March 2011 Filers..

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

@Looky, I am very thankful that Loreta was released and hopefully without harm. I am including psychological harm because the situation described could be potentially mentally/emotionaly traumatic. Yes, so called "agent" has some kind of problem. I agree with Georgina in all respects. It is high time to pull out the heavy artillery and continue to fight this with all you've got. [Many posts ago, you'll remember I suspected these happenings were not all bad luck/coincidence]. Unfortunately, I've dealt with such "wackos" before and they tend not to give up, habitually preying on those they perceive to be vulnerable. They are generally cowards but are disturbingly tenacious. Thus, the best that one can do to extract oneself from their actions is to either totally disappear off their radar or fight them tooth, claw and nail with a "if I'm going down, you're going down with me" attitude until they eventually go away to seek easier prey. I know, both options are not easy solutions. Looky, in this matter, I continue to pray for you wisdom and Loreta's safety and tenaciousness. Thank you for letting us quickly know that you heard from Loreta. --RK

You are right RK. We thought we were off the map. She moved to a new address and as far as I know the only people we informed of the new address is the embassy 3 weeks before her interview date when we faxed the new DS230 to them. This guy knocked on her door a week before the interview date, its too hard to believe thats a pure coincidence, it seems this guy somehow got the info that was meant for the embassy.

After all this I think Loreta will be more willing to take a more cautious approach. The embassy did seem to understand the seriousness of what happened, and I think the way I phrased it they took it as if I was accusing them of something, so I'm pretty sure they will try to get to the bottom of this.

Thanks RK, I will have to take all you and Geor said into consideration. I got to go right now, Thanks!

[MatthewNCarolina 73]

@Looky, damn... All I can wish is good luck to you and hope things get better, one way or another.

@RK, did you guys file for AOS yet? How's married life? Did Inday adjust good? Hope all is good.

@Andie, how are you? I hope everything is fine, did you guys file for K1 yet?

@Geor, yaaay! It's coming, very soon now you will be with your loved one

Here is all good, trying to find a house for us, such a stress but totally worth it. We want something to keep forever, the perfect spot for both of us, we want to build our lives there, raise our children (in the future) Other than that, I'm still trying to find a job... hopefully soon Hope everybody is doing ok!

[Stuart and Thea 95]

Make sure you get a BIG house, triplets take a lot of space!

[Dante & Geor 36]

Make sure you get a BIG house, triplets take a lot of space!

Lol, triplets!!!

@Carolina: One at a time girl! I know what I'm talking about!!! Trust me or it will be too late!!

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

@Carolina Happy house hunting! Thanks for the wishes. Well about our situation, well can't say I've really ever liked Cyprus. Its an island divided, with the North being Turkish and the south being Cypriot/Greek. So it seems to me they're all mistrusting of outsiders. I especially got this impression from when a tall good looking policeman that was obsessed with Loreta stuck a gun in my face, 5 years ago. They seem to think people are guilty until proven innocent.

We're going to wait it out to see what the embassy says after completing its investigation. In the meanwhile I reminded Loreta about this pneumonia vaccine that she definitely needs to get. If worst comes to worst, I'm going to take her to Riga Latvia and we'll get married there, and in that case it would be the Poland embassy.

@Geor, happy flying, and remember if you can get everybody in the airplane to flap their arms up and down the plane will get to America faster!

[Dante & Geor 36]

@Geor, happy flying, and remember if you can get everybody in the airplane to flap their arms up and down the plane will get to America faster!

Looky good to know that!! I will make everyone do that as soon as we depart from Guayaquil (my second airport) :thumbs:

:rofl:

[MatthewNCarolina 73]

Make sure you get a BIG house, triplets take a lot of space!

Get out of here with that stuff woman You are not the only one saying that lol My brother-in-law always curse me with this, I tell you now, you will be the one having triplets. Cursed.

[Dante & Geor 36]

Get out of here with that stuff woman You are not the only one saying that lol My brother-in-law always curse me with this, I tell you now, you will be the one having triplets. Cursed.

So many curses over here! Lol... I've dreamed having twins, so help me God if that happens!! (no ultrasound yet since Dante wants to be there for the first one -men- lol)

[RK_and_Inday 10]

@Looky, damn... All I can wish is good luck to you and hope things get better, one way or another.

@RK, did you guys file for AOS yet? How's married life? Did Inday adjust good? Hope all is good.

@Andie, how are you? I hope everything is fine, did you guys file for K1 yet?

@Geor, yaaay! It's coming, very soon now you will be with your loved one

Here is all good, trying to find a house for us, such a stress but totally worth it. We want something to keep forever, the perfect spot for both of us, we want to build our lives there, raise our children (in the future) Other than that, I'm still trying to find a job... hopefully soon Hope everybody is doing ok!

Carolina—Thank you for asking about AOS. In short, have had difficult finding time to do AOS-related tasks due to: death of extremely close friend about a month ago, then Dept. of Transp. (DOT) slated our (very nice) apartment complex for demolition to make way for new highway so have been dealing with packing/moving/unpacking to new apartment, tax season, my heavy work schedule, more & etcetera. This past week another death occurred, this time in Inday’s family in the Philippines. The first death mentioned was a friend of mine, a very sweet lady, who had become Inday’s closest friend in the U.S. after Inday’s arrival in U.S. They became extremely close. Inday has been taking her death quite hard. The second death on top of the first has made things rough as well. Not to mention all the other minor trials and tribulations of life that one faces regularly in “calmer” times. Seems Inday arrived from Philippines to a a good deal of chaos, however, I am glad to report that she is doing much better than I think most would due in such a situation.

