March 2011 Filers..

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

An 'agent' for the embassy came and knocked on Loreta's door Thursday. After asking her questions like if she does drugs and stuff he kept asking her if she worked in a casino, and he kept insisting that he knew she did. He then said he would come back on Monday. Then this morning he knocked on her door and asked her about her mother and stuff and then started looking at her magazines and papers and phone. Then he asked her to open the bedroom door and she said she couldn't cause her dog is in there. At some point he kept arguing with her that she worked at the casino and he knows it. So finally she probably shouted and told him to leave. He said something like she will regret this. He also said something about coming back on Monday.

He's got me a bit angry. I told Loreta that if he harasses her again to get his name and tell him that I have a good mind to report him to the embassy if he keeps harassing her. I was actually thinking about calling the embassy but then decided to wait till next week to see if he keeps this up. The guys nuts! If he wants to accuse her of anything he best produce some proof, and he certainly won't find any in her apartment!

[Dante & Geor 36]

An 'agent' for the embassy came and knocked on Loreta's door Thursday. After asking her questions like if she does drugs and stuff he kept asking her if she worked in a casino, and he kept insisting that he knew she did. He then said he would come back on Monday. Then this morning he knocked on her door and asked her about her mother and stuff and then started looking at her magazines and papers and phone. Then he asked her to open the bedroom door and she said she couldn't cause her dog is in there. At some point he kept arguing with her that she worked at the casino and he knows it. So finally she probably shouted and told him to leave. He said something like she will regret this. He also said something about coming back on Monday.

He's got me a bit angry. I told Loreta that if he harasses her again to get his name and tell him that I have a good mind to report him to the embassy if he keeps harassing her. I was actually thinking about calling the embassy but then decided to wait till next week to see if he keeps this up. The guys nuts! If he wants to accuse her of anything he best produce some proof, and he certainly won't find any in her apartment!

Idk Looky, but it doesn't seem like a normal procedure to me. Not at all! I know if it was my case, I wouldn't hesitate to contact the USEM. Better be safe than sorry... and tell Loreta not to open the door to absolutely anybody... Hope everything is good with her.

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Idk Looky, but it doesn't seem like a normal procedure to me. Not at all! I know if it was my case, I wouldn't hesitate to contact the USEM. Better be safe than sorry... and tell Loreta not to open the door to absolutely anybody... Hope everything is good with her.

Thanks Geor! Actually when I talked to her this afternoon I was saying that probably she should not answer the door. Its funny I just got out of bed to write that here. I'll email the embassy just to let them know I told Loreta not to answer this guy. She already let him in twice, and thats one time too many! She'll go to the interview and if this guys report to the embassy is not so good, we'll fight that and I have lots of ammunition to do that with cause obviously she had her privacy invaded. He had no right to search her apartment either!

P.S. Yes Loreta was upset enough of course to tell him to get out. She seemed to be taking it all in stride after I talked to her twice today.

Edited March 24, 2012 by LookyWhatIFound

[MatthewNCarolina 73]

Hey people, just got my EAD/AP card in the mail! yaaay!! Now things can go back to normal lol

@Geor, how's everything? When are you going (or coming)?

@Looky, that sounds way too strange, she should not open the door for strangers and wow, what the hell! Get your woman safe, that is really creepy! Hopefully nothing else will happen!

[Andie 147]

Hey people, just got my EAD/AP card in the mail! yaaay!! Now things can go back to normal lol

@Geor, how's everything? When are you going (or coming)?

@Looky, that sounds way too strange, she should not open the door for strangers and wow, what the hell! Get your woman safe, that is really creepy! Hopefully nothing else will happen!

Congratulations Carolina ... very cool

Geor, sounds like things are heading in the right direction

... Looky, yes that really is very creepy

I have to hand it to Loreta that she kept it all together through such an invasion of privacy. Very tricky because if it was legit you don't want to look obstructive but it doesn't sound normal to me either. All the best for the interview ... it will be great when it is all over - thinking of you both

[Dante & Geor 36]

Hey people, just got my EAD/AP card in the mail! yaaay!! Now things can go back to normal lol

@Geor, how's everything? When are you going (or coming)?

@Looky, that sounds way too strange, she should not open the door for strangers and wow, what the hell! Get your woman safe, that is really creepy! Hopefully nothing else will happen!

Tickets bought for the 20th Carolina! We're finally going home!! And now, I'm searching for all my appliances at Amazon, lol. Things are getting better and better for us, I just can't wait to be with him!!! :dance:

[Dante & Geor 36]

Hey people, just got my EAD/AP card in the mail! yaaay!! Now things can go back to normal lol

@Geor, how's everything? When are you going (or coming)?

@Looky, that sounds way too strange, she should not open the door for strangers and wow, what the hell! Get your woman safe, that is really creepy! Hopefully nothing else will happen!

Congrats on your card!!! Now the search for a job has begun to you!!! :thumbs:

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Congrats on your card!!! Now the search for a job has begun to you!!! :thumbs:

Congratulations Carolina!

Good luck Geor!

Andie, you need luck too!

Well, I don't know whats going on, wasn't able to contact Loreta yesterday or so far this morning. I emailed the embassy about this 'agent', didn't do it before to protect Loreta from this guy in the future. The only people that knew about her new address is the embassy, after she faxed them a new DS230. So something tells me this guy is a scoundrel that thinks he can get away with it.

I fear this may be it for the visa thing, at least for now, who knows.

