VAWA Part 2

[Sandra G. 5,048]

Lorphelpme she can send right away, but tell her to mention that she submitted a letter before but forgot to address to Vawa Unit and because of that she is sending again.They won't get annoyed because of that. Tell her to SIGN the letter.

[lorphelpme 9]

Lorphelpme she can send right away, but tell her to mention that she submitted a letter before but forgot to address to Vawa Unit and because of that she is sending again.They won't get annoyed because of that. Tell her to SIGN the letter.

Thanks very much will do

[avk 0]

PALMBEACH, congratulations on an interview date and good luck! How long ago did you file and when did your VAWA get approved?

[lorphelpme 9]

I m very happy today. Just got an letter in mail from immigration. Its to schudale my interview for september 27th 2012 related to my I 485. Hope its the end of this 10 months vawa process. Good luck to all of you waiting on approvals. It will come soon.

Congrats

[verysadguy 170]

Hi Verysadguy: I understand your feeling as a man, but please forgive what your wife did to you in Jesus name, in English we called "Making love, not War", at least your wife tried to join in our big US family by going the legal way, not like those illegal immigratants who worked in the state without even paying taxes.

I appreciate what you are saying, but one should not forgive and make peace with fraudsters. They will run you over and not look back. This is about justice, not revenge. Many men and women are lied to, stolen from, hearts stomped on, and had their character tarnished all for the selfishness of a green card. And is some cases like mine there is the life and future of an innocent child. Personality disordered individuals rarely make good parents and don't just haunt but harm their victims.

I am nice to her and cordial, but I do not let down my guard or concede anything. I am the victim, she is the perpetrator, and the child is an unlucky innocent bystander who deserves an honest and benevolent mother figure.

As for VAWA claimants who truly deserve it, it is wonderful. For those abusing the system it shows the flaws of the Act and the policies of USCIS behind it. How can one adjudicate a case without weighing the validity of claims with real evidence from both sides of the fence?

[yulisa 9]

I appreciate what you are saying, but one should not forgive and make peace with fraudsters. They will run you over and not look back. This is about justice, not revenge. Many men and women are lied to, stolen from, hearts stomped on, and had their character tarnished all for the selfishness of a green card. And is some cases like mine there is the life and future of an innocent child. Personality disordered individuals rarely make good parents and don't just haunt but harm their victims.

I am nice to her and cordial, but I do not let down my guard or concede anything. I am the victim, she is the perpetrator, and the child is an unlucky innocent bystander who deserves an honest and benevolent mother figure.

As for VAWA claimants who truly deserve it, it is wonderful. For those abusing the system it shows the flaws of the Act and the policies of USCIS behind it. How can one adjudicate a case without weighing the validity of claims with real evidence from both sides of the fence?

Hello verysadguy,

Am very sorry for what has happened to you,such is life and sometimes things do not go well as you may have planned or wish but just take it easy.

i have been on this forum since 2010 and got my green card last year.it was really a tough time,going thru custody and divorce which i later dismiss all cos i wanted to have my family back.its not about the green card its about happiness.being happy with your partner is very important not fighting everyday on trying to kill each other.my husband is an african american who is saying the same thing you are doing.yes i went back to him cos he promised me he will change but NO! he did not,it become worse. that even if am sleeping in the room i dont feel comfortable,having a feeling that he will hurt me again.so i finally moved hoping that i wont go back to him anymore.he told his friends that he is going to tell immigratin that am a scammer,i dont care, am not scared of him and immigration anymore cos am tired of life.if you allow people to treat you bad and use you as rag and you dont allow them anymore then they start saying a whole lot of crappy things about you.and i dnt care.cos i dont give a ######!!!is not that he has not hit me before he did many times.he threw me out side many time,i have to sleep in the cold.i had no family here to help me.i mean nobody expect one friend that was even scared to come closer to me cos of my husband.

All i can say to you is even if you disturb her emotionally,its an abuse not to talk of hitting her and retricting things from her.immigreations are not stupid.if you lie to them they will come back and get you.when i went for my green card interview in 2011,i told the officer am going back to my husband,i told her our tradition and family do nt belife in divorce bt am going to try and she smiled.did not ask me any question and i had my green card before 2 weeks will come.i have been truthfull to God.my huband and immigration so i still have hope for the future even doe am tired of this life.now am about to file for divorce and custody.

take care and continue with your life.just be happy.