So, AOS-wise, having difficulty getting started let alone completing. However, yesterday and today, started making time to get documents gathered & assembled. Paperwork is not Inday’s forte and sresses her even in “normal” times so I don’t want to stress her much more, so I myself am doing as much as possible on my own. Over the past couple weeks, I have been studying the VJ guides and forms plus have been hanging out in the AOS forum. Looks like I can do quite a bit on my own. Finding time—even just a few minutes!--just seems to be the most difficult part. Thank you for asking. Your question is helping to motivate me. I will certainly keep you all updated.

Very exciting news about you lookinf for a house together. I hope and pray that you find something as wonderful as is in your dreams. Continuing good luck on the job hunt. Will be interested to hear how both of these searches turn out. -RK

[RK_and_Inday 10]

@Looky--Thank you for keeping us posted and hope all will turn out well eventually. I hope the investigation does not take too long and hopefully ends up having multiple good results. Kudos to you and your fiancee for the extreme patience you have both had to have over the past many years. Prayers continuing for you both. --RK

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

@Looky--Thank you for keeping us posted and hope all will turn out well eventually. I hope the investigation does not take too long and hopefully ends up having multiple good results. Kudos to you and your fiancee for the extreme patience you have both had to have over the past many years. Prayers continuing for you both. --RK

Hi RK sure, no problem. Sorry to hear about the deaths, my family had a close friends mother die of cancer over Easter. Its nice of you to say, yes, Loreta and I are both very strong people inside. Thats probably why we hit it off so well from the day we accidentally ran into each other almost 10 years ago when I was visiting Latvia. Its really not so bad for us, I've always been an adventurer/explorer. I've never been married and neither has she but she and I just enjoy whatever time we spend together even if its just over the phone.

No news to tell you, last Friday through Monday were part of Easter holidays over there. I think I'm probably going to give that lady who emailed me from the embassy at least two weeks from now before I ask whats going on. Right now just focusing on Loreta. She's planning to get this pneumoninia vaccine tommorow, something we are both very eager for her to get. Right now no news is good news, especially when it comes to knocks on her door. Thanks for the prayers, no worries we'll find a way.

[MatthewNCarolina 73]

Carolina—Thank you for asking about AOS. In short, have had difficult finding time to do AOS-related tasks due to: death of extremely close friend about a month ago, then Dept. of Transp. (DOT) slated our (very nice) apartment complex for demolition to make way for new highway so have been dealing with packing/moving/unpacking to new apartment, tax season, my heavy work schedule, more & etcetera. This past week another death occurred, this time in Inday’s family in the Philippines. The first death mentioned was a friend of mine, a very sweet lady, who had become Inday’s closest friend in the U.S. after Inday’s arrival in U.S. They became extremely close. Inday has been taking her death quite hard. The second death on top of the first has made things rough as well. Not to mention all the other minor trials and tribulations of life that one faces regularly in “calmer” times. Seems Inday arrived from Philippines to a a good deal of chaos, however, I am glad to report that she is doing much better than I think most would due in such a situation.

So, AOS-wise, having difficulty getting started let alone completing. However, yesterday and today, started making time to get documents gathered & assembled. Paperwork is not Inday’s forte and sresses her even in “normal” times so I don’t want to stress her much more, so I myself am doing as much as possible on my own. Over the past couple weeks, I have been studying the VJ guides and forms plus have been hanging out in the AOS forum. Looks like I can do quite a bit on my own. Finding time—even just a few minutes!--just seems to be the most difficult part. Thank you for asking. Your question is helping to motivate me. I will certainly keep you all updated.

Very exciting news about you lookinf for a house together. I hope and pray that you find something as wonderful as is in your dreams. Continuing good luck on the job hunt. Will be interested to hear how both of these searches turn out. -RK

Hey RK, my condolences to you and your wife. I hope she is doing better, things has been pretty rough on you guys but hopefully everything will work out in the best way. I bet is being hard to put the AOS package together, at least you do not need to rush with it, so it makes things easier. To be honest with you it is not that complicated, you just need time to read the guides and put the paperwork together, you will get it! Glad Inday is doing better now, maybe helping with the AOS, studying it will keep her busy and with her mind off of all the pain, praying she'll be fine.

Thanks for your wishes, not so fun to find a house to buy, everything is way over what we can afford but we are doing fine, and eventually the right thing will come. Just to be able to do this kind of thing together is a blessing and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I'm not so worried about job hunting right now, we are doing pretty good but I'm still looking. Keep us updated!

@Geor, LOL the curse is all yours!! I pass it on!! I actually would love to see Thea receiving that curse Little House-babies-like drinking wine instead of bottle! .... too cute! Are you excited for your flight?? Hope you packed everything (possible) lol

@Looky, how's things?

[Stuart and Thea 95]

I actually would love to see Thea receiving that curse Little House-babies-like drinking wine instead of bottle! .... too cute!

Dr House is content with grandbabies thankyou very much! He had a grand-daughter born in January, and his other son is looking to get married this fall, so who knows when we'll get the next one?

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Well Carolina, RK, Geor and Thea and all, hope all is going well.

We are officially in AP. I can't imagine it will take forever for them to check Loreta's name and I wouldn't imagine women are too common on the big bad people database. Plus she's not from one of those countries that always have long APs. She got her pneumonia vaccine Wednesday and so far no signs of side effects so hopefully she will not get pneumonia again! I guess I'll go to see her in a month or two, since we'll just have to wait this one out.

[Dante & Geor 36]

So, I'm finally leaving tomorrow morning! :dance:

@Looky: I hope everything goes well with this AP. You guys did nothing wrong, so you will get through this. My thoughts are with you. And I really wish all the best for you, you have been nothing but supportive with me, and I really appreciate that You'll see time will fly until you're reunited with Loreta. Tell her to take care of herself, so she can stay healthy.