sex before marrying ?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

And to add to your point...There are probably just as many failed marriages because sex was lousy or nonexistent...

Following that logic, couples who married after test driving have no excuse for divorcing.

maybe the car is wore out from all the test drives

Yep, time to see how much you can get for your trade-in on a new model and more test driving!

Let's wear this metaphor out . . .

[Alex+R 0]

And to add to your point...There are probably just as many failed marriages because sex was lousy or nonexistent...

Following that logic, couples who married after test driving have no excuse for divorcing.

Um, no, following that logic, sex can be one reason. That doesn't mean other things can't be a reason too. You said you had a PhD?

[NYGirl 0]

ok , ummm ...lets just say that somethimes i get a wate and sometimes i get a will see when you get her . as in a lets do it . now , i know she is the one for me , but i also know that sex before marrying someone can cause damage . so , what should i do ? i want to have sex , yet i alsowant to please my lord . its like a fight , and i think she may think the sameway . will , i just dont knowwhat elese too say .

This post belongs in the Doctor Phil forum

[Velvettt 0]

Can't figure out how I missed this one first time around. I really don't post very often, as you can tell by my membership status after 3 yrs here. I do, however, read it frequently.

I've learned a lot from being here, not including the immigration info.

There are a lot of people who hold views and beliefs that just boggle my mind. I sit here and read while my jaw drops and my eyes bug out.

It's just too bad that my popcorn fingers make my keyboard greasy.

Some threads leave me certain that this whole forum is an entertaining fake. This is one. I'm afraid it has strained my credulity past tolerance.

Recap for anyone who hasn't read the whole thread: we have a marginally literate American man, in his thirties, who has never had sex and wants advice on whether or not to have sex with his fiancee. We have the religious fundamentalists, both Christian and Muslim, earnestly exhorting him to wait. We have the more middle-of-the-road crowd saying "go for it". Then we have an immigrant partner taking umbrage at the religious right crowd for insinuating that her lovemaking is somehow tarnished.

Gawwwwwd, I love this forum.

Edited January 25, 2007 by Velvettt

[mRx 16]

this topic is so old, im sure the OP has already had sex

[heishe 2]

lol

[bostonparis 0]

I haven't read the entire thread, but like the recap.

this topic is so old, im sure the OP has already had sex