VAWA Part 2

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Re: Child Protective Services. Explain the following to current guardian: it seems scary, but please don't get overly emotional. Be calm and co-operative, and the experience will be better for the child. Usually, they will want parent(s) to follow some training, counseling. Again, co-operate fully. If you do everything in nice, friendly manner - you may actually benefit from their intervention. You may request and receive preventive services

I'm so worried my wife just attacked me the other day as we speak I have scratches on my face and arm and back and side of my stomach.. I didn't call the police because my wife has a baby and I didn't want the baby to go in the system since his dad wants nothing to do with him and my wife's family too.. I want to go to the court house and get an order of protection cuss she's staying and my moms house and she won't leave .. She said she has to stay .. I left cuss of the abuse but now I don't know what to do help me!!

Edited October 3, 2012 by SingleDad2usc

[Sandra G. 5,064]

singledad what are you talking about?. Czzr has to protect himself in first place. It's not his child.

Edited October 4, 2012 by sandranj

[Czzr 13]

I'm going to go to the hospital tomm so that will be 3 times I go because of the abuse.. Then I'm gna file the i360 after I get everything organized.

[young Seattle 9]

hi Sandranj, thanks for the message, still no news for my "Notice of Action" reply since July 20th, Oct will be my 21 months waiting,Gosh,i even mailed some winter clothes to my mother-in-law's address, i hope my wife can keep warm. I am so busy at my work, last month one LA buyer bought 6.5 million dollars clothes from our company, the other three LA buyers want to meet me in LA soon. I need my US greencard to go back the state to work. the commission is $40k for the guy who found those LA buyers, so quick money and Good for him. last year our company sold 160 million dollars, I got European customers to meet next week and two international textile exhibitions next months. I am so tired, but working can make me not thinking too much on my Vawa, I only care about my wife now.

love me, you got your fly ticket back to your hometown, God will bless you that this Xmas. I hope I can go back Seattle before the end of this world at 4:44 Am Dec 21th 2012.I am kidding!

God bless all Vawa prayers.in God we trust!

[young Seattle 9]

hi Macbook:

i got the same kind of "Notice of Action" letter from VSC on July 14th 2012, they asked my wife's US birth certificate, you can find it from www.vitalcheck.com, you just need

put in your wife's real name, pay $30 from visa or master card, then they will mail your wife's US birth certificate to you by UPS in three days time. I mailed my wife's US birth

certificate to NBC supervisor last May, it is so strange VSC asked me for that again, but I replied them politely.

about your marriage, VSC want you find more US citizens witness who can sent their reference letter for you to show your good moral character, try to find your good US citizen

friends to write reference letters for you, I got two US citizen reference letters for me, one is my best friend, another is my former boss senior manager from New York life company

I do appreciate for their help for life, they are really friends in need is friends indeed!

you will get your GC soon, God will bless you.

[Ssisi10 0]

Hi everybody got a question .. After I 360 approved what would be the result in child custody .. Please sandra o somebody else that knows about it.. Thanks a lot .

[SingleDad2usc 71]

I know it wasn't his child. He still cared that child may be removed, if parent is arrested. I wanted everyone to know (what no one told me BEFORE it happened to me): yes, it's traumatic for everyone. But if the guardian knows to be calm and co-operate fully, the experience will be less painful. And in the end - the guardian should turn it around, and request preventive services. I know that VAWA applicant will be in adversarial position with the parent - but he should still find a way (via other relatives) to convey the calming message to alleviate child's dilemma

singledad what are you talking about?. Czzr has to protect himself in first place. It's not his child.

[Sandra G. 5,064]

Sssi10 the Vawa decision is not a factor considered in child custody decision at all . But if your divorce is based in domestic violence then you may have sole physical custody of your child.

[Ssisi10 0]

Sandra please work w me.. When in court is presented I 360 approved by USCIS that means expert confirm it was domestic violence in the relationship.. That would not say nothing to them.. Thanks so much Sandra if u or somebody else knows about cases of child custody and I 360 approved..Ssisi

[resignedtoinswhim 8]

Approved I-360 in family court has not much relevance. The custody order will depend heavily on the facts and proof of abuse, state laws and how much non-custodian parents want to be involved. Generally, most of the states allow restrictions on non-custodian parents residential and visitation if good proof of domestic violence is presented to them. One can ask for restrictions on abusive parent depending upon the severity of the abuse and state laws. Such as sole physical/legal custody with non-custodian residential/visitation time; transitional phase with supervision and therapy before unrestricted residential time for non-custodian; supervised visitations only etc. One can ask for termination of parental rights under certain circumstances in some states too. The custody will also depend heavily upon how much the other party and you want them to be involved with the child and if you two can amiably make decision with each other or not.

[loveme 4]

hi Sandranj, thanks for the message, still no news for my "Notice of Action" reply since July 20th, Oct will be my 21 months waiting,Gosh,i even mailed some winter clothes to my mother-in-law's address, i hope my wife can keep warm. I am so busy at my work, last month one LA buyer bought 6.5 million dollars clothes from our company, the other three LA buyers want to meet me in LA soon. I need my US greencard to go back the state to work. the commission is $40k for the guy who found those LA buyers, so quick money and Good for him. last year our company sold 160 million dollars, I got European customers to meet next week and two international textile exhibitions next months. I am so tired, but working can make me not thinking too much on my Vawa, I only care about my wife now.

love me, you got your fly ticket back to your hometown, God will bless you that this Xmas. I hope I can go back Seattle before the end of this world at 4:44 Am Dec 21th 2012.I am kidding!

God bless all Vawa prayers.in God we trust!

Hey Young Seattle i was just starting to wonder why we weren't hearing from you anymore. I thought you got your greencard and forgot about us lol. Great to hear that you are working and keeping busy!! i wish i could say the same for me, im still seeking employment. Anyways im waiting to buy my ticket lol, i pray it will all be over with this yr.

[loveme 4]

1 person here. Approved January 11

Memes what going on with your interview since u were approved from January

[VAWA 1]

I feel embarrassed to ask this but does prima facie let me get a health insurance that cover dental?

When I was with my wife, she didn't let me join her plan and m really broke..I can't afford it.

I have some dental problem that I need to be taken care of quickly

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Where r u?

[VAWA 1]

Seattle, WA