My Journey might be over

[Mozzer1972 7]

Hey Kevin,

I live in San Jose and my fiancee arrived here from VN almost 2 months ago. If you come out here, let me know. Maybe we all could get together and your wife and my fiancee could talk. I know it is a difficult adjustment period.

[Nathen 0]

Sorry to hear about your situation my friend.

I wish you the best!!!

[luckytxn 2,264]

Same same.. not different.

Thuy often gets moody or frustrated and doesnt want to talk in depth about things.. If I push too hard I get frustrated ecause she isnt ready to talk.. If I push too soft she thinks I dont care.. Its a dance of sorts.. finding that magic amount of persistence that shows you care without going overboard... over time you two will find that groove and things will be groovy again..

Just do as I do and be as aggravating as possible until they tell you to stop their ordeal.

[b_weeks 6]

Kevin,

Sorry to hear this. I hope things work out for the best. I know it was pretty rough for us the first year. I know you have been around for a while, as your posts were inspiring me when I started this process.

Best wishes....

[hallett 0]

I wish you the best, so sorry to hear this .

[Kevin and 10]

AGGGGHHHHHH!

Tuyen left her brother's in SJ. She went to OC and is with a family friend now.

[ScottThuy 140]

I assume her brother isnt happy about this either...

[Kevin and 10]

I assume her brother isnt happy about this either...

He's trying to take the supportive brother role, but he isn't happy about it. He thinks she need some time to figure out what she wants. I'm closing the bank account and canceling payments to insurance. Since its her health insurance policy I can't cancel it all I can do is stop payments from the account. I don't care about the liability.

[tcTTct 37]

It sounds like you've made up your mind to not put up with any more of this #######. I think it's a good call to cut your losses now. There's only so much you can do. Good luck.

[hniHnitsuJ 8]

AGGGGHHHHHH!

Tuyen left her brother's in SJ. She went to OC and is with a family friend now.

Kevin,

OC in da house. Anything I can do to help you?

Do you know which part of OC? Westminter, Santa Ana, Garden Grove, Fountain Valley, Anaheim, Cypress, Stanton, Midway City, and etc....

[Kevin and 10]

Kevin,

OC in da house. Anything I can do to help you?

Do you know which part of OC? Westminter, Santa Ana, Garden Grove, Fountain Valley, Anaheim, Cypress, Stanton, Midway City, and etc....

I think Westminster. She won't give me the address so I can forward mail. I guess I'll write "return to sender" on everything that comes here. Thanks, but I don't think there's anything anyone can do. She has to figure it out herself.

tcTTct- ####### is right.

When I told her I wasn't paying her health insurance anymore and she had to cancel it. Her reply was I don't have money so you pay it.

[luckytxn 2,264]

I showed my babe the site and thread the day before and explained to her that maybe we should talk to her Cousin and I to my friend I introduced to her saying that maybe they should cool it. She told me that she liked him and they seem to be getting along real well so leave them alone and don't interfere.

No matter what I said about it being real far north and very cold and lots of snow or it being a small town in Minnesota and far from anyone or even anything and I was ignored. Who wants to bet that I will be the one that gets the call and told to do something when this same thing happens?

[hniHnitsuJ 8]

I think Westminster. She won't give me the address so I can forward mail. I guess I'll write "return to sender" on everything that comes here. Thanks, but I don't think there's anything anyone can do. She has to figure it out herself.

tcTTct- ####### is right.

When I told her I wasn't paying her health insurance anymore and she had to cancel it. Her reply was I don't have money so you pay it.

Westminster city is very small, and it's the center of little Saigon in OC. Just let me knows if you need anything or PM me if you want my phone number. Just in case

Take care Kevin....

[dtc 1]

I showed my babe the site and thread the day before and explained to her that maybe we should talk to her Cousin and I to my friend I introduced to her saying that maybe they should cool it. She told me that she liked him and they seem to be getting along real well so leave them alone and don't interfere.

No matter what I said about it being real far north and very cold and lots of snow or it being a small town in Minnesota and far from anyone or even anything and I was ignored. Who wants to bet that I will be the one that gets the call and told to do something when this same thing happens?

hell just change your phone number , then they can not call you and bother you.

[VN10 0]

Hi Kevin bro,i have been heard from you about your story,really sorry.everybody gave you best advice but important is Tuyen.she kept secret and didnt want to tell reason to you why did she do that.sorry cause i missunderstood about her brother when i replied your message in FB.

My town dont have a lot VN people too,it's really hard for me since i came here and i was give up many time.i've been know how feeling,so if you dont mind you can give me Tuyen's email address,i hope i can talk to her. May be she is good lady but just listen some wrong person with stupid idea.nobody can take care us without ourself,our family(mom and dad),husband/wife.Take care yourself first,i believe 1 day she come back and say sorry to u.