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garya505   2

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Do you need us help you with a "Risks & Benefits Analysis" ??? :D

Let's say:

Risks:

1. Baby before Marriage: Big no no for some religions, then denominations

2. Visa Complication: delay your visa because the baby may come before she arrives

3. Financial burden: you two need times/money to settle down once she arrives, extra expenses in having a baby

Benefits:

1. The Joy of Sex

2. The Joy of Sex (repeat as many times as you can)

3. Reduce stress

4. Increase chance of having a baby (see Risk 1 and 3)

Add to this list if you like...

Cheers,

Chuck and Kim :thumbs:

:thumbs::thumbs::thumbs: I agree with Chuck and Kim...

I would suggest you to study more about the Philippine culture and tradition. Filipinos are very conservative! And remember that "abortion" is "illigal" in the Philippines. Still most of the filipina ladies would say no sex before marriage because of a strong religious beliefs.

The issue you shared here inVJ is too personal...

***It's you and your fiancee's choice to have or not to have sex before marriage.

***No one is perfect...!

***Think about your relationship and commitment with God! If you clearly understand what the BIBLE say, then you know the answer to your puzzling mind.

God bless,

Princess

Yes but you should know that illegal abortion is done in the Philippines and Cytotec (misoprostol) is used to induce abortions there too.

Do you think abortion is safe? That is a big "no" to me!

No, I didn't say it was safe, only that it is done illegally (and unsafely) in the Philippines. And Cytotec is a very dangerous drug when used to induce abortions, but people still use it there.

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Michelle_Otman   0

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firewalker,

in your very first post on here, you said that u think she doesn't want to have sex until u both r married.

my question is this...

----Y do u think she doesn't? with chatting with my fiancee i know how he feels, i can pretty much complete his sentences. I know what his reaction is going to be. even though he still suprizes me on that...lol... when meeting someone online its not about sex. its about communication, love, respect, ect...

however when u said u think. it just cought my eye and reading the others i say do what u and your fiancee believe in. i will tell u right now that its been a year and u can bet my sweet ### we will be getting a motel room when he flies in....lol.... dont worry i will feed him first...lol.... best of luck.. and enjoy your life together, god bless!!!!!!!!!!

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*picks up 10 foot pole. Looks at it.*

"Nah...."

*wanders back out of thread*

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
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ok , ummm ...lets just say that somethimes i get a wate and sometimes i get a will see when you get her . as in a lets do it . now , i know she is the one for me , but i also know that sex before marrying someone can cause damage . so , what should i do ? i want to have sex , yet i alsowant to please my lord . its like a fight , and i think she may think the sameway . will , i just dont knowwhat elese too say .

This is a delimea and a religious test i would have failed. But thanks for the laughs this morning, my side hurts... after a 13 hours shift I needed this. Goodluck in whatever u decide. Payato

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"What would Jesus do?" Many years ago, my pastor told me to ask myself that when I asked him how to make a difficult decision. It has been my guide ever since.

July 7, 2004 - Met Aimee in a chatroom

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June 9, 2010</ - Treygan Isaiah is born

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No lawyers and no problems

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"What would Jesus do?" Many years ago, my pastor told me to ask myself that when I asked him how to make a difficult decision. It has been my guide ever since.

Ask Mary Magdalene. I bet she could tell you some stories.....

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
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mmb   0

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we are supose to please God...not man.

Well, I don't believe in god, so I'll just continue to please myself thank you very much.

Oooh, after reading that back it sounds really naughty.... :lol::devil:

That doesn't seem naughty, it just looks like you're still waiting for a visa.

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Consulate : London, United Kingdom

I-129F Sent : 2006-09-26

I-129F NOA1 : 2006-09-28

I-129F RFE(s) :

RFE Reply(s) :

I-129F NOA2 : 2006-10-18

NVC Received : 2006-10-20

NVC Left : 2006-10-23

Consulate Received :

Packet 3 Received : 2006-11-06

Packet 3 Sent : 2006-12-02

Packet 4 Received : 2006-12-07

Interview Date : 2007-01-31

Visa Received : 2007-02-03

US Entry : 2007-03-06

Marriage : 2007-03-30

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KarenCee   3

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Hooo boy! These threads get more hilarious as the days go by.

Not to tease the OP by no means, but....WHY in god's name would you post a question like this on a PUBLIC forum?

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