Getting deported tomorrow?!

[Harsh_77 718]

From the OP's other posts, she is not trying to keep him here and is now divorced. I believe she is curious as to the process; her post above asks if anyone knows the order of things etc. I think her giving him his stuff back is just being a decent human. She is not trying to fight the courts decisions in any way, and has not helped gain legal counsel (the fact he had a lawyer was news to her).

Harpa - I was not aware of the OP's status nor had I read any of her other post. All I did was asked OP are you trying to protect him or get him deported, based on whichever she was looking ppl can give her right advice.

Unfortunately some ppl jumped on me saying I was rude and stuff......and started jumping on me for that.

Bob and waiting backed me up on the same questions.

Edited September 8, 2011 by Harsh_77

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

Harpa - I was not aware of the OP's status nor had I read any of her other post. All I did was asked OP are you trying to protect him or get him deported, based on whichever she was looking ppl can give her right advice.

Unfortunately some ppl jumped on me saying I was rude and stuff......and started jumping on me for that.

Bob and waiting backed me up on the same questions.

Yeah, I was just trying to help explain what I know because the thread was getting derailed

[Ban Hammer 13,486]

one off topic post removed.

[MamaAsiya 8]

Oh wow, I guess I missed the drama on my own post. I need to check in more often. In case anyone is still interested, I'll clarify. My ex-husband has already been convicted and served out the criminal sentences. He is in immigration custody and the court date was his immigration bond hearing. Harpa Timsah is right. I was asking about the process without an agenda. I would like to see him deported. However, I do not want to be a part of the process. When my daughter is old enough to ask why her father was deported, I want both her dad and I to say I played no role. I have not and will not help him financially or legally. I will not testify for him in court. I will, however, provide him his things so he leaves this country with his passport, personal effects etc and not just the clothes on his back. Our divorce is not final but this will not affect it (I already have sole custody, I'm just waiting on the judgement). I want to know what is happening and where he is. If a decision is made, I would need to prep my daughter (either for a visit or a phone call from Africa). I have made peace with him and try to maintain a good relationship. He will always be my daughter's father. I was livid at how our justice system treats violence against women and I was venting (similarly, it pisses me off that animal abuse generally receives harsher punishment than domestic violence). Taking a neutral stance is not a contradiction. Sorry for the confusion. Again, thanks to everyone who took the time to reply.