Best way to meet a Ukrainian/Russian (and cheapest)

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

You'll be hardpressed to find a RUB sucker husband that's also imported mom and dad, sisters, cousins, brothers, etc. - a pretty common practice among PI fams.

There is one common trait. I see a lot of Asian and RUB women here, but not with the sucker one that brought them to the party.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

I just wanted to start a general discussion about how to meet a woman from Ukraine or Russia and to try to figure out how most of you did it? Also a friend of mine was wondering how he could find a woman as beautiful as my fiancee, but I honestly don't know what to tell him. ;-) I met my fiancee through youtube actually -- i met her friend who was married and she recommended Irina to me, we started chatting every day, and the rest is history. But I know that I get spammed daily about "meet a russian woman today" but I know most of these sites are scam/phishing/etc. So its hard to know who to trust...

Are there any ukrainiain/russian dating sites that you can trust?

What are some inexpensive ones? (Anastasiadate.com is like 8 dollars per emails or something silly)

What have you all used?

David and Irina

I met my wife on myspace.com, but that's beside the point. If I was to redo it, I would do it like this...

Nix the dating sites. Travel to a RUB destination after doing your homework (make sure you have ample time off...like 3-4 weeks min. for SUMMER MONTHS) and go for it. The worst thing that you can do is travel all the way across the world just to meet one chick. If you go it solo with not knowing anyone...well you have all the little chicky's to choose from. Searching for "Mrs. Right" is most (if not all) the fun.

Here we go now....

Pick a city...not too big, yet not too small. Too big = expensive Too small = no clubs ...so use the internet and do your homework. Apts for rent (negotiate a price...never go for the listed price on the site), google the night clubs, restaurants, etc... Google exchange rates, make sure your bank card will work there, home work is essential. Then once you get off the plane, unpack, clean up, stock up (food & booze), and go for it. Make sure to keep your wallet and passport in your front pocket. Chick hot spots...cafe's, night clubs, grocery stores, and subway centers. Parks are even good.

OK, let's do Odessa for the heck of it. So first google is "odessa ukraine apartments for rent"

http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&hl=en&site=&source=hp&q=odessa+ukraine+apartments+for+rent&aq=0&aqi=g1&aql=&oq=odessa+ukraine+apartments+for+re&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=384aef4afa8e1652 <--- 1 room apt. = studio. Internet, washing machine, and satellite TV are a must. Also go for a big bed. Bigger the bed, more chicks that you can fit into it at one time.

Now for "odessa ukraine night clubs"

http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&hl=en&q=odessa+ukraine+night+clubs&aq=f&aqi=g1&aql=&oq=&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=384aef4afa8e1652 <--- BINGO ! and don't forget...google maps work fine in RUB country's.

http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&hl=en&q=odessa+ukraine+restaurants&aq=0&aqi=g2&aql=&oq=odessa+ukraine+rest&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=384aef4afa8e1652 <--- looky looky

Also take a look at the US embassy page and check out any rules so you don't get into hot water.

Edited April 9, 2011 by Why_Me

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Go to church. That is the best way to find a good woman, and will end up costing you less in the end. Included in the cost consider how much it will cost to bring the RUB'S parents over in about three or four years, and supporting them for the rest of their lives.

Like others posted on here...screw the church thing. The last thing any guy needs is some ignorant stupid ####### chick who believes in voodoo, vampires, and god. It's 2011.

As far as bringing my wifes divorced mother over to live here... I pray for that day!!! If there's a god, she will move in with us. Hot doesn't even begin to explain her. Hot and sexy with "screw me eyes". ...not that I would ever do my mother in law...unless it was my wifes idea and she firmly insisted on it.

There is one common trait. I see a lot of Asian and RUB women here, but not with the sucker one that brought them to the party.

I know of a few guys that married Russian chicks when they were working at Sakhalin that got skewered, yet for the most part those marriages have a better track record than friends that married chicks from the states. And if your going to get screwed over...let it be by something half your age, dresses sexy, looks hot, and has a sexy accent. I mean if your going to go down, go down in style right ?

Worst case scenario for me... my wife gets her citizenship and divorces me. So what alternatives does that leave me? I fly back and find me a hot little sexy blonde blue eyed 18 year old gymnast who weighs in at 95lbs wet out of the shower...one that doesn't speak a lick of English.

So ya, there's always a back up plan eh.

Edited April 9, 2011 by Why_Me

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

There is one common trait. I see a lot of Asian and RUB women here, but not with the sucker one that brought them to the party.

Name one RUB woman.

Like others posted on here...screw the church thing. The last thing any guy needs is some ignorant stupid ####### chick who believes in voodoo, vampires, and god. It's 2011.

As far as bringing my wifes divorced mother over to live here... I pray for that day!!! If there's a god, she will move in with us. Hot doesn't even begin to explain her. Hot and sexy with "screw me eyes". ...not that I would ever do my mother in law...unless it was my wifes idea and she firmly insisted on it.

I know of a few guys that married Russian chicks when they were working at Sakhalin that got skewered, yet for the most part those marriages have a better track record than friends that married chicks from the states. And if your going to get screwed over...let it be by something half your age, dresses sexy, looks hot, and has a sexy accent. I mean if your going to go down, go down in style right ?

