Used me for green card

[Fandango 1,440]

Wow sounds horrible...I'm sorry you are going through this.

You signed the deed over? I'd be calling a lawyer rig about now.

I'd also be collecting as much evidence as possible. It's not so much about what happened as it is about what you van prove happened.

Where are you now? Where is he?

[blackrose 0]

Wow sounds horrible...I'm sorry you are going through this.

You signed the deed over? I'd be calling a lawyer rig about now.

I'd also be collecting as much evidence as possible. It's not so much about what happened as it is about what you van prove happened.

Where are you now? Where is he?

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Hi to all,

long story short,My husband came here from Turkey April 2010,commited spousal abuse on me in june and july,was beating me everyday since he stepped foot in america..He was arrested 2 times, hes been to mental hospital too.

I withdrew his petition 2 months after he arrived because I had a feeling he was just using me.He put me in jail 3 times by telling the courts it was me who was beating him up,and he had taken all my proof so I was the one going to jail for false spousal abuse.I am now getting a divorce.Hwe is now trying to get half my home after he forced me to sighn deed sept 2010 jointly,I have the proof and will show in court,but it will take 1 year for the divorce,so I hope I can still reverse it after I tell my story in divorce court.I want to write to immigration to try to deport him after all the abuse and lies and all he did to me since he got to america.Who do I sent the proof too? Do I sent it to the office that will give him an interview for his permannent green card,hes on a conditional till august 2012?Or do I sent the proof to the people that gave him the visa?Uscis? I need help please anything information is really appreciated,this man does not belong here!!He scammmed me almost killed me and got away with it all in court and I never got to show proof..

Thankyou so much....

My heart goes out to you. I hope this works out for you but to reiterate what has been posted by so many of my fellow VJers, you should try to document everything that you can. I can't imagine what you must be going through but whether or not he used you for a green card, he is a controlling abusive MONSTER. Get away from him before he kills you. He might be trying to use the VAWA battered spouse route on you, i.e. USC battered me. It is in your best interest to get police records and save all documentation (pictures, documents, recordings, etc.) in a safe place or with a trusted friend. Please be careful (is he monitoring this comunication?) and if there is anything you need we're here for you. (F)

Edited August 2, 2011 by IR5FORMUMSIE

[blackrose 0]

Hi to all and thankyou so much for everything.I thankyou for all your prayers and blessings.i tried to email ICE but the email does not work,also I reported him 4 months ago and never heard anything,but I did talk to someone..I am going to make an info pass right now!

I found out a processor is trying to serve me 2 days ago.Even though I am in another state now.I have been here for 7 weeks. I had to leave because this man all he was trying to do is ruin my life even more,he put me in jail again.I did 10 days right before I got here. My husband told the courts I had violated a restraint order and since I couldnt prove he that he took me to the house by force and started beating me again and breaking everything in the house and then he took photos and he even hurt himself and told courts I tried to kill him with a knife,and in court he showed a fork,again I went to jail.He showed the judge small bruises on his neck! My god,and I couldnt even show all the things he did to me because it wasnt the date that it happened! I had to show what happned the day of thr violation,I couldnt show anything prior or before this!I was devistated.My husband knew thsat if I violated a restraint order I would go to prison for 5 years! You ask why I am on probation?Because first time he got arrested he had put 2 kinds of pills in my purse,and I got the blame for it,not knowing how they got there,I dont do drugs.My lawyer was no good and I got convicted,and they put me on probation for 2 years which I have done 1 so far.I had no crininal background what so ever,never!

I was a security officer for 30 years,and you cant have a criminal back ground,so they took my license away.And I not only lost my license but my job too.I had no money,still dont,and im on food stamps.My mother has been trying to help me as much as she can and my bother too.Its not easy finding a job with this back ground.And never doing anything but security since I was 18.I had a great job,a home woth no mortgage,a car and I had a good life,good credit.And I lost it all because I brought this man to the states believing he loved me so much.This man stoled my passport ,my clothes.Damaged my car,hurt my dog,broke my finger,kicked me,beat me,smothered me with a pillow while he was beating me,held a knife to me,left me with no electric,no water,I lived in my car for 3 weeks cause when he had a restraint order on me,and I didnt yet,he was comijg to the house terrorizing me.The police did nothing,the judges did nothing,I had no justice,they were protecting him! Thye believed a 27 year old man ,six foot three! And Im 53,5 foot four! fifty three years old!

