I AM SOOOO ANGRY

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

you really need to chill, this process took me 11 years, stop the whining the problem is not specific to you. have a good day

Woooooooooow 11 years. Good for you? Do they give an award for something like that? As far as my "WHINING" goes... I will do as I please and well if you don't like it, then get outta my topic, stop wasting your time in my thread isnt it bad enough you lost 11 years? It is specific to ME when I am the one that has been lied to 5 days a week for 3 weeks, so I do beg to differ with you. Now if you will excuse me I am off to follow your advice and have a nice day!

[Wendy<3Ahmed 12]

you really need to chill, this process took me 11 years, stop the whining the problem is not specific to you. have a good day

Not sure what kinda of visa took you 11 yearssssss. But this is not the norm for bring your spouse to the US as a US Citizen.

Here is some advise for you. If you don't like our whining. Move along, dont read our posts. No one is making you click on our thread. Dont come back if you dont have anything positive or nice to say.

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

Emails that I sent were to the attention of Hillary Clinton, National Visa Center, Department of State and the US Embassy in Cairo.

Haven't thought of any new ones. I think, I covered it all. But it wouldn't hurt to get the same complaint from a few of us.

Ok Wendy sounds good I am also writing emails to the same people I t is actually calming me down to feel proactive and like I am doing something about it rather than wasting energy kicking a can or going bald from tearing my hair out, I don't think Ahmed would like a bald wife? LOL

Not sure what kinda of visa took you 11 yearssssss. But this is not the norm for bring your spouse to the US as a US Citizen.

Here is some advise for you. If you don't like our whining. Move along, dont read our posts. No one is making you click on our thread. Dont come back if you dont have anything positive or nice to say.

I know right? 11 YEARS?? I would have picked up and moved to Ahmed's country after 1 year let alone 11, sheesh talk about patience...

[Wendy<3Ahmed 12]

Ok Wendy sounds good I am also writing emails to the same people I t is actually calming me down to feel proactive and like I am doing something about it rather than wasting energy kicking a can or going bald from tearing my hair out, I don't think Ahmed would like a bald wife? LOL

No I really think he would prefer hair.

Just ignore bettermuscome. They can talk to themself for all I care. Answering to bettermuscome posts is wasted energy.

[bettermuscome 12]

ha, ridiculous...good luck to you and yours....lol, u guys are vicious

[hellraiser 42]

I fully agree with "Amber & Ahmed", those bums who don't like a topic, piss off. If you have a different opinion, feel free to pass it, but don't suggest what one should or should not do on this site. If one has to wait for 11 years, that tells me what sort of loser that person is. Doesn't mean others have to act like one, or accept the misery. People whine, scream on this site and gets suggestions, solutions, and at times a pat in the back.

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

ha, ridiculous...good luck to you and yours....lol, u guys are vicious

My dear friend .. you're as crazy as i am at times.

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

No I really think he would prefer hair.

Just ignore bettermuscome. They can talk to themself for all I care. Answering to bettermuscome posts is wasted energy.

Props to you my southpole sista... really it is such a drain and I find Ahmed loves to find his wife full of smiles and energy in the evening when he gets home ... sooo I will save that for my husband.

I have continued to write a list of those I will be emailing. I want to be sure my efforts will be heard. Really it is not the waiting that has my panties in a bunch, I fully realize the pecking order that must be met, I just hate to be lied to gosh darnt it! Can't we all just keep it real? Tell me the truth and let me deal with it for Pete's sake! That is my beef with the NVC workers. I feel I was misguided and misinformed.

I feel bad for losing my cool this am with the NVC, I wasn't overly rude, but those folks sure missed out on my sweet talkn today .

Wendy will keep you informed with those I contact!

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

I fully agree with "Amber & Ahmed", those bums who don't like a topic, piss off. If you have a different opinion, feel free to pass it, but don't suggest what one should or should not do on this site. If one has to wait for 11 years, that tells me what sort of loser that person is. Doesn't mean others have to act like one, or accept the misery. People whine, scream on this site and gets suggestions, solutions, and at times a pat in the back.

All ACROSS THE BOARD ON THIS ONE...

:thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs:

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

ha, ridiculous...good luck to you and yours....lol, u guys are vicious

You know its funny to have someone calling me viscious. If you care to browse all my posts since September 2010 when Ahmed and I decided to join this site to share this experience with others like us I have tried to help others and encourage others and to seek solutions to any situatiuon that may arise in our case or my fellow VJ filers' cases. Ok today I lost it, and when usually I would email those I am in contact within this site, yet I chose to go to the public forum because it is not right to be lied to by those we have in position (NVC, USCIS, Embassy, Government Officials) to help us envoke our rights as United States Citizen, no I will even go as far to say what we all deserve as World Citizens, to be together with those God has created us for. As my dear friend Wendy suggested... I choose to not waste energy when my time, attention and focus needs to be centeralized elsewhere.

Best Wishes to you and yours.

[Glyn and Kathy 288]

ha, ridiculous...good luck to you and yours....lol, u guys are vicious

According to your stats under your name, you came here on an FB4 visa. Is that for a brother or sister? I think that is a bit different than being separated from your spouse. If you don't have anything nice to say....then just leave a topic, you don't NEED to post, especially if you have no way to know what this person is going through.

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

According to your stats under your name, you came here on an FB4 visa. Is that for a brother or sister? I think that is a bit different than being separated from your spouse. If you don't have anything nice to say....then just leave a topic, you don't NEED to post, especially if you have no way to know what this person is going through.

Thank you Kathy. I noticed your timeline and I seen you have years invested with your husband and your visa journey, congratulations on making it thru it all, you are where Ahmed and I would love to be! Best wishes you and Glyn!

[nurse1967 287]

Immigration is not a right. You will be lied to just about each and every time you call USCIS or NVC or the Embassy. Better put on your big girl panties and get used to it.

[Glyn and Kathy 288]

Thank you Kathy. I noticed your timeline and I seen you have years invested with your husband and your visa journey, congratulations on making it thru it all, you are where Ahmed and I would love to be! Best wishes you and Glyn!

Thanks, I'm sure you will be reunited soon. Its hard I know. Just remember IT WILL HAPPEN!!!

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

Immigration is not a right. You will be lied to just about each and every time you call USCIS or NVC or the Embassy. Better put on your big girl panties and get used to it.

I beg to disagree, it is MY RIGHT as an American Citizen that upholds our laws, pays my taxes, votes on all issues including immigration to have my husband to live with me here. Betsy, I always have respected your opinions even if we do not see eye to eye, but please do not come at me trying to refer to me needing big girl panties, while it is good for a chuckle , it hardly seems an appropriate way to refer to me and what I may be needing to do.

I also feel I am used to this process, and I have handle it rather well, but I will never accept being lied to, and if their workers are misinformed and misinforming others, I feel it is a huge problem that needs to be addressed with more management/employee discourse.