How much is to much?

[anya-D 8]

well.. while we were apart mostly we talked on the phone.. early in the morning for me (before work) and before i go to bed. I dont like it if he called me while i was sleeping (and if he know that i was sleeping) and I would tell him that i'm sleeping and will talk another time. Also he would do the same (for he he a very light sleeper and has a difficulty in sleeping) It's ok once in a while and it's ok just to say good night and in the emergency (important) or that I asked him to call me eventhough he know i'd be sleeping (like if he had a trip and i' want to know if he'safe.) But if it happened everynight I'd be quite upset. (Thanks goodness he didnt do it )

[CarolineM 0]

When we were apart we had a routine. I would call him RIGHT when I woke up (and I got up EARLY for work) when he was just going to work... He would work the overnight shift at work sometimes which was good because we'd work at the same time...

Then i'd call when I got off work to tell him good night...then he'd sleep for a bit and call me before I went to bed...

At least 3-4 times a day...every day. I never thought it was too much!! Wow...it's weird to think back on those days now that he's here....but that was what we did.

[Bootylicious!! 2]

When Javier was in Mexico we talked every day, two to three times a day. He called me when he got up if it was before I went to lunch. If I went to lunch first I called him. Then, sometimes, if I had something to tell him, I would call him after work. Usually I waited until I was getting ready to go to sleep at night to call. I ended up doing most of the calling. Now since he's home we talk every day at lunch time. If he doesn't call me before I go back to work, I call him. If I have something important to tell him or ask him I call him. We send text messages back and forth if we want to say Hi, I love you, I miss you, etc.