court-less relationship

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

That my boys and girls are my 2 cents.

STOP saying boys and girsl. VJs are NOT children, VJs are adults!

Calling VJs boys and girls is very condescending and I think you know that!

Respect is a two-way street. IMHO, you started this thread to divert VJs from your MULTIPLE IDENTITIES and in a VAIN attempt to capture the limelight!

Kudos JR! You exposed another identity in this thread!

My 2 cents boys and girls.!

My 95 cents!!!

Edited May 24, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Let me clarify:

I posted an opinion out there and you guys took it as if you are feeling some guilt or experiencing something down the line.

You attacked me and now I need to pay the price? I don't get it.

In many occasions, I used the word "opinion" to calm your ego.

Administrators should read carefully and see how you started to attack. I never went and attacked you guys! .hmmmmmmmm

I mean...

A life of DENIAL?

and, let me clarify this to you JR...YOU stated your "opinion" in a degrading way and you know it! Don't try to run and hide now!!!

Edited May 24, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[jrmejia 31]

You got mail! explaining why i never trusted on you on PM

[M&Dj 3]

......By the way, I never said mine will not get bored, I will be shocked if she does not....

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

You got mail! explaining why i never trusted on you on PM

Who are you writing to JR? Devastedme? Angerlforever07? Oldie?

[gretchen_darren 67]

I don't mind being called "boy" .... at least it tells me I am still young.... Now if it is Sheriff Buford T. Justice.....well, where's the bandit when you need him???

[jrmejia 31]

You replied correctly, you got mail. Was it clever not trusting you?

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

You replied correctly, you got mail. Was it clever not trusting you?

OK, if you are suggesting you sent us a pm, well, wala. Nothing from you or any of your other id's in our message box.

So, The "correct" is that you wrote one of your other identities? Wow...spooky.

[jrmejia 31]

world "trader" center to you my good friend.

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

mmmmm......

it just bother me each time I read about "failing relationship, when they come here they are so bored at home, they get home sick..etc."

If two people love each other for heart intention, I think the above mentioned would be a thing of the past.

Let me define 2 things for you:

1. when a lady post that she is bored (like many many post we read) it means she is not happy with the person she is with @ home.

2. when a the lady says "homesick" it is us that she is sick of that house. There is nothing in that house that makes her happy.

That's absolutely ridiculous.

Feeling bored or homesick has nothing to do with how happy a person is in a marriage. It has to do with a person's activities and the distance from their family. If a person has the same boring routine every day, they will feel bored at times. This boredom can't be cured by love. And the second point is that if the person does not see their family (parents, siblings, nieces, etc), they will feel homesick for a while until they get comfortable in their new country.

If two people love each other for heart intention, I think the above mentioned would be a thing of the past.

:wacko: :wacko:

Does your true love pay your bills and put food on your table too? :unsure: :unsure: :unsure:

Edited May 24, 2011 by Eric-Pris

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

world "trader" center to you my good friend.

OK....

1. "good" friend is a big stretch. VJ acquaintance is more accurate.

2.You're not even on our friends list.

3. We took pity on you. Like a lost puppy in a rain storm.

4. We gave you benefit of the doubt (after you showed us your FB account to prove you were not a troll)

5. We remained objective regarding your situation with a live and let live philosophy.

6. My wife developed an "opinion" regarding your relationship quality after viewing your/and fiancee FB's. Interested?

7. BTW...her "kid's" facial expression matches yours. Same eyes and smile. Coincidence?

8. Trust? You speak of trust? Remember JR.? Long time ago...I stated that you were the "manipulator" that Logan was writing about and that your fiancee was your victim. Your multiple identities and your dribble (in this thread) validate my original hunch. You had our benefit of the doubt. You lost it. Do not try to share your guilt with us. Not happening. Go run and cry your sob story to devastedme, Oldie, Angelforever07...they still got your back.

Still no mail from you? hmmmmm....another cat and mouse attention grab...seems to be YES!.

Edited May 24, 2011 by ~happyndinlove~

[B_J 2,752]

After reading this entire thread, I'm starting to think more about what rlogan has posted.

I always thought JR was just an overly optimistic, very romantic person. I didn't always agree, but that's life. I was bothered by the multiple identities; but I could get past that by thinking that was just an attempt to try to remain anonymous.

But now I'm seeing a side I really didn't expect to see. I'm really seeing a lot of what rlogan has described. It's kind of sad.

[Darnell 8,478]

I'm still confoozled by jR's 'homesick' definition.

[B_J 2,752]

I'm still confoozled by jR's 'homesick' definition.

And if you question it then he'll just reply that it's his opinion and if you disagree then hmmmm maybe it's too close to the truth for you.

[Ban Hammer 12,922]

posting of pm's is a violation of vj tos. as this thread seems to be devolving into a bickering contest, it's now closed. do not restart this thread.