I lost 20 pounds thru all the suffering an abuse.I cant sleep and im so devistated that here I am suffering still and hes in my home,yes the judge gave him my home untill we grt the divorce,and hes been seen with other woman and going to 5 star restaurants.Hes got money,his family is wealthy and they send him money all the time.They have seen him shopping,and he also bought a car!He used to tell ploice and the courts that I was starving him to death! And that I wasnt taking care of him! That he had no money to survive!

He wouldnt even pay for gas in my car when we were together,I did it all cause I was a foool!

Question,

I know hes trying to get me served for somthing,I think its from immigration cause my lawyer cant find anything under civil in the public search.Hes eitehr trying trying to sue me for money which he cant I withdrew petiton long ago,or hes trying to serve me to go to court to tell them I abused him,and try to get his permanent green card.If I dont get served,can he still get his green card?

P.S ,To all from Turkey,I dont believe that all Turkish men are like the one I married.I know there are some good men out there,and I dont believe that a man is bad because they were born in a certain country,there are bad people everywhere.I just picked the wrong one.This man was greedy and selfish and I never saw it cause I was too much in love and blind to see evil.

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[blackrose 0]

1) Domestic abuse - you did the right thing by reporting to the police. Now he has arrest records. I am sure this will be coming up during interview for green card.

So you let the law and court take care of itself. I am sure that someone with criminal records, it won't be easy to get green card.

2) Divorce - I really thing that you should seek a legal help. Divorce is not simply saying good bye. IF there are assets, like house and etc such things can get complicated.

When you do contact USCIC , try to provide all court documents and police reports.

Also I am not quiet sure if this is a fraud. Did he tell you that he is going to leave you after green card? A reasonable person who is really seeking a green card would not go thru all these troubles (beat you, get arrested) to make it harder to get it down the road.

A reasonable way to get a green card is to live with you with a hidden life until gets green card and ask for divorce.

I really feel like ur husband has issues and even more so considering he has been sicked into hospital. He has anger issues.. maybe drinking issues? He needs help too.

But I think best way for you is to remove from in that unsafe environment and stay in safer area. Also consider putting a retraining order against him.

[blackrose 0]

Hi again,

when he was arrested 2 times ,he was let go both times,he answered his excuse for what happned and they let him go and he was never convicted.Will it still be hard for him to get a green card at the interview in March??

I also had restraint order on him but since I couldnt go to court,they took it off him even with my laywer being present.Now I have no restraint order,but hes trying to file another motion to put it back.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Hi to all and thankyou so much for everything.I thankyou for all your prayers and blessings.i tried to email ICE but the email does not work,also I reported him 4 months ago and never heard anything,but I did talk to someone..I am going to make an info pass right now!

I found out a processor is trying to serve me 2 days ago.Even though I am in another state now.I have been here for 7 weeks. I had to leave because this man all he was trying to do is ruin my life even more,he put me in jail again.I did 10 days right before I got here. My husband told the courts I had violated a restraint order and since I couldnt prove he that he took me to the house by force and started beating me again and breaking everything in the house and then he took photos and he even hurt himself and told courts I tried to kill him with a knife,and in court he showed a fork,again I went to jail.He showed the judge small bruises on his neck! My god,and I couldnt even show all the things he did to me because it wasnt the date that it happened! I had to show what happned the day of thr violation,I couldnt show anything prior or before this!I was devistated.My husband knew thsat if I violated a restraint order I would go to prison for 5 years! You ask why I am on probation?Because first time he got arrested he had put 2 kinds of pills in my purse,and I got the blame for it,not knowing how they got there,I dont do drugs.My lawyer was no good and I got convicted,and they put me on probation for 2 years which I have done 1 so far.I had no crininal background what so ever,never!

