Divorce

[sweet_peach 0]

Hello everyone,

I'm sure I'm not the first to post something about this and I have looked around to see if I can find something, but I just don’t have the energy to keep looking. I do apologize for this post right now. I'm just so tired for everything that’s going on so if this makes no sense this is why.

I never thought three years ago today (visa was issued today) that I be on here trying to find out this type of information. We filed for my husbands 10yr green card a few months ago. He hasn’t received an interview appointment yet and so I need to see what I need to do. I know I'm still responsible for him if he tries to get assistance from the gov and that won’t change with the divorce, but I just need to see what needs to be done on my part. This isn’t a hasty decision and has actually been forth coming for awhile. My mind is now set and will not be changed.

Any advice would be great.

Thanks again for reading this mess......

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

Divorce is about separating two people that had supposely co mingled assets. If you guys are still civil to each other the best thing to do is to split thing up yourselves and not waste money on lawyers. My first hubby and I were different people once we got out of college and knew it pretty quickly. So we say down and even made a game of splitting up the records. You take one I take one. Our incomes where about equal so we split the costs of raising the child we had. There was very little prior assets. In most states the parties are entitled to half the joint assets which means things that were aquired AFTER the marriage or the portion of separate assets that community money paid for . So if you had a house for 6 years then were married for 2 , he would get 1/2 of the last 2 years value of the house ( which could be nagative ) Alimoney for a 2 year marriage may not be granted or only granted for a few months. Study the laws of your state and good luck at staying civil.

[sweet_peach 0]

Divorce is about separating two people that had supposely co mingled assets. If you guys are still civil to each other the best thing to do is to split thing up yourselves and not waste money on lawyers. My first hubby and I were different people once we got out of college and knew it pretty quickly. So we say down and even made a game of splitting up the records. You take one I take one. Our incomes where about equal so we split the costs of raising the child we had. There was very little prior assets. In most states the parties are entitled to half the joint assets which means things that were aquired AFTER the marriage or the portion of separate assets that community money paid for . So if you had a house for 6 years then were married for 2 , he would get 1/2 of the last 2 years value of the house ( which could be nagative ) Alimoney for a 2 year marriage may not be granted or only granted for a few months. Study the laws of your state and good luck at staying civil.

Thanks for the info....

but what im looking for is USCIS info. As far as out paper work etc. Basically what I have to do with them.

[Brother Hesekiel 2,236]

That's a tricky one.

If you guys filed jointly for RoC, meaning you signed as well, and now you are splitting up, then strictly speaking your husband should refile alone. That's theory.

In real life your RoC is traveling with the speed of a steam locomotive and the station is in plain sight. Stopping the train now to let you get off and then start the train again is a big deal and would not make your husband happy. It all depends on whether you are still on good terms with your husband or want him to hang dry until the vultures pick out his eyes.

Only you can answer this.

Edited September 11, 2011 by Just Bob

[Ban Hammer 13,486]

Hello everyone,

I'm sure I'm not the first to post something about this and I have looked around to see if I can find something, but I just don’t have the energy to keep looking. I do apologize for this post right now. I'm just so tired for everything that’s going on so if this makes no sense this is why.

I never thought three years ago today (visa was issued today) that I be on here trying to find out this type of information. We filed for my husbands 10yr green card a few months ago. He hasn’t received an interview appointment yet and so I need to see what I need to do. I know I'm still responsible for him if he tries to get assistance from the gov and that won’t change with the divorce, but I just need to see what needs to be done on my part. This isn’t a hasty decision and has actually been forth coming for awhile. My mind is now set and will not be changed.

Any advice would be great.

Thanks again for reading this mess......

and one post removed for trolling.