Is this blackmail?

[mustafa1232 3]

Yeah, it's weird to me too! I don't understand their logic behind this either. They have a copy of my passport with the stamps, they want to know how I paid for the trips.

hi talennawaz because terrorisium involment in most of the countries embassy consular officer doubtful about your 4 four trips to pakistan he want to know who is funding you for that 4 four trips to pakistan what is the purpose behind your trips to pakistan where you stay which people you meet at that time when you stay in pakistan in which pakistan city you travel a lot because consular officer know about your past financially history at that time when you visit to pakistan you are not financially to strong in other words you are not rich at that time if your xfriend or xyz help you financially or funding you for the ticket what is the status of xfriend or xyz person what is the back ground previous history of xfriend or xyz person is xfriend or xyz person involve in suspious activitity or any drug cartel group activity or if xyz person or xfriend financially is not to strong so in that case who is the person back or behind of the xyz person funding and or xyz person involve in money laundering or any terrorist activity or xyz person involve any drug supply activity consular officer very doubtful about petationer 4 trips to pakistan why petationer cannot give complete details about her 4 trips to his husband with evidence and proof consular officer very very doubtful about petationer trips why petationer cannot give details to his husband about her trips to pakistan and why benificery have no secrets about her wife previous life that why consular officer doubtful about husband and wife relationship the logic is simple if husband and wife love each other there is no secret between husband and wife

[talean nawaz 41]

hi talennawaz because terrorisium involment in most of the countries embassy consular officer doubtful about your 4 four trips to pakistan he want to know who is funding you for that 4 four trips to pakistan what is the purpose behind your trips to pakistan where you stay which people you meet at that time when you stay in pakistan in which pakistan city you travel a lot because consular officer know about your past financially history at that time when you visit to pakistan you are not financially to strong in other words you are not rich at that time if your xfriend or xyz help you financially or funding you for the ticket what is the status of xfriend or xyz person what is the back ground previous history of xfriend or xyz person is xfriend or xyz person involve in suspious activitity or any drug cartel group activity or if xyz person or xfriend financially is not to strong so in that case who is the person back or behind of the xyz person funding and or xyz person involve in money laundering or any terrorist activity or xyz person involve any drug supply activity consular officer very doubtful about petationer 4 trips to pakistan why petationer cannot give complete details about her 4 trips to his husband with evidence and proof consular officer very very doubtful about petationer trips why petationer cannot give details to his husband about her trips to pakistan and why benificery have no secrets about her wife previous life that why consular officer doubtful about husband and wife relationship the logic is simple if husband and wife love each other there is no secret between husband and wife

There are no secrets, I just did not think to keep the receipts. He knows how all my trips were paid for. I had no idea I would meet Hassan at that time. Why would I keep something I did not know I would need?

[mustafa1232 3]

There are no secrets, I just did not think to keep the receipts. He knows how all my trips were paid for. I had no idea I would meet Hassan at that time. Why would I keep something I did not know I would need?

hi talen nawaz i think your husband have no knowledge about her wife previous life if your husband have a complete knowledge about you and your ex friend and your ex husband he have no problem to face consular officer confidently because if your husband have a complete knowledge about your 4 four visits trips to pakistan your husband easily passed his interview with consular officer and consular officer have no objection to approved your husband interview without demand any proof and evidence because bear in mind one think consular officer is a very very busy man he have no time to demand benificery any unnecessary proof or evidence untill benificery cannot give correct and satified answer to consular officer if benificery unsure about his answer or nerveous unconfident and make bad face immpression in front of the consular officer then in that situtation only consular officer doubt ful about the benificery answer so in that case only consular officer is so demanding and ask benificery about the proof and evidence other wise consular officer never never ask about the proof and evidence if your husband during is interview with consular officer give reliable and satisfied and confident answer to consular officer about your 4 visit trips to paskistan iam dam and 100 percent sure consular officer never ever ask or demand any proof and evidence to your husband i tell you my own personal experience when consular officer ask me when you calling land line or mobile call to your wife in usa and i give answer to consular officer i call and talk to my wife in usa before i deposit my mobile in security check post. but when i realized and things about my answer i realized that my answer is not correct because after this question consular officer continue and ask me some other question and after some time later consular officer suddenly ask me and demand me calls record proof here is the question mark why consular officer ask me and demand me calls record proof because consular officer cannot satisfied with my answer and iam unable to satisfied him properly and my wrong answer create reason in the consular officer mind about evidence and proof that why he demand calls record here is the right answer if i give this answer to consular officer. i call and talk to my wife in usa twice a week or i call and talk to my wife in usa 5 to 6 time in a month and iam dam and 100 percent sure consular officer never ever ask or demand any call record to me and when i talk and discuss some people every person say to me yes this is the reliable proper and satisified answer and consular officer have no any objection to demand you any call record proof or evidence to you

