Help me!!k1 interview the case been suspended!

[Chynna/gapamix 11]

These people will ALWAYS assume that the marriage is for immigration ( fraud)purposes. It is up to you to PROVE they are wrong. Sometimes all the papers in the world mean nothing.

When my wife went to Warsaw, alone, for her interview the woman said to her " do you know your fiancée is still living with his ex-wife in her home..we have proof". Wow. My wife looked her right in the face and said " you are wrong. He lives alone at this address. I do not believe you. You cannot show me proof because you do not have any". And she was very confident in her answer. That was enough for the woman. She got her visa.

One of the problems with these interviews is that the fiancée is intimidated.And nervous. It can be difficult. Most USC who accompany their fiancée ( usually they must wait outside) will not take no for an answer if there is a problem and maybe even argue a bit because it is THEIR government and they have the right to question the CO's.

Sorry you had to go through all this.

Can they really ask or make up crazy scenarios like that? Wow!

[extremerecluse 32]

today i went to my interview,and the officer ask me so many question which has nothing to do with k1

she keep asking me that why i dont back to china

the most funny question is she ask me : why you go to usa!

oh my god, whats that mean? i apply k1 visa, and the she ask me that question?

that was an old lady,nearly 60, all she keep try to ask is why i dont back to china

and when i try to explain, she said: i dont wanna listen to it!

what's that attitude?

then she said i dont believe your relationship is real, i think is for immigration

then she said our case was suspended,give me a paper which to explain ur case got suspended bcoz u didnt presented some required documents!

i had everything which ask me to bring on the list,

everyone knows what to do now?

we already send more picture, and i wrote a long letter

bcoz of im chinese thats why she did that or what?

we already call the departmenet of usa, and ask this, and they dont know why it happened

please help us, i cant stay this far from him anylonger

suspension???????????????????????????????????????? What is that? You are being tested like a wing on a plane seeing how far you will go to be with your loved one. I have never heard of a suspension and I am sure nobody else here has either. Get more documents and make another appointment. If they get nasty with you give them the same. Stand your ground. They want to know how serious you are. Don't threaten them, but return the favor when they get in your face. When they see you will not back down then the tide will turn in your favor. Good Luck!!!!!!!!! Get your fiance involved with his congressman too. Bring as much heat on them as you can!!!!!!!!

[realizment 18]

suspension???????????????????????????????????????? What is that? You are being tested like a wing on a plane seeing how far you will go to be with your loved one. I have never heard of a suspension and I am sure nobody else here has either. Get more documents and make another appointment. If they get nasty with you give them the same. Stand your ground. They want to know how serious you are. Don't threaten them, but return the favor when they get in your face. When they see you will not back down then the tide will turn in your favor. Good Luck!!!!!!!!! Get your fiance involved with his congressman too. Bring as much heat on them as you can!!!!!!!!

I understand your angle here, but you have to remember the power the CO holds, if you get in the face of the wrong CO no matter how far they push they can easily just deny the visa. its a risky time to test faith.. Remain as pleasant as possible but let them know you are not happy in the best way possible if that makes sense.

[Deema & Wayne 28]

I agree with that, you should remain calm, confident, don't look away or seem nervous. The questions they ask are to prove your relationship is for real, so it should be a breeze. I'm sure you can appeal or reapply; I'm sure it's difficult, all of us here have gone through some kind of separation from our loved one, good luck to you.

[Anh map 2,098]

me and my fiance didnt submit anything,

the paper she gave to me after interview is a paper have 3 reasons on it she marks the first one which said case been suspended

but she didnt mark any paper at below of it coz at interview i bring all they asked

all she said to me is to give anything that can proof our relationship is real!

the two reason case been suspended

one is she said my passport is not valid six month to entry usa, but my passport still got 7 years for valid

then she wrote down relationship appear to be for immigration suposes

and all the werid questions she been asked

help me, what i should do now

Without you giving us the exact information, no one will be able to give you specific advice.

What evidence of your relationship did you send in with the petition? Did you submit any additional evidence at the interview. What exactly (not what you think it says) does the sheet you were given say?

It would be best if you can scan the paper you were given and upload it here for us to see. Be sure to mark out the name and case number.

[Enigma11561 336]

Can they really ask or make up crazy scenarios like that? Wow!

Yes they can. And they do. The stories I have heard !!!!! As others have said, they may push the limits to determine if you are really serious. And if you are serious, don't back down. Don't be nasty, but don't back down.

[Ellewhitten 0]

Without you giving us the exact information, no one will be able to give you specific advice.

What evidence of your relationship did you send in with the petition? Did you submit any additional evidence at the interview. What exactly (not what you think it says) does the sheet you were given say?

It would be best if you can scan the paper you were given and upload it here for us to see. Be sure to mark out the name and case number.

i have to go to work now , i will put the pic on as soon as im home again!

we will try to send as more as evidence we can

after she gave me that paper, i saw her put a green blue paper on our case

is that what people saying about blue slip???

[Ellewhitten 0]

I agree with that, you should remain calm, confident, don't look away or seem nervous. The questions they ask are to prove your relationship is for real, so it should be a breeze. I'm sure you can appeal or reapply; I'm sure it's difficult, all of us here have gone through some kind of separation from our loved one, good luck to you.

i never nervous during the interview

as she told me she dont believe our relationship, i cant help that cry in fron of her

but she never really look at me once during the interview

since the first word i said to her, she dosent like me, i can tell from her face

i speak english since i was 4, i can use it very smoothly

i was thinking to send chat history, but all i can do is copy and paste

would they believe this truth not something we just made it up now?

