Thank you everyone

[rebeccajo 14]

It's always alarming to read of denials.

I think what might 'help' others is seeing the proof of what we have always read - the requirement to meet in person is rarely waived.

I remember a similar situation with a member - I don't recall her name - but she was also denied at the Service Center level for not having met face-to-face in the last 2 years.

She gathered her courage and flew to meet her fiance. As nearly as I know they were approved when the second petition was filed.

It also helps to realize that just because someone who filed around the same time you did got denied, that there is not now going to be a waive of denials. The hardship apparently did not meet DOS requirements to be waived and the case was most likely legitimately denied.

Unfortunately for jabree.

Well, I'm glad we got that cleared up.

My concern was that other members might read of this Service Center level denial and start to fret even more about their pending petitions. I did read a thread this morning where a member referred to this thread - she received her approval today and said that she burst into tears when she saw the notice in her e mail - that she had been even more worried since reading of jabree's denial.

I was worried about that as well. And reading that thread I remembered it... I was at work when I read it for the first time so I couldn't post a reply, but I still remember what I was gonna post though. And even though I know it won't make a big difference since she got denied, it can help someone else.

When you don't meet within the 2 years required, you have to let them know and show hardship from both sides! I know she has a medical condition that doesn't allow her to travel but maybe, and that's a big maybe as I'm not an immigration lawyer, they also wanted reasons on why he couldn't visit her where she lives (or even a closer country that she could go to, like Canada...). I take this from reading this board a lot and from 2 friends' experiences.

I guess it's just something to think about....

I hope it all works out for you and I'll be praying!

Edited September 20, 2006 by rebeccajo

[rl2009 0]

I am so sorry to here this, I know this has to be hard on you. I am exspecting a letter anyday now and now I am in great fear.

[MrMrsKnight 0]

It's always alarming to read of denials.

I think what might 'help' others is seeing the proof of what we have always read - the requirement to meet in person is rarely waived.

I remember a similar situation with a member - I don't recall her name - but she was also denied at the Service Center level for not having met face-to-face in the last 2 years.

She gathered her courage and flew to meet her fiance. As nearly as I know they were approved when the second petition was filed.

It also helps to realize that just because someone who filed around the same time you did got denied, that there is not now going to be a waive of denials. The hardship apparently did not meet DOS requirements to be waived and the case was most likely legitimately denied.

Unfortunately for jabree.

Yeah Becca, that's what I was talking about, kinda. The requirement to meet in person is almost never waived because usually the hardship comes from only one side. Sometimes it might be hard to find a way to meet, but it's possible.... that's what I meant on my previous post.

Anyway, I don't have the intention to turn this thread into a lesson or anything like that. All I want is to remind people of what I've said before and of what Becca said.... that requirement is rarely waived.

Good luck jabree

[rebeccajo 14]

Anyway, I don't have the intention to turn this thread into a lesson or anything like that. All I want is to remind people of what I've said before and of what Becca said.... that requirement is rarely waived.

Good luck jabree

It's just sad that the 'lesson' for members, if any, is at the expense of one of our own.

I am so sorry to here this, I know this has to be hard on you. I am exspecting a letter anyday now and now I am in great fear.

Why? This denial of jabree's has no bearing on your case. Chin up.

[MichelleandCraig 1]

All the very best, Jabree. I hope you find another way soon...or a way to meet up. M.

[gugu24 0]

Dear Jab...we were gone for a few days and just read your news. so sorry this happened to you. My fiance and I know how it feels to be denied after waiting so long. We pray for you that you can fight their decision. Don't ever give up. God bless you

[Teachers 12]

Dear Jabree,

I am so sorry for your denial. I hope that you and your fiance can meet soon, perhaps in Canada, and get a prompt approval.

Also, note the number of people supporting you. You are a spiritual leader of our community. We are behind you. You are not alone.

Tom

[Nagishkaw 510]

Thank you everyone again for your kind and loving words, but most importantly and especially the PRAYERS ! God Bless each and everyone of you. My prayers also for every member. I do love you all so much , what more can I say?? Well, nothing at the moment, and thats the way it should be ...God Bless !!!

Ephesians 1: 15-23.

[mybackpages 0]

I think a waiver is rarely granted but it is there as a legitimate option for the people who need it. Jabree get everytinng in order, get as much help as needed to build the case as to why you are qualified for the waiver. It may be difficult, but it is not impossible. Good luck! We are here for you.

[Nagishkaw 510]

I requested a waiver in writing along with the second RFE, however the letter of denial states I do not qualify for one. I called my Senator today, for what that is worth....tomorrow I will perhaps write the President and Miss Rice !

[babybunny 2]

I requested a waiver in writing along with the second RFE, however the letter of denial states I do not qualify for one. I called my Senator today, for what that is worth....tomorrow I will perhaps write the President and Miss Rice !

dont shoot yourself in the foot!

you really should consider going to meet your fiancee. love should take you there to him.

get with the other ladies that are traveling to Egypt to see their SOs and you travel with them

if you are afraid to travel by yourself.

[meauxna 15]

I requested a waiver in writing along with the second RFE, however the letter of denial states I do not qualify for one. I called my Senator today, for what that is worth....tomorrow I will perhaps write the President and Miss Rice !

I really don't understand your multiple posts here on this topic. What is it you want? You're told you don't qualify for the waiver, but you won't say why you think you should, and you are just posting mysterious and vague references to what you're doing.. how is your information going to benefit anyone else (purpose of sites like VJ)?

Perhaps you should just keep your intimates involved by private message or email? You clearly don't want helpful input on the topic, so again, what is it exactly that you're after?

[michellek1976 0]

I requested a waiver in writing along with the second RFE, however the letter of denial states I do not qualify for one. I called my Senator today, for what that is worth....tomorrow I will perhaps write the President and Miss Rice !

I really don't understand your multiple posts here on this topic. What is it you want? You're told you don't qualify for the waiver, but you won't say why you think you should, and you are just posting mysterious and vague references to what you're doing.. how is your information going to benefit anyone else (purpose of sites like VJ)?

Perhaps you should just keep your intimates involved by private message or email? You clearly don't want helpful input on the topic, so again, what is it exactly that you're after?

All that Jabree is asking for is our prayers. Jabree has offered much support to this community and she does not need to turn her personal case into a 'lessons learnt' workshop.

Jabree, we continue to pray for you and Hitham.

[gimygirl 0]

You clearly don't want helpful input on the topic, so again, what is it exactly that you're after?

[William33 110]

gimygirl,

You should learn when it is appropriate to apply your sarcasm.

What happened to this being a supportive site?

If you cannot offer support to Jabree during this situation, then stay out of it.

Edited September 20, 2006 by William33