Divorce....what does this all mean

[Reba 2]

That just makes me really sad.

Janice, I'm sorry.

yeah, me too.

I'm so sorry it dodn't work out Janice.

...we really do need a huggy emot

[rebeccajo 14]

I am so sorry to hear that Janice - like others here, I have followed your journey since it begun, and I wish it had turned out to be the journey to the place you dreamed it would be.

Beautiful. It made me cry.

[Peggy 1]

Sorry to hear this news.

Best of luck to you

[Fandango 1,439]

Janice, I'm so effing sorry

[Sinergy 3]

Sorry to hear that Janice. Best of luck to ya, and your in my prayers!

Hugs,

Tara

[rl2009 0]

I am not quite sure what is happening in my life, Jon and I are getting divorced, I agreed to it a couple of weeks ago and all the papers were put in the court. Non contestable, I did not want to upset anyone, I will be going home on the 7th October.

Janice

I really hate to her that Jon and Janice. Love is such a wonderful thing and sharing a life and love with someone is one of the best gifts there is in life. I wish you both the best and much happiness.

[Ladylethal 12]

I'm sorry too, maybe you can work things out.

[moondancer627 0]

Always look to the silverlining, at least it is not going to turn into a big $ divorce and you get to go home with your kids now.

[arwensun1965 0]

Thank you everyone, as most here know I do not like to make a fuss really, so the divorce will be as painless as possible, Jon has not got much so really there is nothing for us to argue over which would not be productive to either party, we thought that this was the best route to go, we made a mistake that is all, as for the children well I know it will be a battle but as people have said in the past I need to get some guts inside of me and not let the ex beat me down. Once again thank you.

Janice

[rebeccajo 14]

*hugs*

[arwensun1965 0]

*hugs*

Thank you.................do you know of any website for people like me, I need to know some stuff but I cannot seem to find it. Once I arrive home I need to find a job, I've looked on the web but cannot find what I am looking for.........does that make sense?? Also i've written an email to the citizens advice beuro (i know that last bit spelt wrong) but they did not reply. I need help but I do not know how to ask or get it.

Janice

[rebeccajo 14]

*hugs*

Thank you.................do you know of any website for people like me, I need to know some stuff but I cannot seem to find it. Once I arrive home I need to find a job, I've looked on the web but cannot find what I am looking for.........does that make sense?? Also i've written an email to the citizens advice beuro (i know that last bit spelt wrong) but they did not reply. I need help but I do not know how to ask or get it.

Janice

Janice you haven't been gone all that long. Wes says you'll probably have to contact Inland Revenue - maybe go there first. And go to the Social Security office to claim your benefits. He says you might need to go to Citizens Advice in person - maybe make a phone call before you go back.

He just handed me this:

HMRC.gov.uk

That's the Inland Revenue website.

Their phone number is 0191 2257441.

[arwensun1965 0]

Thank you Wes and rebeccajo

[meauxna 15]

*hugs*

Thank you.................do you know of any website for people like me, I need to know some stuff but I cannot seem to find it. Once I arrive home I need to find a job, I've looked on the web but cannot find what I am looking for.........does that make sense?? Also i've written an email to the citizens advice beuro (i know that last bit spelt wrong) but they did not reply. I need help but I do not know how to ask or get it.

Janice

J,

Check out this forum for British Expats going back; there will be tons of support and resources:

Moving back to the UK

[arwensun1965 0]

Thank you meauxna just looking now hopefully it will answer some of those questions that just pop up from time to time

Janice