[RK_and_Inday 10]

@Looky--still here pulling for you and Loreta, praying for you, hoping for you, anything can do. Is there anyway you can personally go to Loreta, be there? Perhaps to help unscramble some of the problems but more importantly just to the there with Loreta. Same as I beleive you advised yourself to one of our fellow March filers, just being there might help. Still sincerely hoping the visa will be approved and in short order. --RK

Edited March 27, 2012 by RK_and_Inday

[RK_and_Inday 10]

P.S. @Looky--I think I read of a similar case where official at embassy accused visa applicant and/or her fiance of certain activities which would very well be means for denying the visa. She essentially called the bluff and turned it around by [strongly] saying she didn't appreciate the harrassment, and that there was no such proof, and if that is what official thought then "show me the proof." The official backed down and the visa was approved. In your current situation, the stakes are higher as there seems to be a safety issue. Yes, don't open the door to anymore strangers nor this "agent". Praying now for Loreta's safety and wisdom and continuing resilience and steadfastness. --RK

Edited March 27, 2012 by RK_and_Inday

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

@Looky--still here pulling for you and Loreta, praying for you, hoping for you, anything can do. Is there anyway you can personally go to Loreta, be there? Perhaps to help unscramble some of the problems but more importantly just to the there with Loreta. Same as I beleive you advised yourself to one of our fellow March filers, just being there might help. Still sincerely hoping the visa will be approved and in short order. --RK

I want to go RK, but right now I think there's going to be another delay, something seems to have happened to her again, she was probably overstressed from that guy. Yes I need to get her out of this rut. I was talking about going a week ago but she thought for sure nothing could go wrong this time. She wants me there for flying to the US together with her dog, so if there was a delay in getting the visa I would have to go back again.

But now its getting over crazy and so your right, time to do something about this if I get the chance. Either that or maybe take her back to her mothers place in Latvia and get married there.

Thanks RK, lot of thinking and waiting to do to see whats happened to her.

[Dante & Geor 36]

I want to go RK, but right now I think there's going to be another delay, something seems to have happened to her again, she was probably overstressed from that guy. Yes I need to get her out of this rut. I was talking about going a week ago but she thought for sure nothing could go wrong this time. She wants me there for flying to the US together with her dog, so if there was a delay in getting the visa I would have to go back again.

But now its getting over crazy and so your right, time to do something about this if I get the chance. Either that or maybe take her back to her mothers place in Latvia and get married there.

Thanks RK, lot of thinking and waiting to do to see whats happened to her.

Aww I'm sorry Looky, hope everything is fine with Loretta. Both of you are in my thoughts, and I'm sure in all Marchies' as well!! It'll be over soon, and you'll be with her again!

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Aww I'm sorry Looky, hope everything is fine with Loretta. Both of you are in my thoughts, and I'm sure in all Marchies' as well!! It'll be over soon, and you'll be with her again!

Thanks Geor! Well I still have some possible hopeful signs to go on, whether they are false signs or what it really means, I don't know. I got this international sim card for her and so far that phone is still ringing, which means somebody is keeping the phone charged. Nobody else but me and sometimes her mother talks to her on that phone. Somebody answered it yesterday, but I couldn't really be sure if it was Loreta cause it was a really sleepy and or tired voice, just answered with 'hello', I couldn't really make out anything after that, then a couple seconds later it seemed some other woman was on and she just said something in some language twice and then hung up. Of course silly me throughout just kept saying hello cause I couln't understand any of it. I called back once right after, but no answer. So far this morning its ringing but no answer.

[RK_and_Inday 10]

I want to go RK, but right now I think there's going to be another delay, something seems to have happened to her again, she was probably overstressed from that guy. Yes I need to get her out of this rut. I was talking about going a week ago but she thought for sure nothing could go wrong this time. She wants me there for flying to the US together with her dog, so if there was a delay in getting the visa I would have to go back again.

But now its getting over crazy and so your right, time to do something about this if I get the chance. Either that or maybe take her back to her mothers place in Latvia and get married there.

Thanks RK, lot of thinking and waiting to do to see whats happened to her.

Looky, if it works out, I hope you can go to Loreta at this time. I went to Philippines at time of Inday's interview, had to come back to U.S. for work reasons while Inday prepared for U.S. trip, then a few weeks later I flew to Philippines to accompany her back to U.S. One trip instead of two would have been better for the pocketbook and less interference with work but I went those times to give moral support and to be there in case any problems came up. The double-trip was worth doing and did make things go smoother. I also understand about the thinking and waiting and "looking before you leap" precaution as well. May wisdom and good fortune be yours, my friend, and whatever you decide continuing prayers for Loreta's safety and both of your future together. --RK

[LookyWhatIFound 38]

Looky, if it works out, I hope you can go to Loreta at this time. I went to Philippines at time of Inday's interview, had to come back to U.S. for work reasons while Inday prepared for U.S. trip, then a few weeks later I flew to Philippines to accompany her back to U.S. One trip instead of two would have been better for the pocketbook and less interference with work but I went those times to give moral support and to be there in case any problems came up. The double-trip was worth doing and did make things go smoother. I also understand about the thinking and waiting and "looking before you leap" precaution as well. May wisdom and good fortune be yours, my friend, and whatever you decide continuing prayers for Loreta's safety and both of your future together. --RK

RK, I truly appreciate your support and good advise, but the major problem is I don't know where she is, she could be hiding to avoid that guy knocking on the door or in a hospital. When she gets stressed it's not predictable where she goes. I found out from experience that I have a lot of trouble finding her, and her friends are of no help to me. Besides that its too late now, interview is supposed to be this Friday morning. I don't want to cancel it in case she finds a way to go, and I don't know for sure if she's got any of my txt messages and she doesn't have a home computer. Thanks for the prayers too, I'm also praying she's safe and her health not deteriorating. The waiting I was talking about was more to when I might here from her. But we will find our way back, we always do.