Worst case scenario for me... my wife gets her citizenship and divorces me. So what alternatives does that leave me? I fly back and find me a hot little sexy blonde blue eyed 18 year old gymnast who weighs in at 95lbs wet out of the shower...one that doesn't speak a lick of English.

So ya, there's always a back up plan eh.

Not a bad idea and worst case you get a vacation.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Name one RUB woman.

Not a bad idea and worst case you get a vacation.

I know of one two guys for sure that got screwed. But that's out of like a dozen marriages. Those odds are pretty good imo compared to the national average for divorce rates in this country.

[AmyWrites 593]

Like others posted on here...screw the church thing. The last thing any guy needs is some ignorant stupid ####### chick who believes in voodoo, vampires, and god. It's 2011.

As far as bringing my wifes divorced mother over to live here... I pray for that day!!! If there's a god, she will move in with us. Hot doesn't even begin to explain her. Hot and sexy with "screw me eyes". ...not that I would ever do my mother in law...unless it was my wifes idea and she firmly insisted on it.

I know of a few guys that married Russian chicks when they were working at Sakhalin that got skewered, yet for the most part those marriages have a better track record than friends that married chicks from the states. And if your going to get screwed over...let it be by something half your age, dresses sexy, looks hot, and has a sexy accent. I mean if your going to go down, go down in style right ?

Worst case scenario for me... my wife gets her citizenship and divorces me. So what alternatives does that leave me? I fly back and find me a hot little sexy blonde blue eyed 18 year old gymnast who weighs in at 95lbs wet out of the shower...one that doesn't speak a lick of English.

So ya, there's always a back up plan eh.

Frmo what you wrote you're better off with the mother if that happens..

[Ban Hammer 13,448]

Worst case scenario for me... my wife gets her citizenship and divorces me. So what alternatives does that leave me? I fly back and find me a hot little sexy blonde blue eyed 18 year old gymnast who weighs in at 95lbs wet out of the shower...one that doesn't speak a lick of English.

So ya, there's always a back up plan eh.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/119607-divorce-filed-a-letter-to-the-soon-to-be-ex-wife/

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Name one RUB woman.

Just met another last month from Ukraine. She has been here about ten years and owns an RV park near the mouth of the Russian River. Not bad looking, and fairly smart. She dumped the guy that brought her over after a year and a half for "being a jerk". She has a boyfriend a little closer to her age, that she keeps around as a love slave and live-in maintenance man.

Edited April 9, 2011 by Some Old Guy

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/119607-divorce-filed-a-letter-to-the-soon-to-be-ex-wife/

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Frmo what you wrote you're better off with the mother if that happens..

She's like two years older than me...that's too old for wife material. A fling ya, but wife...no.

[ONA 133]

Just met another last month from Ukraine. She has been here about ten years and owns an RV park near the mouth of the Russian River. Not bad looking, and fairly smart. She dumped the guy that brought her over after a year and a half for "being a jerk". She has a boyfriend a little closer to her age, that she keeps around as a love slave and live-in maintenance man.

What if he really was?

Plus don't get all judgemental after talking to one woman... I hate that...

I also hate the fact that the guys, who met a couple of 18-year-old RUBs with no brains now think that all young RUB girls will be happy to date them. You're so wrong

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Just met another last month from Ukraine. She has been here about ten years and owns an RV park near the mouth of the Russian River. Not bad looking, and fairly smart. She dumped the guy that brought her over after a year and a half for "being a jerk". She has a boyfriend a little closer to her age, that she keeps around as a love slave and live-in maintenance man.

Yeah, right OK. I know a man from Ghent, who's ####### is so long it is bent....

Go to the crash and burn forum. There is a whole lot of PI flags over there and none from RUB.

(MCat does NOT count)

What if he really was?

Plus don't get all judgemental after talking to one woman... I hate that...

I also hate the fact that the guys, who met a couple of 18-year-old RUBs with no brains now think that all young RUB girls will be happy to date them. You're so wrong

ONA. One thing about the US is that you will have to learn to recognize self serving BS when you see it. It is shoveled at you constantly from the moment they say "Have a nice day..."

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Just met another last month from Ukraine. She has been here about ten years and owns an RV park near the mouth of the Russian River. Not bad looking, and fairly smart. She dumped the guy that brought her over after a year and a half for "being a jerk". She has a boyfriend a little closer to her age, that she keeps around as a love slave and live-in maintenance man.

"Ukrainian"..."not bad looking"...and "fairly smart" Give this away as BS. A Ukrainian woman that has been run over by a D8 Cat is still "fairly good looking" and she would have had to grow up at the bottom of well in a remote village to be only "fairly smart"

Being kept as a love slave and live-in handyman we all understand.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Like others posted on here...screw the church thing. The last thing any guy needs is some ignorant stupid ####### chick who believes in voodoo, vampires, and god. It's 2011.

Instead we marry educated women that think sitting on a park bench in winter will destroy their "female parts" and think that moving air causes tuberculosis.

Vut we NEVER hear "God says we shouldn't do THAT with our husbands"

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

What if he really was?

I have no reason to doubt her. After all, she is a client, and sending me referrals.

I also hate the fact that the guys, who met a couple of 18-year-old RUBs with no brains now think that all young RUB girls will be happy to date them. You're so wrong

Shhhh! You are destroying the fantasy of these graying studs.

Edited April 9, 2011 by Some Old Guy