American Men Think They’re Better in Bed Than They Actually Are

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I remember having a similar discussion at a party once, and when it was pointed out that faking orgasms isn't helping the matter, one of the ladies asked the guys if they always tell the truth to their wives about how they look. Well, I was one of the first ones to respond, "Why not?" If my wife looks heavy and bloated, I tell her. Why should we go through a charade of lying to one another? What ever happened to honesty?

Edited May 21, 2011 by 8TBVBN

[Glyn and Kathy 288]

If a woman isn't being satisfied in bed by her partner and fakes it, there is no one to blame but herself. And I don't know a single woman who expects to have an orgasm every time....I find it to be pleasurable either way...I guess it all depends on the person you're with...but them I'm also the type of woman who will "be really nice" to my hubby if I'm not in the mood for intercourse.

[Vi-Jay 218]

If my wife looks heavy and bloated, I tell her. Why should we go through a charade of lying to one another? What ever happened to honesty?

So, Safe to assume? You prefer masturbation.

Edited May 21, 2011 by Vi-Jay

[one...two...tree 2,762]

If a woman isn't being satisfied in bed by her partner and fakes it, there is no one to blame but herself. And I don't know a single woman who expects to have an orgasm every time....I find it to be pleasurable either way...I guess it all depends on the person you're with...but them I'm also the type of woman who will "be really nice" to my hubby if I'm not in the mood for intercourse.

Right on. When my wife's cooking tastes disgusting, I tell her. I usually say, "I love you, sweetheart, but what the hell is this sh!t on my plate?" Her face turns red and sometimes she goes into her room to cry, but you can bet she won't be making that same mistake twice. That's why I love her and expect nothing less than the same kind of brutal honesty in the bedroom from her.

Edited May 21, 2011 by 8TBVBN

[Vi-Jay 218]

Right on. When my wife's cooking tastes disgusting, I tell her. I usually say, "I love you, sweetheart, but what the hell is this sh!t on my plate?" Her face turns red and sometimes she goes into her room to cry, but you can bet she won't be making that same mistake twice. That's why I love her and expect nothing less than the same kind of brutal honesty in the bedroom from her.

Passion of the Christ = erotic Fat wife = you tell her Bad cook = make her cry Bedroom = brutal honesty

Puzzle pieces coming together? I think yes.

Edited May 21, 2011 by Vi-Jay

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Passion of the Christ = erotic Fat wife = you tell her Bad cook = make her cry Bedroom = brutal honesty

Puzzle pieces coming together? I think yes.

So you appease your wife's bad eating habits by lying to her? Wow. Some kind of marriage you must have. I'm guessing she fakes her orgasms too. What a mutually honest relationship that must be.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Right on. When my wife's cooking tastes disgusting, I tell her. I usually say, "I love you, sweetheart, but what the hell is this sh!t on my plate?" Her face turns red and sometimes she goes into her room to cry, but you can bet she won't be making that same mistake twice. That's why I love her and expect nothing less than the same kind of brutal honesty in the bedroom from her.

I wouldn't keep my nuts if I did that to my wife. You really are a lucky man.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I wouldn't keep my nuts if I did that to my wife. You really are a lucky man.

We practice honesty in our household. Nothing more, nothing less.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

I fake orgasms if I just want him to stop touching me in a cr@p way. I can tell him after what he's doing wrong.

[Samoray 165]

A man wouldn't wanna be told he is doing something wrong in bed, it's insulting, the boundaries and restrictions take a lot of the fun away

[one...two...tree 2,762]

A man wouldn't wanna be told he is doing something wrong in bed, it's insulting, the boundaries and restrictions take a lot of the fun away

Are you a spokesperson for all men? Men don't need to be coddled. We're tough and can handle the truth. The question is, can women handle the truth? They should if they want to handle my manhood.

[Samoray 165]

Are you a spokesperson for all men? Men don't need to be coddled. We're tough and can handle the truth. The question is, can women handle the truth? They should if they want to handle my manhood.

What is the truth ? The truth is when she tells you that she is not happy with your sex skills ? you can't take what she says as the truth as long as she put up restrictions on the sex relation, like you can do this and can't do that, that's my point not that i am a spokesman for all men.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

What is the truth ? The truth is when she tells you that she is not happy with your sex skills ? you can't take what she says as the truth as long as she put up restrictions on the sex relation, like you can do this and can't do that, that's my point not that i am a spokesman for all men.

Who says I can't take it? Good grief. That's really messed up if you ask me - a relationship built on falsehoods and deception. I'd rather be single than married to someone who is afraid to 'hurt my feelings' by being open and honest with me on what they want from me. No thanks. Good luck with that though.

Edited May 21, 2011 by 8TBVBN

[tmma 467]

A man wouldn't wanna be told he is doing something wrong in bed, it's insulting, the boundaries and restrictions take a lot of the fun away

IMO it's a selfish man who doesn't want to be told what he is doing is not pleasuring his wife/gf....A man who would be 'insulted' has obviously been deluding himself about his bedroom skills for a long time.

........not that i am a spokesman for all men.

Well, that is a good thing. Most men, [i think] would want to know what feels good and what doesn't for their loved one.

[Ban Hammer 13,144]

Are you a spokesperson for all men? Men don't need to be coddled. We're tough and can handle the truth. The question is, can women handle the truth? They should if they want to handle my manhood.

they? does jinky know about "they"?