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Would you get your fiance pregnant before getting K1 VISA?

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  1. 1. Would you agree to try to get your fiance pregnant before getting her VISA?

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garya,

I'd end the engagement.

Yodrak

OK, with the K1 VISA taking sometimes a year now (or at least several months) there are probably going to be more pregnancies before couples receive their VISA. So, here's a question for you. Imagine you're the male petioner in the US and your fiance wants to get pregnant right away. She doesn't care if she has to travel to the US pregnant and doesn't even mind if the baby is born in her country before you get the VISA. She is very confident and determined and knows how to take care of herself. This is what she really wants and she is very serious.

Would you agree to that?

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w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r   123

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garya,

I'd end the engagement.

Yodrak

OK, with the K1 VISA taking sometimes a year now (or at least several months) there are probably going to be more pregnancies before couples receive their VISA. So, here's a question for you. Imagine you're the male petioner in the US and your fiance wants to get pregnant right away. She doesn't care if she has to travel to the US pregnant and doesn't even mind if the baby is born in her country before you get the VISA. She is very confident and determined and knows how to take care of herself. This is what she really wants and she is very serious.

Would you agree to that?

Same here...

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garya,

I'd end the engagement.

Yodrak

OK, with the K1 VISA taking sometimes a year now (or at least several months) there are probably going to be more pregnancies before couples receive their VISA. So, here's a question for you. Imagine you're the male petioner in the US and your fiance wants to get pregnant right away. She doesn't care if she has to travel to the US pregnant and doesn't even mind if the baby is born in her country before you get the VISA. She is very confident and determined and knows how to take care of herself. This is what she really wants and she is very serious.

Would you agree to that?

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garya505 - You know what's funny... With the high divorce rate and single parent homes, many people are already leaving babies all over the US. Why not spread the love overseas. LOL! I say that most of the people are hypocrites anyway. LOL! Cheers!!

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garya505 - You know what's funny... With the high divorce rate and single parent homes, many people are already leaving babies all over the US. Why not spread the love overseas. LOL! I say that most of the people are hypocrites anyway. LOL! Cheers!!

Ya, good point! :dance:

Maybe I should have listed that as a choice on the poll:

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garya505 - You know what's funny... With the high divorce rate and single parent homes, many people are already leaving babies all over the US. Why not spread the love overseas. LOL! I say that most of the people are hypocrites anyway. LOL! Cheers!!

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I suggest getting married First! Then IF as a couple you are financially ready and as a couple WANT to have children now then go for it, although it may will help you in the interview to show l bona fida marriage, IMO I dont think that should be the purpose for having your Child!

Keep in mind if you aren't married yet things could change quick, having a baby can make thing worse if something happens and the marriage does not work out. The baby suffers the most!

Spend time with your SO/ Fiance even after your married you should spend at least a year together, having a baby in a new marriage can be stressful and put a lot of burden on a new couple.

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There's no way I would try to get pregnant before getting the K1 visa or before getting married.

1-Beliefs of waiting til married to do that kind of thing

2-Why would I want to be pregnant so far away from my fiance and have to go it alone until reunited. Doesn't sound fun. :no:

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

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w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r   123

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There's no way I would try to get pregnant before getting the K1 visa or before getting married.

1-Beliefs of waiting til married to do that kind of thing

2-Why would I want to be pregnant so far away from my fiance and have to go it alone until reunited. Doesn't sound fun. :no:

Christina,

The question was would you get your fiance pregnant?

I don't think you could ever get Sujeet pregnant, no matter how hard you tried :P

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There's no way I would try to get pregnant before getting the K1 visa or before getting married.

1-Beliefs of waiting til married to do that kind of thing

2-Why would I want to be pregnant so far away from my fiance and have to go it alone until reunited. Doesn't sound fun. :no:

Good o n ye~ Excellent point :thumbs:

we were together every step of the pregnancy & did not miss any pre -natal visits

it was an experience we shared & she needed me by her side. Her first 3 months of pregnancy she had lost over 30 lbs from severe Morning sickness and was on IV's several times.

It is an expereince that i sbest shared by the side of your loved one & God forbid if any complications arise the mom to be would need support of the father to be.

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