of work is on the 23rd

Her pets are to be delivered to San Francisco this Friday and

I was going to fly out but on the 22nd I am glad I did not buy

the tickets yet. I LOVE MY JULIE AND I AM VERY SORRY to have hurt her

I have a copy of the divorce papers in hand and as soon as

I hear back from Julie and what her wishes are I will be

ready to get them notarized and to the post for express

delivery to the London Embassy

You didn't hurt her, the situation is difficult and hurts the people involved, nevertheless, it needs to be done and we can't let emotions get the better of us. Fight for it and it will happen for you. Good luck.

[gland 5]

On the f-129 form there was only room for two divorses so I put down my first wifes divorsed in 1985 and my third wife 2008 Idid not declare my second wife and the divorse in 2004 what do i do

Any answer that doesnt fit has to be written on additional sheet.Sorry you missed that.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

I have a copy of the divorce papers in hand and as soon as

I hear back from Julie and what her wishes are I will be

ready to get them notarized and to the post for express

delivery to the London Embassy

Are they originals stamped with the clerk of the Circuit Court's seal?

Notarized means nothing for Divorce documents for immigration purposes, they need the Final Decree endorsed by the issuing Clerk of the Circuit Court.

[Robert&Karen 264]

I don't know if mine were notarized, but I never got an RFE on it. Hmmm. I am going to email all my papers to my fiance so she can have copies in case any got misplaced.

As for how to deal with an upset fiance:

www.jimmychoo.com

www.manoloblahnik.com

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Are they originals stamped with the clerk of the Circuit Court's seal?

Notarized means nothing for Divorce documents for immigration purposes, they need the Final Decree endorsed by the issuing Clerk of the Circuit Court.

Yep. Hard to notarize a document that has already been signed.

[Rainbow Medallion 2]

Yep. Hard to notarize a document that has already been signed.

For those divorce decrees you are going to need the original decrees not notarized forms. So, just be sure they are not photo copies which have been notarized that will not work. Did your fiancee even know you were married two times previously? If she did not know then that is probably why she was denied. But, at any rate you are going to need to have the original decrees and if you can not find them then you have to go to the court-house where those decrees are filed and obtain copies of the originals which are certified copies. Good luck it seems like you have a large amount of work on your hands. You need all of the prayer and support that you can get at this time! Did your fiancee contact you again by now? I pray this works out for you and her!

Edited September 13, 2011 by SanSali