Help AOS interview Wednesday

[Ker82 0]

My interview is Wednesday morning and am so nervous.here is my situation my husband and I have been married for 6.5 years no children.my husband do not have 2 months pay stub because he is currently a independent contractor,when we summited the package in November 2010 he was working with a company that he got a job letter from that we summited with the package.will we have a problem because he change jobs and because he do not have pay stubs?

Here is my evidence that I got together please take a look at it and let me know if am forgetting anything or that's enough evidence.

2008,2009,2010 joint tax return

2)12 months cable bill in my name

3)12 months light bill in my husband name

4)pic b4 we got married,wedding picture,pic after we got married.

He ad me to his bank account last week But we don't have anything to prove that we have a joint account yet hopefully we will get something in the mail by Tuesday to take with us

6) I have a valentines card that my husband gave me about 4 years ago.

My other question is,in 2007 my husband and I have a fight and the neighbors call the cops,I was arrested for asuting my husband. Will that affect our case in a negative way?

Thanks so much for any imput and for taking the time to read my post.

[Oshun 3]

Interestingly, the assault charge you have for fighting with your husband is actually proof that you guys are really married. I know that you have already had your interview, but I though it would be an interesting topic to discuss.

People who are married get into fights all the time (perhaps not violent ones, but fights nontheless). People who are not truly married will never have restraining orders, domestic fights etc because there is no emotional connection, therefore nothing to fight about...

My husband and I do not fight crazily (he has mastered his retreats but I know many couples that do and I think it proves you are in a true marriage. Marriage is sooooo hard and the realities of it for many people can be very stressful. I love my husband very much, but it is in no way easy.... Lucky for me, he's the strong silent type, and it takes a lot to rattle him. Me.. not so much...

[Mrstate 1]

I agree on the post above me as well, real couple do fight because they have real emotion unlike those who are not a real couple, my husband and I discuss about interview one time and he jokingly told me, ill just have to tell them how bitchy u get when u get mad im sure they will know we are legit, my husband and I love each other very much and we been together for 4 yrs, we have lots fights but he always finds a way to keep things cool, if they ask u about it, just tell them that u had a misunderstanding and all stressed out and it got into an argument but explain to them how u guys work as a team even if one makes a mistake, as that what couples do support and help each other

[Ker82 0]

Thanks guys. At the interview he looked at the disposition but didn't ask me explain to him what happen he just say he will have is supervisor review it. Am so nervous waiting on the answer.

There wasnt a doult about my marriage. Even I blind man would see that my marriage was real lol. I've been with my husband for a combine of 11 years married for 61/2 year 7 years in sept. like botsgal stated marriage is not always easy and as a couple there is always going to be disagreements. I love my husband more than anything in the world and wouldnt trade my marriage for anything but we are human we do have our fights at times because we are not perfect.

Hoping and praying that they will give me a answer soon.this waiting for supervisory review is killing me.