Feel the need to brag!

[NavarreMan 10]

Today I needed to file some Pleadings with the State Superior Court but could not be in 2 places at 1 time. My wife, in the US now for 3 years, picked up the ball and headed down to the Courthouse, in-stamped the Pleadings, went to the Trial Court Administrators Office to coordinate the trial date, went back to the Clerk of Courts Office to drop off the Pleadings and is now on her way to mail copies of the documents to the Defendant in the case. She is awesome!!!

Just had to share this. She's the greatest!

[thongd4me 69]

My ex-wife has had a part time job (whoop dee-doo) for over ten years

but since she has been getting maintenance and support has not felt

the urge to go out and get another job because what she gets from me

has made her life soo comfortable, thank you very much. That still has

not prevented her from being vindictive, dragging my a~~ to court recently.

When she complained that the alimony would be ending in a few months,

the judge rightly said she should go out and find another job.

My ex is from Japan and her English is much better than my Thai wife.

She is very intelligent and capable but still has some kind of notion of

entitlement without any duty on her part (either to find a job or to enable

the kids to visit me). She has never done any of the normal domestic

duties that would be normal for a stay-at-home wife (which she was

when I was living there).

My Thai wife found 2 jobs very quickly and still has the time to be

a domestic goddess and the light of my every evening.

This weekend since she was working I took up the task of

"Domestic God" and fully vacuumed our apartment. My pleasure.

My ex wife was agoraphobic but my Thai wife is a people person,

which is why she excells so well at two very different jobs, ladies'

retail and delicatessan counter person at a major supermarket.

One thing I learned was that before I re-married, I made sure that

I got to know all her relatives and co-workers and saw how she

related to them and how they loved and respected her.

My ex wife, on the other hand, was dysfunctional on all levels

at home and blamed everyone else but herself. If I had known

that before marrying her, things would have been very very different.

That is a very very strong case for the USCIS requirement that you

meet your fiance(e) in person (and the family as well).

[rlogan 2,036]

I see how my wife's hormones are raging while breast feeding. She doesn't have a second to spare with two babies incessantly making demands on her.

I call from the bar and can hear the babies crying over the noise from juke box and the guys whistling and yelling at the strippers. I can tell she's really stressed out by the way she screams at me. I feel kind of sorry for her in a way, but make sure she's got steak and eggs for me on the table when I get home. I'm always really hungry after closing down the bars. She turns her head to the side when I'm on her after that - not sure what's up with that. It's like she doesn't want to look at me or something.

Okay, none of that paragraph is true. But her suffering is! I don't drink and I've not been apart from her for more than a few hours in three years. Poor baby though - a mommy really sacrifices and the work never ends.

Wonderful to have such a dedicated wife and mother.