Having to leave tomorrow

[VetsWife328 7]

Well our 3 weeks together are almost over.We have about 18 hours left until I have to go to the airport and I just cant stop crying............I already miss my Jim and I'm so worried how he'll do once I'm gone.

My son is looking forward to going back to his Day Care in Germany and all I can think of is how much it'll hurt to be away from Jim.

I know it'll be for yet another 6 to 8 months and that just drives me so crazy...................

We will put our I 129 in by the end of next month,and hopefully everything will go fine then...........

Sorry,just had to share my feelings.

Nat

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Sorry you are having to be apart....

((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

Kezzie

[aussiewench 9]

[irishgirl73 0]

hugs

sorry you have to part ways for a while

[Married_my_love 0]

I cried off and on all day yesterday too. I got to see my husband (we're still newlyweds dammit) for 4 days... I just didn't want to come home.

I feel your pain, and sorry we all have to go thru this.

[Dixie_Peach 1]

Well our 3 weeks together are almost over.We have about 18 hours left until I have to go to the airport and I just cant stop crying............I already miss my Jim and I'm so worried how he'll do once I'm gone.

My son is looking forward to going back to his Day Care in Germany and all I can think of is how much it'll hurt to be away from Jim.

I know it'll be for yet another 6 to 8 months and that just drives me so crazy...................

We will put our I 129 in by the end of next month,and hopefully everything will go fine then...........

Sorry,just had to share my feelings.

Nat

*hugs*

Lynne

I cried off and on all day yesterday too. I got to see my husband (we're still newlyweds dammit) for 4 days... I just didn't want to come home.

I feel your pain, and sorry we all have to go thru this.

*hugs* married_my_love also

Lynne

[VetsWife328 7]

Thank you all for your support and understanding!!!!!!

Huggs for all of you too

Nat

[Mand 1]

I really admire the people who have had to spend so much time away from their fiance/husband/wife. It makes me realize how lucky myself and Rob were with only 2 weeks apart.

I feel so sad for every one who is separated and really really wish that they'll be re-united soon and live many many happy years together

[Kassie 0]

I always say its a feeling I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. There's really no words that anyone can say to make the hurt any less, but I'm still so sorry you have to go through this.

My heart goes out to you

[almaty 19]

Thank you all for your support and understanding!!!!!!

Huggs for all of you too

Nat

[mercuryroad 0]

The distance is really difficult, but also offers an opportunity for personal and relationship growth. Those of us that have to go through this understand the phrase "you don't know what you've got until it's gone". That separation reminds us of our feelings and draws us closer together. We also appreciate the time we have together and when we are reunited, we always remember what it was like to be apart. It is really difficult but the foundation of the relationship is solidified in those moments of heartache.

Cherish the time you have together and never forget how it felt to have to say goodbye.....that will help you get through things when times are difficult. It's a great thing to feel that terrible, because you know you love that much.

All my best and a big hug.

[Melo 1]

(((((hugs))))

[Peggy 1]

HUGS

Its hard, but you will get thru it. We all know that feeling of having to leave our loved ones.

[irishgirl73 0]

I always say its a feeling I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. There's really no words that anyone can say to make the hurt any less, but I'm still so sorry you have to go through this.

My heart goes out to you

I couldn't have said it better myself-I can't explain to anyone how I felt the day I took my man to the airport(after he was here for 3 months), I took comfort in the fact that he would be back soon. At that time neither of us knew that he would be denied entry a few months later-don't think I've ever cried so hard in my life.

That is what is so great about this site-we can all relate to eachother. Friends and family may not understand the depth of pain we go through on a daily basis, but everyone here understands.

hugs everyone

[Fandango 1,439]

I agree with all of you here that it's a horrible feeling, and my goes out to all of you! I am currently apart from my fiance as well...and we all know how ####### this feelng is.

This is my only advice: I am not a pollyanna sort, but at the same time, I do try to pull some benefit out of the time apart....if only to make the time go by faster! I have taken to working all sorts of hours....busying myself with projects...goals that I want accomplished before D gets back here. That way, I can minimize the time I spend wallowing.

Now, it doesn't take ALL the pain away...but it certainly keeps my mind busy. We all know what it's like when we're waiting for time to go by...well, how about in the meantime using that time to your own advantage? As I said, I work crazy hours...but I also know that now is the time to do so...because when D gets here, I'm going to be busy with OUR life together as well as having to juggle job/other responsibilities/etc. So as much as I am heartsick & heartbroken that he's not here, I still think in the back of my head 'enjoy the freetime now, because things are going to change real soon'

I do hope this helps at least one person!

Good luck to all of us! And a big (((((HUG)))))) to natashabrenda & marriedmylove!!!