CR-1, Oongoing Marital Union

[pushbrk 13,267]

It just seems the I-130 is designed for co-habiting couples only.

Thanks

But it's not. It only seems that way if you miss the words, "In addition to the required". You'll be sending more than most of the successful USA/China married couples did. Have a great wedding, enjoy China and take lots of photos.

[pushbrk 13,267]

So far for me, your narrative truly hits home with me and indeed I identify with every facet of your journey.

With all due respect, the OP's case has no resemblance to yours. He's about to marry and file a petition. You're about to attempt to succeed with a second chance at a visa interview for your wife, after an initial denial and petition reaffirmation. Nothing in the OP's story indicates there's any reason he should worry about having the problems you had.

[floridadave 195]

What you have listed is just fine. No need to delay filing. When you go back and read those I-130 instructions again, consider anything you read following the words, "In addition to the required...." as simply, "NOT REQUIRED".

Concentrate, then on building the relationship and continue gathering evidence of communication and future visits, as all that will be needed at the Consulate stage, not with the petition.

Thanks, I needed that!

New attitude: I am going to enjoy my trip and do everything I can to make her happy. I love her too much to do anything less.