[TBoneTX 46,276]

Friend Mustafa:

Happy birthday. If you are coming to the U.S., please remember that we use punctuation marks here!

[Terca 6]

wow

[TBoneTX 46,276]

Nobody was bashing your English, they were just letting you know with added punctuation marks it would be easier to read No need to get SO defensive

Si, man. For Mustafa's information, I'm the USC. People learn English in Ecuador but can't get enough practice, so sometimes their skills evaporate.

[SuperDuper! 230]

wow

And double wow on the communication breakdown here. Therefore, IBTL!

[Rainbow Medallion 2]

I don't think its a great degree of age difference, we are both in our 20's... im a bit older, but im still in my 20's. no, i dont have any children from the previous marriage, i found out towards the end of the marriage that i have polycystic ovarian syndrome and we started to try, but then the problems started, so im grateful there. My ex, i met in japan... he was born in pakistan though. I actuallly obtained a residence visa, same idea of a green card, in japan through him. Its a long story why i went to pakistan after my divorce, maybe a story for another time and i dont want to divulge too much info anyway. i think i may consult an attorney...

ex sent a very brief email today agreeing to send a notorized letter "within a month."

Try to give out less information about yourself here and focus it towards somebody who can help you that you know and trust. Secondly, try to gather your information without your ex he seems like a real "piece of work". I would just go ahead and research it myself if I were you and try to get an attorney if you can. If you can not get the attorney then try not to put too much strength into getting things from your ex. Also, I can tell you that exes generally do not like the idea that you have remarried. I mean why would he try to help you, you are his ex and you are not on good terms. He seems like trouble leave him in his placwe and go about all of this "on your own". Good luck!

I don't think its a great degree of age difference, we are both in our 20's... im a bit older, but im still in my 20's. no, i dont have any children from the previous marriage, i found out towards the end of the marriage that i have polycystic ovarian syndrome and we started to try, but then the problems started, so im grateful there. My ex, i met in japan... he was born in pakistan though. I actuallly obtained a residence visa, same idea of a green card, in japan through him. Its a long story why i went to pakistan after my divorce, maybe a story for another time and i dont want to divulge too much info anyway. i think i may consult an attorney...

ex sent a very brief email today agreeing to send a notorized letter "within a month."

Try to give out less information about yourself here and focus it towards somebody who can help you that you know and trust. Secondly, try to gather your information without your ex he seems like a real "piece of work". I would just go ahead and research it myself if I were you and try to get an attorney if you can. If you can not get the attorney then try not to put too much strength into getting things from your ex. Also, I can tell you that exes generally do not like the idea that you have remarried. I mean why would he try to help you, you are his ex and you are not on good terms. He seems like trouble leave him in his placwe and go about all of this "on your own". Good luck!

[Ban Hammer 13,643]

several off topic posts have been removed. one quoting returned below:

This thread seems to have got way off topic. Debating literacy levels, copying and pasting facts from the internet, and making assumptions and accusations. eek!

Nobody was bashing your English, they were just letting you know with added punctuation marks it would be easier to read No need to get SO defensive

keep in mind that when posting, paragraphs and punctuation can help get your information across. not using them causes a reader to fixate on the lack thereof rather than the question(s). reading that wall of post above made my eyes