American Men Think They’re Better in Bed Than They Actually Are

[Samoray 165]

Who says I can't take it? Good grief. That's really messed up if you ask me - a relationship built on falsehoods and deception. I'd rather be single than married to someone who is afraid to 'hurt my feelings' by being open and honest with me on what they want from me. No thanks. Good luck with that though.

Well not all women are alike, some wants an open relationship and some don't want you to point out stuff that you want to do as well. it depends on your partner also to achieve the honesty and openess

[Samoray 165]

IMO it's a selfish man who doesn't want to be told what he is doing is not pleasuring his wife/gf....A man who would be 'insulted' has obviously been deluding himself about his bedroom skills for a long time.

Well, that is a good thing. Most men, [i think] would want to know what feels good and what doesn't for their loved one.

What is not pleasing one woman might please another, they're all not alike, so can't judge a man sex skills by just one woman, one the other hand not every women is willing to do certain stuff, so it depends IMO

[Jenn! 918]

What is not pleasing one woman might please another, they're all not alike, so can't judge a man sex skills by just one woman, one the other hand not every women is willing to do certain stuff, so it depends IMO

Who is judging a man's sex skills, a jury? The only opinion that matters is the woman that he's currently with. If he doesn't want to hear it, that's too bad for him, and her.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Well not all women are alike, some wants an open relationship and some don't want you to point out stuff that you want to do as well. it depends on your partner also to achieve the honesty and openess

Whoah, now! Open relationship? You mean, like swingers? That's a whole other can-o-worms.

May I ask - were you born in raised in America or another country?

Who is judging a man's sex skills, a jury? The only opinion that matters is the woman that he's currently with. If he doesn't want to hear it, that's too bad for him, and her.

Spot on.

[Samoray 165]

Whoah, now! Open relationship? You mean, like swingers? That's a whole other can-o-worms.

May I ask - were you born in raised in America or another country?

Spot on.

Well the Topic title, American men think they're better in bed than they actually are, my opinion was not only the man is responsible for the woman's dissatisfaction but since i am not American so it's not my issue,

and didn't mean a swinger relationship i meant openness in the relationship.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

I'm perfectly happy to tell a man if he's doing something wrong, or needs to be doing something else. But sometimes I get lazy and fake an orgasm to just get it over and done with, so we can move on to bigger and better things.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

they? does jinky know about "they"?

Steven is very open about his conquests.

Edited May 21, 2011 by Some Old Guy

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I'm perfectly happy to tell a man if he's doing something wrong, or needs to be doing something else. But sometimes I get lazy and fake an orgasm to just get it over and done with, so we can move on to bigger and better things.

I have done that too, especially when I am losing interest in my partner. See my new book: Yes, Men Can "Fake" Orgasms Too

Edited May 21, 2011 by Some Old Guy

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I have done that too, especially when I am losing interest in my partner. See my new book: Yes, Men Can "Fake" Orgasms Too

How do you fake semen?

[SMOKE 1,426]

if woman told me i wasn't getting the job done. i'd lick her fingers for her & say 'its a team thing around here, get to work' then go back to doing my half of the job.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

How do you fake semen?

Buy the book.

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Buy the book.

You can't fake semen. Well I suppose you can but outside of adult movies no one does it.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

You can't fake semen. Well I suppose you can but outside of adult movies no one does it.

Do you make love like a porn star? There is your problem right there.

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I just read an article on askmen.com on how men fake orgasms. Pathetic.

Do you make love like a porn star? There is your problem right there.

Yeah I like to come home from work with my ####### inside a pizza box.

[Vi-Jay 218]

So you appease your wife's bad eating habits by lying to her? Wow. Some kind of marriage you must have. I'm guessing she fakes her orgasms too. What a mutually honest relationship that must be.

Frankly, my wife does not have any "bad" eating habits. but, I get the gist of your question.

We are completely honest with each other. That is our personality types and another reason why we are very compatible.

We practice diplomatic honesty.

I will not answer your orgasm question.

I am from a school of thought that if a man ever asked me that question I might lay him out.

I will say this, I think a husband should know wether or not his wife is faking. Emphasis on the word wife.

(sorry late reply I was out running some errands with my wife)

Edited May 21, 2011 by Vi-Jay