I was a security officer for 30 years,and you cant have a criminal back ground,so they took my license away.And I not only lost my license but my job too.I had no money,still dont,and im on food stamps.My mother has been trying to help me as much as she can and my bother too.Its not easy finding a job with this back ground.And never doing anything but security since I was 18.I had a great job,a home woth no mortgage,a car and I had a good life,good credit.And I lost it all because I brought this man to the states believing he loved me so much.This man stoled my passport ,my clothes.Damaged my car,hurt my dog,broke my finger,kicked me,beat me,smothered me with a pillow while he was beating me,held a knife to me,left me with no electric,no water,I lived in my car for 3 weeks cause when he had a restraint order on me,and I didnt yet,he was comijg to the house terrorizing me.The police did nothing,the judges did nothing,I had no justice,they were protecting him! Thye believed a 27 year old man ,six foot three! And Im 53,5 foot four! fifty three years old!

I lost 20 pounds thru all the suffering an abuse.I cant sleep and im so devistated that here I am suffering still and hes in my home,yes the judge gave him my home untill we grt the divorce,and hes been seen with other woman and going to 5 star restaurants.Hes got money,his family is wealthy and they send him money all the time.They have seen him shopping,and he also bought a car!He used to tell ploice and the courts that I was starving him to death! And that I wasnt taking care of him! That he had no money to survive!

He wouldnt even pay for gas in my car when we were together,I did it all cause I was a foool!

Question,

I know hes trying to get me served for somthing,I think its from immigration cause my lawyer cant find anything under civil in the public search.Hes eitehr trying trying to sue me for money which he cant I withdrew petiton long ago,or hes trying to serve me to go to court to tell them I abused him,and try to get his permanent green card.If I dont get served,can he still get his green card?

P.S ,To all from Turkey,I dont believe that all Turkish men are like the one I married.I know there are some good men out there,and I dont believe that a man is bad because they were born in a certain country,there are bad people everywhere.I just picked the wrong one.This man was greedy and selfish and I never saw it cause I was too much in love and blind to see evil.

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I am sorry and yes I believe you. I am so sorry all of this happened to you and yes, I have been the victim of similar things. You need to talk to legal aid and explain your sitution. Please please please contact homeland security and look to see if you can find a sympathetic officer from ICE to talk to .. You need to get yourself together and go find someone in immigration enforcement and talk to them. It might not help that much but you need to tell your story in its entirety to someone who works at Homeland Security. I am so so sorry.

LADIES THIS IS WHY THE CONSULATES ARE SO TOUGH

Hi again,

when he was arrested 2 times ,he was let go both times,he answered his excuse for what happned and they let him go and he was never convicted.Will it still be hard for him to get a green card at the interview in March??

I also had restraint order on him but since I couldnt go to court,they took it off him even with my laywer being present.Now I have no restraint order,but hes trying to file another motion to put it back.

Why did you add him to the title of your house? Your house has depreciated in value by the way as have all houses... From the time you married to the time you will divorce it will go down further. Please talk to a local battered womens shelter and tell them your story.. There has got to be a solution

[Kathryn41 3,205]

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[rika60607 215]

Black rose,

you need two good lawyers (good divorce lawyer more important, IMO), because you do not understand the procedures. You had a bad one last time, and look how that turned out for you.

USCIS lady already told you that you did not succeed in withdrawing your affidavit of support, because if you did, he would not have a conditional GC now.

He does not need anything from you to get a permanent GC (except a divorce). He is probably trying to serve you something in connection with divorce OR he is trying to intimidate you through knowing where you are. Good luck and stay safe. You really do need professional help right now - there is no reason he should get anything in divorce from you.

I know hes trying to get me served for somthing,I think its from immigration cause my lawyer cant find anything under civil in the public search.Hes eitehr trying trying to sue me for money which he cant I withdrew petiton long ago,or hes trying to serve me to go to court to tell them I abused him,and try to get his permanent green card.If I dont get served,can he still get his green card?