sex before marrying ?

[Matt_Stevens 5]

There are some posts veering towards bashing here. Have respect for your religious brothers and sisters.

[garya505 2]

Is this about sex with your fiance, or sex with someone else while you are engaged?

[chuckandkim 0]

Is this about sex with your fiance, or sex with someone else while you are engaged?

I guess firewalker is talking about his fiance and himself....

[CancelAccount 0]

There are some posts veering towards bashing here. Have respect for your religious brothers and sisters.

I agree. I am religous and do things in a religous way. But I usually attempt to give real/logical advice without a religous or a politically correct viewpoint.

I am sorry if I offended anyone.

[patricks 0]

Sorry Matt:

"YOUR religious brothers and sisters"

They're NOT my brother or sister..........

[meauxna 15]

If you have to ask: wait.

You & your peers will just crucify (oops, bad word choice?) you later.

[chuckandkim 0]

Do you need us help you with a "Risks & Benefits Analysis" ???

Let's say:

Risks:

1. Baby before Marriage: Big no no for some religions, then denominations

2. Visa Complication: delay your visa because the baby may come before she arrives

3. Financial burden: you two need times/money to settle down once she arrives, extra expenses in having a baby

Benefits:

1. The Joy of Sex

2. The Joy of Sex (repeat as many times as you can)

3. Reduce stress

4. Increase chance of having a baby (see Risk 1 and 3)

Add to this list if you like...

Cheers,

Chuck and Kim

[garya505 2]

Does oral count as "sex"?

[CancelAccount 0]

Does oral count as "sex"?

According to President Clinton....NO!!!

[ScottandLoreli 0]

[meauxna 15]

Does oral count as "sex"?

According to President Clinton....NO!!!

yeah yeah yeah

I was going to answer more contemporarily that high school students don't seem to think so....

[kirk and Jenny 0]

The visa and culture things make this a hard question. My fiancee was married when I met her. She had not seen her husband in four years. It took us 6 months to get this situation taken care of because in the Philippines divorce is illegal. Then there was the visa thing. We would have gotten married right at that time but we heard that the fiancee visa was a quicker means of entry into the United States. If she gets turned down for her visa, I will fly over there and marry her right away.

Before we had sex I had proposed and she had accepted. Though not sanctioned by the state, i considered myself married to her at that time.

I wouldn't want to put my values system here on others; this is a highly personal choice between two individuals who are special to each other.

[PrinceandPrincess 0]

Do you need us help you with a "Risks & Benefits Analysis" ???

Let's say:

Risks:

1. Baby before Marriage: Big no no for some religions, then denominations

2. Visa Complication: delay your visa because the baby may come before she arrives

3. Financial burden: you two need times/money to settle down once she arrives, extra expenses in having a baby

Benefits:

1. The Joy of Sex

2. The Joy of Sex (repeat as many times as you can)

3. Reduce stress

4. Increase chance of having a baby (see Risk 1 and 3)

Add to this list if you like...

Cheers,

Chuck and Kim

I agree with Chuck and Kim...

I would suggest you to study more about the Philippine culture and tradition. Filipinos are very conservative! And remember that "abortion" is "illigal" in the Philippines. Still most of the filipina ladies would say no sex before marriage because of a strong religious beliefs.

The issue you shared here inVJ is too personal...

***It's you and your fiancee's choice to have or not to have sex before marriage.

***No one is perfect...!

***Think about your relationship and commitment with God! If you clearly understand what the BIBLE say, then you know the answer to your puzzling mind.

God bless,

Princess

[garya505 2]

Do you need us help you with a "Risks & Benefits Analysis" ???

Let's say:

Risks:

1. Baby before Marriage: Big no no for some religions, then denominations

2. Visa Complication: delay your visa because the baby may come before she arrives

3. Financial burden: you two need times/money to settle down once she arrives, extra expenses in having a baby

Benefits:

1. The Joy of Sex

2. The Joy of Sex (repeat as many times as you can)

3. Reduce stress

4. Increase chance of having a baby (see Risk 1 and 3)

Add to this list if you like...

Cheers,

Chuck and Kim

I agree with Chuck and Kim...

I would suggest you to study more about the Philippine culture and tradition. Filipinos are very conservative! And remember that "abortion" is "illigal" in the Philippines. Still most of the filipina ladies would say no sex before marriage because of a strong religious beliefs.

The issue you shared here inVJ is too personal...

***It's you and your fiancee's choice to have or not to have sex before marriage.

***No one is perfect...!

***Think about your relationship and commitment with God! If you clearly understand what the BIBLE say, then you know the answer to your puzzling mind.

God bless,

Princess

Yes but you should know that illegal abortion is done in the Philippines and Cytotec (misoprostol) is used to induce abortions there too.

[PrinceandPrincess 0]

Do you need us help you with a "Risks & Benefits Analysis" ???

Let's say:

Risks:

1. Baby before Marriage: Big no no for some religions, then denominations

2. Visa Complication: delay your visa because the baby may come before she arrives

3. Financial burden: you two need times/money to settle down once she arrives, extra expenses in having a baby

Benefits:

1. The Joy of Sex

2. The Joy of Sex (repeat as many times as you can)

3. Reduce stress

4. Increase chance of having a baby (see Risk 1 and 3)

Add to this list if you like...

Cheers,

Chuck and Kim

I agree with Chuck and Kim...

I would suggest you to study more about the Philippine culture and tradition. Filipinos are very conservative! And remember that "abortion" is "illigal" in the Philippines. Still most of the filipina ladies would say no sex before marriage because of a strong religious beliefs.

The issue you shared here inVJ is too personal...

***It's you and your fiancee's choice to have or not to have sex before marriage.

***No one is perfect...!

***Think about your relationship and commitment with God! If you clearly understand what the BIBLE say, then you know the answer to your puzzling mind.

God bless,

Princess

Yes but you should know that illegal abortion is done in the Philippines and Cytotec (misoprostol) is used to induce abortions there too.

Do you think abortion is safe? That is a big "no" to me!