March 2011 Filers..

[lalaalexandra 0]

Eeee! My fiance gets here in 4 more days! Finally. He's coming over here for three weeks to 'propose officially' The whole get down on one knee, diamond ring deal and have our engagement party! I'm so excited. It's always good to have something else to count down to, so that way we can focus on something other than Igor's List :-s

Ergh, I'm sort of a list person, so I have a notebook with lists and lists where I write down the amount of unapproved K1's for Vermont for each given month and I update it every day to see how many people have been approved, and what our new dates are and where we are on the list. I know it's ridiculous because we've only just started the process but even seeing the numbers continually go in the right direction helps calm me down and not stress as much!

4 days! I CAN'T WAIT TO HOLD HANDS AND EAT HOT DOGS!!!

[Nemata Musa 5]

It feels like Skype is getting old for us now. I want the real thing.

Hahahaha you and me both...I just telling my fiance the other day that am getting a bit tired of skyping,yahooing and msning.lol..But i'm praying the waiting would soon be over!!!

Eeee! My fiance gets here in 4 more days! Finally. He's coming over here for three weeks to 'propose officially' The whole get down on one knee, diamond ring deal and have our engagement party! I'm so excited. It's always good to have something else to count down to, so that way we can focus on something other than Igor's List :-s

Ergh, I'm sort of a list person, so I have a notebook with lists and lists where I write down the amount of unapproved K1's for Vermont for each given month and I update it every day to see how many people have been approved, and what our new dates are and where we are on the list. I know it's ridiculous because we've only just started the process but even seeing the numbers continually go in the right direction helps calm me down and not stress as much!

4 days! I CAN'T WAIT TO HOLD HANDS AND EAT HOT DOGS!!!

Awwww i'm jealous, i wanna be like you right now...Well enjoy every moments of it,and take lot of pics..Most importantly enjoy!

[TJ01212011 47]

It feels like Skype is getting old for us now. I want the real thing.

Indeed! Dude! I want the real thing too! I can't wait to be w/ my baby again! ( pls God, speedy process for us..[-o<

[DeeDee&Sam 68]

i have to wait 2 more months to see my baby it suxxxxxxx. it will be like close to noa2 maybe. but seeing that vsc got faster it makes me feel better. still...IGOR'S LIST IS CURSEDDDDDDDDDDD *kicks it* have to stop checking it >_<

[Zara_ 3]

It feels like Skype is getting old for us now. I want the real thing.

Same here! After nearly 5 month I want the real thing too! But it#s getting nearer, 28 days for us, and then we'll be together for 7 weeks! :dance: Great break from skype, mails, phone then...and Igor's list!

[DeeDee&Sam 68]

wow i wish he had a break from work for even 2-3 weeks... ur lucky

[Zara_ 3]

wow i wish he had a break from work for even 2-3 weeks... ur lucky

You are right, that's the nice side of the coin, that he can take a break from work for weeks or even month (I can't either ). But the other side of the coin is that because of his job we are sometimes not able to talk or skype for weeks, just mails. So it means the world to me that we have this long time together - and hope we'll get our NOA2 in this timeframe maybe! Let's all keep our chin up, we are on our way and in some month nothing can seperate us anymore from our loved ones!

[DeeDee&Sam 68]

do any of u guys have...communication problems? like arguing very often, having a stressed relationship? i get irritated so often and instead of getting along we argue 5 days a week. i love him to death but i dunno what to do about all this anger problems i have lately.

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

do any of u guys have...communication problems? like arguing very often, having a stressed relationship? i get irritated so often and instead of getting along we argue 5 days a week. i love him to death but i dunno what to do about all this anger problems i have lately.

Sorry to hear that. Its extremely rare that she and I have arguments but I work on our communications as often as I can. There's no magical fix to it but I think the key is being open with each other. If he knew how you feel about something and why you feel that way and you knew the same about him. You might understand each other better and end up having less arguments. Anyway its much better to tackle the problem now than later. Good luck with it and hope it gets better.

Edited May 14, 2011 by LookyWhatIFound

[robandlou 0]

do any of u guys have...communication problems? like arguing very often, having a stressed relationship? i get irritated so often and instead of getting along we argue 5 days a week. i love him to death but i dunno what to do about all this anger problems i have lately.

yeah same here, sometimes we argue about unreasonable things...like me, not messaging him while i'm out...and him for being so paranoid......but we never get to sleep w/out fixing it. And i also get irritated this past few days coz his been like crazy busy working, i know its selfish to say but its driving me crazy not seeing him everyday, but we never miss a day talking in skype or google even just for an hour....its just this past few days coz his been working really hard and me busy helping my family. ugh i wish NOA2 is coming soon....

Lourdes

[Nemata Musa 5]

yeah same here, sometimes we argue about unreasonable things...like me, not messaging him while i'm out...and him for being so paranoid......but we never get to sleep w/out fixing it. And i also get irritated this past few days coz his been like crazy busy working, i know its selfish to say but its driving me crazy not seeing him everyday, but we never miss a day talking in skype or google even just for an hour....its just this past few days coz his been working really hard and me busy helping my family. ugh i wish NOA2 is coming soon....

Lourdes

Yeah sometimes that happen, long distance is not easy, whoever says it easy lied. It takes a lot of work, patience and trust...

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Yeah sometimes that happen, long distance is not easy, whoever says it easy lied. It takes a lot of work, patience and trust...

Oh you are being too kind to 'Long Distance'. Long distance is not only not easy, it is down right terrible!

[Nemata Musa 5]

Oh you are being too kind to 'Long Distance'. Long distance is not only not easy, it is down right terrible!

just be patience and always look on the positive side...

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

just be patience and always look on the positive side...

Oh I am fine, I've known her for 9 years and we've been through the craziest things and its amazing that we are back together again, but out relationship is way stronger than ever and will certainly withstand time. But still I have this for 'Long distance"

...... Bad...Bad! 'Long Distance'

[MatthewNCarolina 73]

Distance it's what it kills everything, gets you stressed, worried, upset, etc.

But you have to know each other very well, if one is upset, the other person has to be there, give support, be positive. It's a long and difficult process, for a relationship, and most of us can't be with the one we love very often. I'm one of them, just had 1 amazing/perfect month with my man, hardest thing to do is say goodbye, not knowing when you'll see each other again, how long it'll take, (since I have no tourist visa to U.S, to visit him), but we know each other, know our love.

This is the most important thing, know each other and what you have. Arguments, we never had. Even if things are not okay, we're always there for each other.

The couples who has arguments very often, has to be strong, to think back before saying something that could ruin the relationship, has to be always there for each other.

AND at last but not least, we all need patience. Keep the feeling alive :)

Carolina

Edited May 15, 2011 by MatthewNCarolina