adjustment of status interview

[katiemanny 64]

The IO thinks the marriage is for immigration purpose, no joint evidence, nothing, marriage only 5 months, child lives with father but money is being sent to sister, ay there's so many red flag in your case no wonder the IO gives you the two options because the chance of winning this battle is going to be hard. Even if you file an appeal you will have only 30 days to submit evidence of ongoing relationship which you've said you do not have, how you gonna come up with these evidence in 30 days, I don't know. Could you gather those in 30 days. Maybe, also one more question you still wont answer is where are you from which country you came from and what type of visa did you enter the US with?

Edited April 4, 2011 by katiemanny

[anneanne 0]

thank you everyone i appreciated everything ..... im just going back home ... i cant even take the pain anymore ...its for the better.... sometimes the one you really loved the most is the one who will aslo hurt you so much....God bless you all!!!!

im from philippines and i entered k1 visa......

[Haarp425 26]

thank you everyone i appreciated everything ..... im just going back home ... i cant even take the pain anymore ...its for the better.... sometimes the one you really loved the most is the one who will aslo hurt you so much....God bless you all!!!!

im from philippines and i entered k1 visa......

Why are you surrendering? You need to fight it. Being here in the USA for 5 months, it is not enough to understand 100% the American accent. It takes years to learn their American accent and be able to pronounce the words properly so that the American can understand you. If you leave now, in a couple of years you will be hating yourself why you did not fight your right to appeal. Your USC husband was not looking out for you knowing that there are required documents during the interview such as joint bills, bank account, rent, etc.

The question regarding "who takes care of your child", your USC husband automatically assumes that the father of your child is the one taking care of the child because that is what the father should do. You should have explained why you said the sister (due to money matters perhaps).

I know at this point you are scared because you are in a land in which you are not familiar and you are still trying to learn the American ways and style. You still have to learn the proper American language. New Yorkers have a different accent. Southerners have a different accent. You won't be able to talk straight for hours with another American in English language because English is your 2nd language. If you were asked in your native language, you can talk for hours and hours because you are comfortable with that language.

Take my advice and speak with an immigration laywer first. There are immigration lawyers that provides FREE 1 hour consultation regarding your case. If you want, you can find a immigration law firm that speaks your native language and you might be able to explain your situation and they can give you a proper advice. Use your credit card to pay for your lawyer's fee if you decide to use them. If you are not comfortable with your English, get a translator during your appeal.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

The question regarding "who takes care of your child", your USC husband automatically assumes that the father of your child is the one taking care of the child because that is what the father should do. You should have explained why you said the sister (due to money matters perhaps).

the husband should not have "assumed" anything, he should have known. The fact that such an important question was failed (the care of her children should be discussed) the IO probably assumes that:

1. The immigrant is lying for whatever reason, or

2. The relationship is fake otherwise why would her husband not know the truth?