Dealing with financial issues

[JoannaV 174]

Don't know how he can get a visa to go abroad when he already has a visa application pending. It makes no sense.

If he is going to a country other than the US, then the K1 application has no bearing.

[queen1love 1]

Hello VJ's. I hope all is well with everyone. I just wanted to provide a little status update on my situation. A few days after I posted this. I emailed the Nigeria embassy and asked them to cancel the K-1 visa. I also mailed a certified letter to the USCIS Vermont, and the National Visa Center. The next day the Lagos embassy emailed me back and stated that the application has been sent back to the Vermont center. Vermont sent me a letter stating that the application is on administrative processing. Have not heard anything since I received that letter.

As far as the relationship goes, it is over, and probably was over before I even cancelled the visa application. I just don't think he really gets it. I try to explain to him the reason why I broke up with him. I guess he wants to act stupid. He did end up finally going to another country in September, so in actuality he could have went to the Visa interview because it was scheduled for June 13. He just didn't want to. I don't talk to him much. He still has not paid me anything for the cancel visa application; even though he is working. It is not about the money.. it is about principal. If you love me and appreciate me holding you down while you had nothing, then it should be your honor to hold me down when things are going well for you. It is all good because I am doing good and even better without him. I have my peace of mind and happiness back. I'm good.

I wish all of you the best while going through this visa journey.

[Queen-O 3]

Hmmmmmm it does sound suspicious that he is demanding you send him money, its strange that he is willing to abandon the petition if it doesn't come through soon. Patience is golden. I suggest you talk with him very well and let him know straight up that you've both put too much into this for him to go and mess it up! Naija is hard ooo i swear i have lived there and my husband lives there so i can imagine what he may be experiencing but it is also his country and he should be accustom to getting by. I personally have no problem sending my husband money because we are married and because he has taken care of me when i am in naija and i don't spend one dime of my money. Also when i do send him money he doesn't ask for it i just send it out of love and the need for him to be okay. But your case is different. Is this the first time he is asking you for money?? Shine ur eyes dear and be very watchful!

[Queen-O 3]

Hello VJ's. I hope all is well with everyone. I just wanted to provide a little status update on my situation. A few days after I posted this. I emailed the Nigeria embassy and asked them to cancel the K-1 visa. I also mailed a certified letter to the USCIS Vermont, and the National Visa Center. The next day the Lagos embassy emailed me back and stated that the application has been sent back to the Vermont center. Vermont sent me a letter stating that the application is on administrative processing. Have not heard anything since I received that letter.

As far as the relationship goes, it is over, and probably was over before I even cancelled the visa application. I just don't think he really gets it. I try to explain to him the reason why I broke up with him. I guess he wants to act stupid. He did end up finally going to another country in September, so in actuality he could have went to the Visa interview because it was scheduled for June 13. He just didn't want to. I don't talk to him much. He still has not paid me anything for the cancel visa application; even though he is working. It is not about the money.. it is about principal. If you love me and appreciate me holding you down while you had nothing, then it should be your honor to hold me down when things are going well for you. It is all good because I am doing good and even better without him. I have my peace of mind and happiness back. I'm good.

I wish all of you the best while going through this visa journey.

OMG i didn't see this before i posted. I am so sorry to hear this. Well its better you found out before it was too late honey. God bless you.