[Casprd 167]

From Reading a previous post by the OP, it seems the petitioner wasn't very involved in the case and left a lot of the work up to the beneficiary. Not sure what is going on with that, but if so and as stated the petitioner didn't send any/much supporting evidence in then it is understandable that the VO would be skeptical. If I understand correctly the petitioner and beneficiary are actually in France which explains why the VO is asking about coming back to China.

for the OP. Let us know what was sent to USCIS and what the petitioner's involvement in the case is. Because of the foreign residency and presumably lack of evidence submitted, it may be time to talk to an immigration specialist.

[ronluvme 10]

hi,

i am so sorry to hear your situation,my opinion is follow what the CO if whatever the docu she asked to be submitted,i dont understand that atititude of CO.asking the question not related to k-1 but i guess she is trying to figure out if your just come ot us for different purpose,wipe your tears,pray and keep going,do not give up,if the relationship is REAL no need to worry,i guess its better, to collect all the papers that will shows bonafide relationship,im pretty sure they will send you another letter of any instruction about suspension,so be ready if it'll happen,its a second chance for you,

read some experiences here at VJ and im sure it will enlighted your mind,...everything will be fine,,,

femloveron

[ronluvme 10]

hi,

try to calm down,if you wnat to be with your fiance u gotta be strong,if you have phone records that you guys talked on the phone often,love letters,cards that u guys send occasionally that woould be help,the copy paste thing is kinda wierd since doesnt show the link where u guys talked,how about snail mail?is your fiance send you a flowers?thru online?if he has the receipt of that?im sure it will make sense to approve your visa,the BIG THING IS YOU HAVE TO SHOW THEM""THE REAL.BONAFIDE"relationship...

[Ellewhitten 0]

From Reading a previous post by the OP, it seems the petitioner wasn't very involved in the case and left a lot of the work up to the beneficiary. Not sure what is going on with that, but if so and as stated the petitioner didn't send any/much supporting evidence in then it is understandable that the VO would be skeptical. If I understand correctly the petitioner and beneficiary are actually in France which explains why the VO is asking about coming back to China.

for the OP. Let us know what was sent to USCIS and what the petitioner's involvement in the case is. Because of the foreign residency and presumably lack of evidence submitted, it may be time to talk to an immigration specialist.

ok, i just off the work

our petition is made by me and daniel together!

why coz for him, he's not very good at doing paper work, im afraid of he gonna made mistake or something, then i told him, when u were in france, we do it together

then i can know if he do it right or not,u know once got problem, will take more time! so the petition we made together when he was in france to visite me!

for the petition,about evident part, we added our phone bill,the gift he sent to me and the gift i sent to him,and money transfer,i think this the problem ,coz invoved money,

but not big money, u know when u serious in relationship,u will share everything, thats what we do!

when he need money, i sent, when i need money ,he send, not little money, like hundrends,not like 100000

me now in france, he still live in usa, just came here twice to be with me

and i have a dog, coz i rent home in france, but he own his, so i send dog with him at the second he was here, he back to usa with my dog,

i want him to be with me so many time, but we dont have too much money to spend on ticket and rent,

i was trying to visite him, coz he dont need to pay rent, but i tried twice b2 visa ,they all refuse me,i think this problem too

coz i had tried b2 twice,but all is for him

so right now, after the interview,

we already send more pic, and 502 pages chat history on skype

and myspace comment, facebook comment

his family will fax letter about to be our witness for our relationship

i dont know if it gonna work, but i just send everything that i can think right now

he invovled everything for our petition, just we do it together,

we both invovled! for everything!!

[Ellewhitten 0]

hi,

try to calm down,if you wnat to be with your fiance u gotta be strong,if you have phone records that you guys talked on the phone often,love letters,cards that u guys send occasionally that woould be help,the copy paste thing is kinda wierd since doesnt show the link where u guys talked,how about snail mail?is your fiance send you a flowers?thru online?if he has the receipt of that?im sure it will make sense to approve your visa,the BIG THING IS YOU HAVE TO SHOW THEM""THE REAL.BONAFIDE"relationship...

thank you so much to courage me!

he didnt send flowers to me thru online,

for our relationship, we didnt spend too much money on it, coz we need money,

we both want baby so soon, so we are saving money for our baby girl

thats why he only came to france twice, we wanna do all ,but we dont have too much money to allow us

after interview, i already send 502 pages skype chat history,myspace and facebook comment, coz it got date on it,so i cant just make it up

he do sent me love letter, and i do , but the letter is mail with gift, and the paper about k1 togther, i got the letter, do u think i scan the letter then send to them,it will works?

during the interview, she ask me if i got phone record, then i give to her

our phone record was heavy like a dictionary,coz he call me at least 10 time for everyday, everyday, never stop!

and also send me text message to my phone everyday too

but i dont know how to make it print

[Ellewhitten 0]

Without you giving us the exact information, no one will be able to give you specific advice.

What evidence of your relationship did you send in with the petition? Did you submit any additional evidence at the interview. What exactly (not what you think it says) does the sheet you were given say?

It would be best if you can scan the paper you were given and upload it here for us to see. Be sure to mark out the name and case number.

the pic is too big that i cant upload here

so i upload on facebook

this is the link

too page, back and front

thats what i got from the interview

[Hell0W0rld 10]

If the information you sent still not satisfy the VO then you would need to marry and file CR-1.