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[Salma&Ali 0]

Salamu Alaikum(Peace be upon you all),

Hello Everyone.....I have a very important question so I will give as much info as I can so that I may get the correct answers. I have been part of VJ for a very long time(new account to remain annonymous), I brought a MENA man over and we were married, everything was going great and he even became a US Citizen. Our marriage simply did not work out because of personal issues he had. I am not angry and I do not feel I was used. I have moved on but rekindled a long lost love from an old friendship. The only problem is he (my new love) is also from another MENA country. Do you think that brining another man over to the states will be a problem for me? My first marriage lasted about 6 years but we just went our sperate ways. I brought him on a K1, we followed all the steps and he is now a US citizen. We were married for 6 years and have a child together.

I am just wondering if anyone has been sucessful with bringing a second person over to the states legally? I look forward to your honest answers and I hope that if I can provide them with enough proof my first marriage was and is still ligit then they will understand my situation. We are only 2 years in age difference, so no problem there.

Thank for all the help !

Salma

[EAbbas 213]

Salamu Alaikum(Peace be upon you all),

Hello Everyone.....I have a very important question so I will give as much info as I can so that I may get the correct answers. I have been part of VJ for a very long time(new account to remain annonymous), I brought a MENA man over and we were married, everything was going great and he even became a US Citizen. Our marriage simply did not work out because of personal issues he had. I am not angry and I do not feel I was used. I have moved on but rekindled a long lost love from an old friendship. The only problem is he (my new love) is also from another MENA country. Do you think that brining another man over to the states will be a problem for me? My first marriage lasted about 6 years but we just went our sperate ways. I brought him on a K1, we followed all the steps and he is now a US citizen. We were married for 6 years and have a child together.

I am just wondering if anyone has been sucessful with bringing a second person over to the states legally? I look forward to your honest answers and I hope that if I can provide them with enough proof my first marriage was and is still ligit then they will understand my situation. We are only 2 years in age difference, so no problem there.

Thank for all the help !

Salma

Walikum Asalam

I don't think it would be a large issue but you can expect to be questioned a bit more than the first time around. There are other ppl who have done it and was successful but definitely looked at more closely. Be prepared to answer a lot more questions and more in depth about the first marriage and your hubby or hubby to be

Edited June 6, 2011 by EAbbas

[LaL 418]

There have been several members over the years who are repeat importers, but I think if you were a long time member, you would know this?

[Staashi 371]

Not a dig or anything, but how can you or anyone else ever want to do all this immigration bullsh!t again? Especially with a MENA dude, knowing full well you're at the minimum looking at a year and a half for the application processing, interview, crapload of AP and probably some AR, too, because it is your 2nd go round.

For me to even consider this again, some guy would have to be a phenomenally rich god who adores me, and possesses a golden phallus. Just sayin'.

Good luck with your next adventure. May it all flow as smooth as molasses.

[KittyPollitt 284]

Men bring over multiple women from Philippines, Ukraine, Russia, and South America all the time. After 2, I think you need a waiver, that's all. Aside from the obvious questions that will be asked about your previous relationship, you should have no problems, if it's on the up and up.

[Salma&Ali 0]

Thanks for the replies, I have been a part of MENA for sometime and I just wanted advice from my fellow MENA peeps. I am sure it will be difficult but I know that he is certainly worth the wait. He has me all of these years so what's another year or two? The LOVE isnt going anywhere but I dont want to fill him with hopes to only have them crushed because of this process. Yes, I know the process takes a huge toll on you, I have already been through so much the first time around but I truly believe that one deserves to be happy and that is my goal. You cant chose who you fall in love with, especially if they are such a great person. I will pray for the best and prepare for the worst.

Peace be upon you all and comfort you in your Journey's.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Not a dig or anything, but how can you or anyone else ever want to do all this immigration bullsh!t again? Especially with a MENA dude, knowing full well you're at the minimum looking at a year and a half for the application processing, interview, crapload of AP and probably some AR, too, because it is your 2nd go round.

For me to even consider this again, some guy would have to be a phenomenally rich god who adores me, and possesses a golden phallus. Just sayin'.

Good luck with your next adventure. May it all flow as smooth as molasses.

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