[resignedtoinswhim 8]

I appreciate what you are saying, but one should not forgive and make peace with fraudsters. They will run you over and not look back. This is about justice, not revenge. Many men and women are lied to, stolen from, hearts stomped on, and had their character tarnished all for the selfishness of a green card. And is some cases like mine there is the life and future of an innocent child. Personality disordered individuals rarely make good parents and don't just haunt but harm their victims.

I am nice to her and cordial, but I do not let down my guard or concede anything. I am the victim, she is the perpetrator, and the child is an unlucky innocent bystander who deserves an honest and benevolent mother figure.

As for VAWA claimants who truly deserve it, it is wonderful. For those abusing the system it shows the flaws of the Act and the policies of USCIS behind it. How can one adjudicate a case without weighing the validity of claims with real evidence from both sides of the fence?

I would respecfully ask Verysadguy and his followers to take their discussion and debate on a separate thread. This thread is for informative purposes for real victims who are struggling to go through the ardourous process of VAWA. This thread is extremely important for a lot of us in this difficult time of our lives and not meant for hijacking for investigational purposes. None of us on this thread are investigators and can't comments on some ones claims of abuse or fraud. Please start a separate thread or choose a different forum.

Thanks.

[Yagana 2]

I m very happy today. Just got an letter in mail from immigration. Its to schudale my interview for september 27th 2012 related to my I 485. Hope its the end of this 10 months vawa process. Good luck to all of you waiting on approvals. It will come soon.

CONGRATULATIONS...!

[Sandra G. 5,048]

yahghana Congratulations. Praise the Lord.

[Sandra G. 5,048]

verysadguys I told you before and i repeat myself, Vawa Unit/USCIS are prohibited from disclosing Vawa cases to anyone. There is a memorandum from ICE about that

http://www.asistahelp.org/documents/resources/ICE_384_Memo_FCD88FAD0E6DD.pdf

I know your case very well. I know you were scammed, but you will waste your time going to infopass. They won't be able to help you with ANY information.I believe you did everything possible to protect yourself and your child. You have "primary custodial" of your baby, and actions speak for itself, you are a great father. But it's time to move on. You informed all agencies about her. Focus in taking care of the baby and finding love again. Good luck.

[verysadguy 170]

verysadguys I told you before and i repeat myself, Vawa Unit/USCIS are prohibited from disclosing Vawa cases to anyone. There is a memorandum from ICE about that

http://www.asistahelp.org/documents/resources/ICE_384_Memo_FCD88FAD0E6DD.pdf

I know your case very well. I know you were scammed, but you will waste your time going to infopass. They won't be able to help you with ANY information.I believe you did everything possible to protect yourself and your child. You have "primary custodial" of your baby, and actions speak for itself, you are a great father. But it's time to move on. You informed all agencies about her. Focus in taking care of the baby and finding love again. Good luck.

Thank you Sandranj and I agree, but this infopass is for the benefits fraud part of the case like Darnell suggested. As for the other comment about happiness from the other poster, yes happiness is important. Thanks.

Also, VAWA support messages are important, just as are support for false VAWA support, too. I will take to another thread. Thanks.

[PALMBEACH 1]

PALMBEACH, congratulations on an interview date and good luck! How long ago did you file and when did your VAWA get approved?

Hi avk

I applied in december 2011 and got approved on august 2012 and i just got a letter for my green card interview . Took 9 months for my I360 to be approved.

Good luck to all of you waiting, it will happen soon.

[avk 0]

Hi avk

I applied in december 2011 and got approved on august 2012 and i just got a letter for my green card interview . Took 9 months for my I360 to be approved.

Good luck to all of you waiting, it will happen soon.

How wonderful!! I wish you all the best and for the interview to go smoothly. I applied in december 2011 as well, that gives me hope, maybe I just need to be patient a little longer

[loveme 4]

Hi avk

I applied in december 2011 and got approved on august 2012 and i just got a letter for my green card interview . Took 9 months for my I360 to be approved.

Good luck to all of you waiting, it will happen soon.

WOW, YOU GOT THROUGH SO FAST, HERE I AM STILL WAITING ON AN INTERVIEW DATE AFTER APPROVAL IN MARCH !!! YOU MUST A WONDERFUL LAWYER

[missymd 5]

HI palm beach..congrats.i,ve been waiting since october 2011 and havent heard anything from VSC.am just curious,did they send you any RFE and what kind of evidence did you submit?this thing is mind bugging for real...