i miss the philippines

[LasVegasUSA 0]

Homesickness is killing me right now..... I miss my family.. My friends... My Life.. ='(

masasanay ka din....

sorry di ko nabasa ung last msg mo about ur hubby...sorry for that, maybe he has problems only, try to talk about it, ask and listen to him. Hope you guys are doing good now. Take care and always pray.

[LasVegasUSA 0]

he eats outside.. he just bought me some crackers.. yeah.. i'm scared of him anymore.. i've known him for 2 years..

he said i'm just here because of green card and stuff out of no where.. i'd rather get home.. i can't stand his emotionally abusive behavior

you have an access to internet...try to email your family back home, am sure that they would surely help you. Im pretty sure that your husband has no plan to apply for your gc based on what you are experiencing now. As a k-1 like you, u'l only allowed of a 90 days stay here in US without gc, after that youl be out of status or will be deported. Im sorry to hear about your sad experience, im so lucky to have my husband, I haven't been yelled since I became a wife and a mother. I'l pray for your safety friend!

[katzie 0]

yeah.. you arelucky...

i'm sending emails to my relative already..

[katzie 0]

the thing is.. we are already married...

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

the thing is.. we are already married...

If he is abusing you, get out of there, go to the neighbors and call 911.

Edited August 20, 2011 by Crusty Old Perv

[katzie 0]

maybe you are emotionally abusive too..

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

maybe you are emotionally abusive too..

OK ...time to call an excorcist?

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

OK ...time to call an excorcist?

Or the Game Warden.

[katzie 0]

no need sir, and thnx for reading my comment for her, no need for you to refrain. and correction pls, not 2 bags full of fave pinoy foods! Give a guess if what? ble!

nasa las vegas ka ba ngayon? baka pupunta muna ako sa aunt ko diyan bago ako umuwi..

[Dan and Judy 614]

the situation you described is dangerous. You seem to be a sensitive girl. Would you prefer that Some of the Filipinas here start a personal conversation with you. So you can discuss this in private?

[Loolie 56]

here's what really happened.. i married and loved a guy whom i thought he is.. 2 days after our marriage, he yelled at me called me ######.. shouting nasty rude stuff about filipina..he acted so weired..threw his stuff around and accidentally hit my feet with a thing.. i'm so scared.. i'm leaving in a room far from the city.. no public transportation..he doesn't even buy me foods.. i'm so lost right now... i wanna go home.

just wondering...why did he yell at you? did you do something or say something that can make him so mad like that?

[katzie 0]

just wondering...why did he yell at you? did you do something or say something that can make him so mad like that?

i have my period.. menstrual cramping.. and he wants to do it.. it ended up yelling, ang throwing things... telling me that he'll send me home and can do that anytime.. sabi ko di niya kailangang gawin yon.. uwi na lang ako..

[LasVegasUSA 0]

nasa las vegas ka ba ngayon? baka pupunta muna ako sa aunt ko diyan bago ako umuwi..

Yap...nasa Vegas ako, pero 26th of this month flight ko for Pinas, antay ko ang pista sa amin b4 ako bumalik dito, pero dito na ako sa 15th of Sept, baka merong comm kc na dumating from uscis, kc 2 months na ung biometric ko that time. Buti naman at meron kang auntie dito, kahit papano may matatakbuhan ka if ever merong mga unexpected na mangyayari. Pero sana maayos niyo ang problem niyo kc sayang naman pinagsamahan niyo plus yong mga nagastos ng husband mo then mawawala lang bigla dahil lang sa maliit na bagay...at saka, pag galit yong asawa mo, be calm lang muna, wag mo siyang sabayan..pag sinabi niyang pauwiin ka, wag mong sabihing uuwi ka...kc natatamaan yong ego nila, mas lumalala ang problem, mas mabuti pa ikaw unang gumawa ng move para maayos niyo yan, kc ung mga guys minsan nahihiya silang unang makipagbati, try mong ikaw ang makipagbati. Pag nagawi ka dito, pwede mo akong puntahan pag available time ko pag andito ka na, kc work ko start ng 8am-4pm, off ko lang ngayon kc nagkaroon ako ng knee surgery, pero Sept 20th, back to work ako...ingat ka lang always.

[Loolie 56]

i have my period.. menstrual cramping.. and he wants to do it.. it ended up yelling, ang throwing things... telling me that he'll send me home and can do that anytime.. sabi ko di niya kailangang gawin yon.. uwi na lang ako..

Ah ganun ba... Well im sure maayos pa yan... Its a very small issue na napapalaki lng... Dapat just learn to adjust hindi yung bigla bigla na lng mag alsa balutan and end the relationship. And honestly hindi sa forum makikita ang solution ng problema mo... Alam naman natin yung solution eh ayaw lng natin gawin minsan maybe bcoz of pride, anger, and anything... Kaya goodluck.

[Messybrownhair 251]

i have my period.. menstrual cramping.. and he wants to do it.. it ended up yelling, ang throwing things... telling me that he'll send me home and can do that anytime.. sabi ko di niya kailangang gawin yon.. uwi na lang ako..

So because you refused to have intimate relations with him because of your period, he accused of you of using him for a GC and is withholding food from you?? Sounds like abuse to me. But I only know one side of the story.. So if this is the case then protect yourself. Goodluck!