file for divorce cr1

[abdulaziz 0]

im pretty sure me and by "husband" are going to get divorced so if we do can i get him out of here. cuz i seems like it was visa fraud. he has changed 100000% he left me and went to live somewere else. and said he was going to move to another state. and nolonger wants me to involve any of my family. if you want more info on what happned pm me i dont want anyone to read this that knows the jerk

i know this is none of my business but im sorry this happened to you, because i have been a member with visajourney for almost i think 2 years, and i always read your post from before and how you wanted your husband to get here so badly. and now i read this and im shocked. its sad how some people just use other people just for a green card. good luck to you.

[coraliesolms 47]

Oh my gosh, I was in AP at the same time you were dealing with it, and I remember sympathising with you while I was reading your posts.... Im soo very sorry.

Another option to call would be you senator's immigration liason. Explain to them what happened and that he is now threatening you (I would file a police report ASAP) and see if he/she has any clout when it comes to dealing with your soon to be ex.

I am sooooo very sorry for your heartache MQ.

Definately file a police report though. You need to start a paper trail. Did you look through his stuff to see if there was any evidence that he had planned this? Can you read any of his emails? You are going to need every scrap of evidence you can come up with. He is still on a conditional visa right?

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

yah i know whatever i dont care any more.

yah hes leaving though. my father is shipping em back. but i want to make sure he wont come back.

[Lisamarie 79]

I don't have any advice for you, but I just want to say I am so sorry.........please do what you can to protect yourself and listen to everyone's advice here.

How is your father shipping him back? He's willingly going to go?

yah i know whatever i dont care any more.

yah hes leaving though. my father is shipping em back. but i want to make sure he wont come back.

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

my father and his father are close my father called his father and told him get him out i dont want him in america. so yah hes getting sent back but i wanna make sure he does not come back and i bet he is gonna try the same thing with another girl and i wanna make sure he never comes to america just like his father.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I'm so sorry this is happening to you, hon. Do what you need to do to be safe. It's good that your dad is looking out for you as great dads do. God bless you!

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

yah i have my whole family to look out for me which pisses him off. now that i think back he alwasys did do things that rub me with wrong way.

[SuperDuper! 230]

Sorry for your loss.

But does the Gummint do long AP's to prevent such situations?

Maybe AP is long for good reason.

They do want to protect the Petitioners, too.

Good luck, good life to you.

[Darnell 8,478]

my father called his and told him to get him out of america. but who can i call to make sure he does not some back to america?

For any deportation order from ICE to be successful,

ICE needs to decide to deport him

and they CAN decide to deport him

based on EVIDENCE that you prepare and submit to them.

Any types of threats (for evidentiary process) must be documented, and you should get the police involved with this evidentiary chain.

FBI profiling makes him smell like a terrorist (getting a Spouse Visa, moving out of the house, threatening you, claiming to import his family)

so get the FBI involved as well.

Seriously - read my words three times here, then map out your evidence.

The ONE PHONE CALL into ICE isn't enough, at all ..

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

i dont have evidance though how do i show evidance of him leaving me and moving out and threating me and my mother? how do i provide evadnace of him almost getting physical?

[Golden Gate 530]

i dont have evidance though how do i show evidance of him leaving me and moving out and threating me and my mother? how do i provide evadnace of him almost getting physical?

If he isn't living with you, then that is proof he moved out. If you know where he is, they can find him. You might not be able to prove he threatened you or almost got physical,

but you should still contact the police and tell them anyway RIGHT AWAY. If you wait, then they are not going to take it seriously. At least they will have it on record that you reported it

and you can build a trail of his behavior. Also, if he said anything to your parents, have them report it.

[oldahmed 38]

Just wanted to say, I'm sorry you have to be going through this. Men (not all) can be such ignorant pigs!

Is this necessary?

[moroccogirlny 100]

To MQ

Your husband might try to file a VAWA.. Don't answer his calls, he could be recording them and looking for threats out of you. Anything he does keep it documented. I hope you're safe.

[Fandango 1,439]

yah i know whatever i dont care any more.

yah hes leaving though. my father is shipping em back. but i want to make sure he wont come back.

If he has a valid greencard, then he can come back whenever he wants.

I'm sorry you're going through this

[Glyn and Kathy 288]

Is this necessary?

Ummm, yes, as a woman who has been mistreated by a man before, I think I can say honestly it is necessary. And I did say not all men. But from EVERY woman I have ever spoken to or been friends with, there has always BEEN AT LEAST ONE male in their lives who has done something horrible.

Sorry if it offends you....but its my opinion.