HE CHEATED ME

[jrmejia 31]

What *if* maybe he is not a bad guy and you are imagining things.. like the Fightbook/facebook blocking ...etc. ? Ask him if he loves and wants to marry you. If he says yes, I think you should give him a chance.

[multi 5]

What *if* maybe he is not a bad guy and you are imagining things.. like the Fightbook/facebook blocking ...etc. ? Ask him if he loves and wants to marry you. If he says yes, I think you should give him a chance.

hmm maybe after all of those what she wrote on her story,i cant tell that the guy is good enough! what is the reason of blocking and showing the screen of the computer with that lady on pic and hes bf?

guess its imporatant to hear the other side of the story. but anyhow,i dont give my sympathy into that kind of guy!

[ilovemybaby 9]

treat him like a cancer...cut him out of your life for u to survive...!! cut the connection dont look back.. goodluck sister tons of fish in the water..<3

[magdasal 19]

Too many BIG lies over on too many important issues. Trust is the only thing that will keep a relationship together over the long term. He's a very short term kind of guy. Dump him and move on to somebody who earns and is worthy of your love.

[Gordito and Me 2]

I dont want to tell you what you dont want to hear but, maybe his son's mother is there and maybe he doesnt want to take you because he is still having some sort of relationship with her. Im really sorry about what is happening in your life. I would suggest you get rid of him quickly. Think about it this way, the faster he is gone the sooner you can start mending your wounds. : (

[PhilAmTx 14]

relationship is like a good handshake

no upper hand... gurl, ILAGAY MO XA SA DAPAT NIYANG LAGYAN! BASURAHAN"...

[--czandra-- 1]

To all you guys gave comment on my post thank you so much coming from the bottom of my heart. Im now trying to forget him and moving on, im just thinking how bad he did at my back though its hard to forget him so fast. Maybe for now i need to rest my heart, im still in pain but all your advices guys really made me convince to move out away from him and dont look back.

Wish you all the luck in your visa journey! God Bless you All!

relationship is like a good handshake

no upper hand... gurl, ILAGAY MO XA SA DAPAT NIYANG LAGYAN! BASURAHAN"...

hahaha tama!!

[Richie Rich 70]

His actions leaves much to be desired --this is coming from a man . I would confront him and if he does not ''man up'' --I would let him go . I know it will hurt now , but it will be better to be hurt now than later especially if you are in a foreign country with no friends and family . He does not deserve your faithfulness and love . Maybe he thinks that because he is supporting you --it gives him a license to do whatever he wants to do . Consider your options before making a decision .Good luck .

[vichygurl 1]

dump him... too many fish in the ocean. Heal your wounds and love yourself. One day love will find a way. Good luck!

[warayakoh 1]

His actions leaves much to be desired --this is coming from a man . I would confront him and if he does not ''man up'' --I would let him go . I know it will hurt now , but it will be better to be hurt now than later especially if you are in a foreign country with no friends and family . He does not deserve your faithfulness and love . Maybe he thinks that because he is supporting you --it gives him a license to do whatever he wants to do . Consider your options before making a decision .Good luck .

[iwuvcheshert 6]

hello, i read your letter and i feel for you. you are very young and you deserve a lot better than that, there's no need for you to stay in a relationship that, in the future, you would regret.. there goes the saying, once a _______, always a ______.. just fill in the blanks, normally, that's true.

before you expect someone to love you back unconditionally, you have to love yourself unconditionally too... would you like to stay in a relationship that will rot. honestly, what do you think about the situation you're in, if you're the outsider looking in? say, if it's your friend experiencing this, what would you feel?

i know you are very much emotional about the situation. but the end usually justifies the means. so if he's been doing it to you now, as you have discovered it, he may have been doing this to you dear for a long time...

i dont know him and i dont judge his character, but at the end, you'll be the one to face the situation.

pray and believe that god has plans for you.. be strong

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

one time i sent her a friend request in a nice way cause i thought they are just good friends, i told her in message that i really love her friend and he is my life so on and on. then when my bf found it he got mad at me and said alot of things that sound im looking for a fight to tht girl i just only told on the message that i love her friend so much he is wonderful person i met but he became hysterical and told me dont include her in our drama. (so whats the problem on tht?

He got upset for obvious reason. The American woman is his GF/Fiancee or "maybe" his wife? Who really knows.

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

im blocked now in her social page but im sure he is the one blocked me using her site. then after that i still tried to observed them while he blocked me in his site not to ppost comment then the woman now start posting, interact in all his post, so sweet and fishy conversation.

He blocked you so that his GF won't know who really you are in his life.

[rlogan 2,036]

Great advice from everyone.

Manipulators learn that all they have to do is put on an act and lie - and conscientious people believe them because conscientious people do not lie or put on acts themselves. So it is hard to believe that someone else could do it.

But there are many bad people in the world. Thieves, con-men, rapists, serial kilers, etc. We have to admit bad people exist, and that we have to protect ourselves from them.

He's a bad man, hon. You deserve better.

[shane37 0]

I would advise trying to do as much investigating as possible regardless of where your potential husband is from.

And may I ask, just what on earth makes the morals of in the U.S. so terrible as opposed to some other place? Show me a country that has no issues with morals and we will agree that is a of paradise.

I am glad to see you insert "we are not all bad" at the end of that statement. I think a more accurate statement about cheating men should have been, "Most american men will cheat."

Many men don't cheat because of the concepts of LOYALTY and INTEGRITY, or just plain ole recognition of the fact they have found a wonderful woman and really value her...not withstanding faith.

Yeah leatherneck i have a great idea, how about you have your opinion, and i will have mine. furthermore i don't appreciate you using my comment as a template for your criticism, you did not even give me the courtesy of sending me a private message on the matter. All of our opinions are somewhat subjective however i speak by the authority of statistics you can read anywhere along with the tragic divorce rate in this country. and if you really feel that the US compares even close to equal concerning morals with other places, why are you on visa journey? leatherneck i do not want to debate with you publicly here on visa journey cause i believe you are a man who firmly believes what he preaches, but let me have my opinion , and good luck on your visa journey