Husband refuse to write a confession letter

[AnnaGal 0]

This topic is referring to this thread I made a couple weeks ago. http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/299138-divorce-after-10-year-green-card/

Update: I have just finished filing a divorce paper and it's ready to be submitted anytime now. However, according to Cybele suggestion on the above link, I tried to convince him to write me a letter admitting that he has been cheating on me. He refused to do so and threaten me that he'll cal USCIS and made up a lie that I married him for a green card if I don't stop bugging him to write this letter. He was so selfish, all he did was saying sorry for what he had done but there's no way he would write me any letter saying he cheated. To hear him said that, I completely got over him, what a disgusting man I married to.

Now it looks like I would end up not having his confession statement in hand to save me in time of naturalization.

How important is this written statement of him admitting of cheating on me? do I have to have it just to make sure I won't have any other problem in the future?

I have printed a few pictures of him taken with his baby and his girlfriend. Can I use that to prove that he cheated on me?

[VanessaTony 3,567]

The letter is irrelevant. It just would have been handy to have but not having it makes no difference. You have 10 year greencard. Your marital status is only important because you have to wait 5 years from being an LPR instead of 3 if you were still married.

[Brother Hesekiel 2,236]

Stop bugging him about this letter. It's totally irrelevant.

Reading the previous post, I realized that I never responded to your later question in there.

You filed the I-751 jointly. At that time everything was okay between the two of you. You got your I-751 approval letter. Even then everything was okay. Now your husband moved out between the time your ROC petition was approved and the day you've got your new Green Card in the mail. What were you supposed to do? Inform USCIS after the fact that your marriage has now gone south and that a divorce is in the stars?

I think not. In 3 years, when you file for divorce based on being a LPR for half a decade, not based on your previous marriage, this will be a thing of the past. It's a close call, but the way you describe your case, I'd say move on with your life and don't get lost in nightmares about this.

[AnnaGal 0]

Thank you for your reply Vanessa&Tony. I was a little scared since some of the posters suggested I should have the letter. I guess I can breath now.

Thank you very much Just Bob. Reading your reply gave me such a relief. I have to admit one good thing I got out of bugging him for that letter was a real "closure". He's a disgusting man, the biggest mistake in my life. Luckily, the divorce in my state can get finalized as soon as 1 month. I can't wait for this divorce to be over, I don't even wanna talk to him anymore. Thanks again for your valuable input.

[thelastpetitioner 218]

the whole point they were trying to suggest was that have proof of his infidelity,what they forgot was that youre past that point.good luck with your life