need help

[miloud 0]

hello,

Since i received my GC im not happy with my wife at all because she has already 3 daughters teenager and else ETC...

my question is (if some one want to abandon our relationship so if affect my status??)

thanks everyone.

[Messybrownhair 251]

You didn't know about her 3 daughters before you married her?

[Wanda and Amel 17]

Exactly!!!

[hisprincess 2]

omg i cant believe you

[kissjo 2]

????.. You obtained your GC.. And now you realize that she has 3 teens???..

Please, think of another excuse....

[Messybrownhair 251]

It just doesn't look good that you start off your post with "Since I already got my GC" because to me it meant that was all you wanted.

If you divorce, you will need to prove that you entered the marriage in good faith when you file for ROC

[belluco86 3]

I did not know that marriage was something that had to put you in a state of happiness. In fact marriages can be difficult and by what you wrote i can only say it looks as if you marry her just for the green card. I would hope that is not your situation.

[john_and_marlene 162]

It doesn't change your status. Once a fraud, always a fraud.

[akanchawa 1]

hello,

Since i received my GC im not happy with my wife at all because she has already 3 daughters teenager and else ETC...

my question is (if some one want to abandon our relationship so if affect my status??)

thanks everyone.

Here we go again!!!!!

When will people wake up and learn? I nope this is not what I think it is!

[miloud 0]

i knew that she has teens and in the beginning we were happy together but its hard for her teens to be used with me and thats not my exuse the most important thing that my wife she said to me she is not happy with me and me i just start to work i do my best for my family and we argue lot between us for no reason and she get mad and upset lot with me for long time because im under conditional GC and what im complying now not only when i received my GC , because our life its just argue together since the beginning this is why im not feel happy now even her she keep saying she is not happy with me and i think why if she is not happy she keep me til now ???

[rahulv 4]

If both of you are not able to cope up with the marriage and are not happy together, both of you can sit down together, and talk about what you guys could do either to save your marriage or to dissolve it.

In case of a divorce, since you are still under conditional GC, you would have to prove that you and your wife entered the marriage in good faith and the marriage was not a way for you to get a GC. The chances of you proving that depends on how much evidence you have and how you can convince the Immigration.

Also just as a note, when you made a post on this forum about your situation it appeared as if you did marry your wife for immigration benefits, and you must not commit immigration fraud.

[Helen Louise Pile 80]

Give the guy a break people Obviously his English is not great and he may have not explained himself properly.

Having said that....

....What you wrote did appear suspicious to me too. I hope it is not what it seems. As a previous poster said...you need to sit down with your wife and talk to her about where you go from here. Your future status in the US is surely a secondary concern considering that it appears your marriage is breaking down?

[Romancita 3]

i knew that she has teens and in the beginning we were happy together but its hard for her teens to be used with me and thats not my exuse the most important thing that my wife she said to me she is not happy with me and me i just start to work i do my best for my family and we argue lot between us for no reason and she get mad and upset lot with me for long time because im under conditional GC and what im complying now not only when i received my GC , because our life its just argue together since the beginning this is why im not feel happy now even her she keep saying she is not happy with me and i think why if she is not happy she keep me til now ???

I am sorry you are going through this. I also hope that you entered you marriage in good faith. With this being said, could you please use a period in your posts from time to time, so we can really understand what you are trying to tell us? Thank you!

Edited May 9, 2011 by Romancita

[dsamyra3 3]

All of you should be ashamed of yourselfs on here. How dare you judge this person? Thinking he used his wife for a visa. Relationships fall apart everyday with or without a green card.

He is looking for help, and you judge him???? Just because he does not express himself very well? Have you forgot alot of people on Visa Journey english is not very good?

I am born US Citizen, and I have a hard time expressing myself sometimes on the computer.

Patience are needed on here and sometimes you have to read between the lines to understand, what someone means.

miloud,

before you give up on your relationship maybe you both can try counciling ? Marriage is tuff, but then you add different culture and teenagers...and it is enough for anyone to break.

It is hard when teenager are involved, even the most well behaved, respectful teenagers, can put a wedge into any relationship. Be strong.

[san diego 407]

His sentence started with "Since I got GC"! What else can he mean?? Obviously, this is all he cares about. He is not asking for relationship advice. He is asking on how to stay in the country and not live with his wife. If he was acting in good faith he would not be asking advice here. He would go for marriage counseling. People like him is the reason why we all have to wait for such a long time for our loved ones to come here. I try not to judge people and give them benefit of a doubt. However, this is crystal clear. GC is first... Not only that he took advantage of another person and likely made this person (USC) miserable. Not only that he also made her family miserable. Not only that he took advantage of the system. People like him make us all miserable by waiting. USCIS is not o blame for the wait. They do what they can to prevent such things from happening. He is the reason, and people like him. People like him made Morocco consulate so tough that people that truly love each other cannot be together. I do not know how many desperate posts I have read about Morocco consulate just because of people like him. Now this poor woman will have an obligation for 10 years!