Trying to go home

[AshkiA 0]

First I wanna say Maubrook on the baby, and I hope you and your honey can get home safely with less problems compared to the ones you've written about.

I just gotta a few questions, not to be taken personal or anything, but how are you going to work if you have a weakened cervix? Isn't that dangerous, just asking? Im not a nurse yet, but I've been in healthcare for almost 8 years and I know quite a few people that have had to quit working and were put on bed rest for the duration of the pregnancy. On of my friends actually had to have her cervix sewed closed to hold the baby in....... How far along are you? Why did you stay so long? Girl, you know you can't trust everything people say, as far as "we will help you get home." That kinda struck a nerve, I moved to Las Vegas and ended up in a shelter. I think I should mention that I have more family in Las Vegas than Chicago. I just hope you can get home safely! Another question, when is your honey supposed to be coming home? You dont need a co-sponsor or have you already finished that part of the visa process? I mean since you arent working and nobody even wants to help you get home. I certainly hope not... either that or you know the secret to "growing new friends". If you do, pass it on.......

Like I said, I just hope you can get home, that was my main reason for responding. I don't like to hear that and I feel bad for you. I hope you get to a doctor soon, too.

take care!

Thank you for the reply you sound so sweet Well they are as I am typing buying my ticket home for next Wednesday I believe. At least that part is over. You're right about the weakened cervix, I will have to take my OBGYN's advice on that when I get home. I'm a medical secretary so I don't do much moving around durring my shift but I don't know if that is still acceptable or not. If stress is a factor too, I KNOW I won't be able to the hospital to work. I'll have to look for another secretarial job. Last night we got bad news from out co-sponsor She's about 4 months pregnant with twins and went to the notery with her father. Her father found out what she was dong and completely flipped out. So he basically threatened her, saying that he wouldn't help her with the babies if she co-sponsored. I'm up the creek with no paddle now. I didn't think that I would get pregnant so easy because of previous surgery and was told by my GYN at the time I would have to get help if I wanted another one. So it's just becoming one big sob story and my tears are endless right now. I know in one way or another things will work out, I'm just so scared. There are a few friends that I haven't asked yet, I will check with them when I get home. I just don't know though......

Thanx for all replies!!!!!

Love,

Sarah

[sarah and hicham 3]

Hi Sarah,

I hope everything works out for you. I'm glad to see you're coming home soon! Good luck and keep us posted.

Sarah

[~*Dorothy*~ 2]

Hello Sarah,

I am sorry to hear of your hardships and must say that I am relieved to know that you are able to get back home soon...Please take good care of yourself...Good luck and please keep us posted.

Dorothy