Room Full of Hearts

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Your two statements contradict each other. Using your logic Nagi spoke for herself and that is that. It is her life and her experiences with domestic abuse. She had the courage to disclose it, she was under no obligation to do so. This is the second time she ever spoke about it on VJ. Unless ANYONE else has been the victim of domestic abuse, I assume you haven't been, then they can't pass any comments on it. They haven't earned the right to. Duncan, the term histrionics was used by law enforcement to pass off or minimize the complaints of battered women. To use that odious term reeks of denial and further victimizes Nagi. Nothing happened to her, she was just being hysterical diva. She only did it for attention.

Erm no they don't. I have no reason to doubt her experience, I have not suggested that her experiences are made up, exaggerated or anything of the kind.

What I said was that the tone of her posts not to mention the rather creative interpretations of innocuous comments seems to me to be more about attention seeking than a desire to offer meaningful advice to the poster with the DV situation. Furthermore it seems intended to deliberately sidetrack the conversation from the posters who seem to be willing to listen to Cassi and offer well intentioned advice.

I don't see how this discussion or the one you apparently want to have arose from the comments that were posted - except as a means to direct the conversation onto Nagi and what you and she want to talk about.

On the bolded - you are wrong here. Domestic violence doesn't just affect the victim and the perpetrator.

Edited June 6, 2011 by fishdude

[Fandango 1,439]

Why has this become about Nagishaw? This is not about Nagishaw and never was.

No one's been disrespectful to Nagishaw. Going off on a tangent for a minute, respect is earned, not automatically given. People who want compassion should be offering it in return...and YOU ALL KNOW WHAT COMMENT I'M TALKING ABOUT. Reap what you sow, eh? Thank God for Nagishaw that no one's that cruel.

I wonder if one switches about 'cancer' for 'domestic violence' if Nagishaw can finally understand the severity of those words. ir5, you speak of how words hurt. I wonder what you think of those I allude to.

I offer compassion, not hatred.

I am, however, stunned that such a wounded individual can be so hateful to others' plights.

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Erm no they don't. I have no reason to doubt her experience, I have not suggested that her experiences are made up, exaggerated or anything of the kind.

What I said was that the tone of her posts not to mention the rather creative interpretations of innocuous comments seems to me to be more about attention seeking than a desire to offer meaningful advice to the poster with the DV situation. Furthermore it seems intended to deliberately sidetrack the conversation from the posters who seem to be willing to listen to Cassi and offer well intentioned advice.

I don't see how this discussion or the one you apparently want to have arose from the comments that were posted - except as a means to direct the conversation onto Nagi and what you and she want to talk about.

Duncan, the matter is closed. The intention of the posters is well-known, I'll leave it at that.

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Duncan, the matter is closed. The intention of the posters is well-known, I'll leave it at that.

To be honest, I think your intention is clear also. From what I've read here it seems to me that your friendship with Nagi makes you overlook things that are obvious to quite a few people.

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To be honest, I think your intention is clear also. From what I've read here it seems to me that your friendship with Nagi makes you overlook things that are obvious to quite a few people.

They're codependent. Isn't that obvious? I bet if this thread gets locked down they'll cry on the phone to each other.

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Why has this become about Nagishaw? This is not about Nagishaw and never was.

No one's been disrespectful to Nagishaw. Going off on a tangent for a minute, respect is earned, not automatically given. People who want compassion should be offering it in return...and YOU ALL KNOW WHAT COMMENT I'M TALKING ABOUT. Reap what you sow, eh? Thank God for Nagishaw that no one's that cruel.

I wonder if one switches about 'cancer' for 'domestic violence' if Nagishaw can finally understand the severity of those words. ir5, you speak of how words hurt. I wonder what you think of those I allude to.

I offer compassion, not hatred.

I am, however, stunned that such a wounded individual can be so hateful to others' plights.

THAT'S IT!!!! There it is. Your hidden agenda finally came out. I knew it would come out sooner or later. I read the garbage you and the rest of your ilk posted on the other site. I read the personal attacks, the comments about Nagi's husband, about me. I knew that you weren't interested in helping Cassi, you only wanted a chance to get back at Nagi. Your so-called compassion reminds me of the guards at Treblinka.

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Duncan, the matter is closed. The intention of the posters is well-known, I'll leave it at that.

Are you really that blinded by your irrational hatred that it has effected your reading comprehension. Read from page 128 of this thread onward again. I haven't insulted, only tried to inform. Your inability to grasp that is not my problem.

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THAT'S IT!!!! There it is. Your hidden agenda finally came out. I knew it would come out sooner or later. I read the garbage you and the rest of your ilk posted on the other site. I read the personal attacks, the comments about Nagi's husband, about me. I knew that you weren't interested in helping Cassi, you only wanted a chance to get back at Nagi. Your so-called compassion reminds me of the guards at Treblinka.

are you hallucinating?

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THAT'S IT!!!! There it is. Your hidden agenda finally came out. I knew it would come out sooner or later. I read the garbage you and the rest of your ilk posted on the other site. I read the personal attacks, the comments about Nagi's husband, about me. I knew that you weren't interested in helping Cassi, you only wanted a chance to get back at Nagi. Your so-called compassion reminds me of the guards at Treblinka.

Your reading skills suck, you know that?

Edited June 6, 2011 by Anita Cocktail

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There's a cure, though. Get a job. Quit drawing that government check and start working. Will help you recover from whatever ails you. Maybe.

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Seriously, IR5, comparing Lisa to the guards of a concentration camp where almost one million people were killed, even slaughtered, is just obscene.

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Seriously, IR5, comparing Lisa to the guards of a concentration camp where almost one million people were killed, even slaughtered, is just obscene.

It's stupid. But stupid is how the stupid roll. Can't expect better because, well... they're stupid.

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