EWTN

[jrmejia 31]

Hello VJ_ers,

Sometimes at work, I like to listen to EWTN to listen to their catholic programming.

They have all sort of programming. I like the talk show where psychologies try to help callers from a catholic point of view.

A caller called yesterday and I like to know if the caller uses this forum. Why am I asking this question? His introduction was "Hello this is John, I have a wonderful fiancee from the PI. Soon she will be coming to USA ..then he continues by saying my problem is ......."

By the way for those who cares EWTN is a catholic programming station. They are on the internet, Television channels, and radio stations.

Respect your first wife as if she will be your last one!

[rheanick 42]

Hello VJ_ers,

Sometimes at work, I like to listen to EWTN to listen to their catholic programming.

They have all sort of programming. I like the talk show where psychologies try to help callers from a catholic point of view.

A caller called yesterday and I like to know if the caller uses this forum. Why am I asking this question? His introduction was "Hello this is John, I have a wonderful fiancee from the PI. Soon she will be coming to USA ..then he continues by saying my problem is ......."

By the way for those who cares EWTN is a catholic programming station. They are on the internet, Television channels, and radio stations.

Respect your first wife as if she will be your last one!

So what is the sense of posting this thread? Any purpose on pointing this out?

[jrmejia 31]

So what is the sense of posting this thread? Any purpose on pointing this out?

Just curious if the caller post here. Nothing major

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Respect your first wife as if she will be your last one!

The perfection/respect of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage.",

@ OP, to do realize or even care how disrespectful and insulting these two statements of your are to others?

Honestly it's not that a care one little bit if you respect me or not, you've proven to be the kind of person who's opinion carries no weight in my life. I'll point out the error in those statements.

Regarding the "Respect your first wife" Statement:

A lot of people get married when when they are young and they don't yet understand them self let alone have the ability to understand someone else. To make things worse most of us actually change & mature over time so even if we seem like a good match at a young age we can grow apart to no fault of either party. Then there are the situations where the malfeasance is on the part of the woman, not the man. So there are many reasons apart from the husband disrespecting the wife that could lead to the end of a "first marriage".

And for the second hack that you like so much it's in your signature:

First point is that there is no such thing as a perfect person so any standard which measure against perfection is invalid. On top of that why would you lose respect for a man who saw that a marriage wasn't working and decided to end it? You think so low of men that a marriage ending is always their fault? Had I stayed in my first marriage my daughters would have been a lot worse off than they were as a result of my divorce and raising them as a single father. If you want to judge someone with regards to their children wouldn't it make more sense to determine how they are as a parent? You statement basically implied you'd have more respect for me as a man if I remained married (unhappily) to my first wife and beat or otherwise was abusive to my daughters than you could ever have for me as a divorced single parent caring for his 2 daughters. Of course you lose even more respect for me the second I find the love of my life because I have the gall to actually marry her and accept her children as my own?

The greatest irony of this is that you judge me from your high throne at 48 years of age having never parented for a day or been married. In my 41 years here I've spent 19 years as a father and 10 years as a husband (between the two marriages). So please enlighten me as to just what qualifies you to pass judgement on me?

[jrmejia 31]

bob4anna,

Correction: my two quotes are what I think of life. You can have a different view and I am fine with it.

We are both allowed to have our own opinion!

[Darnell 8,479]

wow.

Hey JR - I thought you was Catholic - so now that you've confirmed it - I need to ask you...

You've got lots of issues to overcome for your relationship with your fiance before she becomes your wife. Have you set up the appointment with your local Catholic Priest to have a 'pre-marital talk' ? If not, why not ?

[jrmejia 31]

wow.

Hey JR - I thought you was Catholic - so now that you've confirmed it - I need to ask you...

You've got lots of issues to overcome for your relationship with your fiance before she becomes your wife. Have you set up the appointment with your local Catholic Priest to have a 'pre-marital talk' ? If not, why not ?

Please allow me not to entertain you with your question. I do not like to joke with anyone's religion. Thank you for your cooperation.

Edited June 24, 2011 by jrmejia

[Darnell 8,479]

I'm not entertained, or even entertaining.

I have a genuine concern for yer lass, based on YOUR writings here on VJ -

and I think it'll get cleared up with talking to the priest, an actual 'pre-marital counselling' schedule, maybe 6 meetings over 3 weeks?

You're not listening to anyone here on VJ - My hope is that you'll listen to a priest.

[jrmejia 31]

Funny how my threads are twisted. I asked a question about a caller and most posts are to bash me.

Go figure!

Wonderland is a tv show. K1 is a reality that sometimes the outcome hits us like a hammer with no mercy!

[sunandmoon 450]

Hello VJ_ers,

Sometimes at work, I like to listen to EWTN to listen to their catholic programming.

They have all sort of programming. I like the talk show where psychologies try to help callers from a catholic point of view.

A caller called yesterday and I like to know if the caller uses this forum. Why am I asking this question? His introduction was "Hello this is John, I have a wonderful fiancee from the PI. Soon she will be coming to USA ..then he continues by saying my problem is ......."

Funny how my threads are twisted. I asked a question about a caller and most posts are to bash me.

ok. with the number of K-1's going thru Manila, it's highly doubtful that he posts on this forum. now that your question has been given a reply, is there any reason for this thread to continue?

[Ban Hammer 13,621]

ok. with the number of K-1's going thru Manila, it's highly doubtful that he posts on this forum. now that your question has been given a reply, is there any reason for this thread to continue?

and therefore, it's closed.