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EmYeu   3

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Hi Guys.

I haven't see my wife since Nov and right now it's killing me each day. I miss her a lot and we dont' have much time talking.

How do you guys deal with this?

I am not able to eat and sleep for a few weeks.

Need some nice advise or words of wisdome. :-)

I hate the waiting game....

I was fine for two years till we get married...

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Hi Guys.

I haven't see my wife since Nov and right now it's killing me each day. I miss her a lot and we dont' have much time talking.

How do you guys deal with this?

I am not able to eat and sleep for a few weeks.

Need some nice advise or words of wisdome. :-)

I hate the waiting game....

I was fine for two years till we get married...

i know .i bet everyone here knows this feeling, its tough very tough, i say every morning thank-you god for makeing this one day closer to my soulmate, please protect us and speed this un-natural process , then i make sure that the time we do spend togather is very quaility time, i text her, i call her, we chat every-morning at 6am my time...unless i over sleep..hehe but she foregives me, and say to your self this wont last forever....hope it helps, well nothing really helps unless your with her..send her love everyday :lol:

12/22/2010...married my soulmate,in tagaytay city.


USCIS...
01/28/2011...mailed I-130 to chicago Lockbox.....The journey begins
01/31/2011...receive I-130
02/05/2011...get a e-mail notice of NOA-1...states case transferred to CSC
02/08/2011...check clears my bank
02/10/2011... rec. hardcopy NOA-1 in mail...priority date..01/31/2011.....sit back relax and ride this slow mule!!
02/14/2011... touched ( it must have fallen on the floor )..hehe
05/12/2011...NOA-2 OMG...98days u kidding me!!!!!!!

NVC......

05/26/2011... finally got NVC case number...
05/28/2011... receive DS-3032 in e-mail/e-mailed the DS-3032 back
05/28/2011... receive AOS fee bill/ and paid online.
06/01/2011... AOS fee bill shows paid.
06/02/2011... DS-3032 accepted
06/03/2011... IV-bill generated and sented by e-mail
06/04/2011... Paid IV fee bill/ in progress
06/07/2011... IV fee bill showed paid/ downloaded cover sheet
06/08/2011... Express mail both the I-864(AOS) and DS-230
06/09/2011... Confirmed del at 11:10am signed by N visa center.
06/21/2011... SIF...yea!!! called NVC..yes case complete but no interview dates until aug..rats!!
06/28/2011... issured interview date set for 08/08/2011 At 6:30am.
07/12&13/2011... medical
YEA SHE PASSED MEDICAL

08/08/2011... interview approved!!!
08/19/2011...usa/arkansas.....

ROC

05/23/2013... mailed I-751 to Vermont

05/25/2013...delivery confirm received

05/30/2013...check cleared bank

06/01/2013...rec. NOA1 (receipt date 05/28/2013)

06/24/2013... biometrics appointment

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I know exactly how you feel. I last saw her at the beginning of August. I was doing pretty good for about 3 months, then things started getting much more difficult. Even though we talk on Skype a lot, it's still not enough.

I have problems sleeping. There are days when I seem to be unhappy for no reason. People ask me what's wrong and I can't really explain.

Honestly, the only people who really understand what this is like are the people on this site.

I have no advice but just want you to know that I'm feeling the same way. You're not alone in how you feel.

 

 

 

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hniHnitsuJ   8

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B_J you are so right...

Sometime you feel unhappy for no reason and only you know why..

Not only you feel unhappy. You don't want to go out, and don't want to see your friends.

We ALL in here been there, and done that.

My advices to you is don't think too much. One of this day, you both we be together soon.

Good luck.

I-130 Journey

USCIS

06-15-2008 : Marriage

08-16-2008 : I-130 Sent

08-18-2008 : I-130 Received

08-22-2008 : I-130 NOA1

02-02-2009 : I-130 NOA2 Approved 164 days from NOA1

NVC

02-04-2009 : Visited my wife for 2 weeks. 02-22-2009 come back to US

02-11-2009 : Received package from NVC

02-23-2009 : AOS Paid $70 (Online)

02-23-2009 : DS-3032 sent (by email)

02-25-2009 : Payment Received from my bank (AOS)

03-04-2009 : NVC has received the Choice of Agent DS-3032 (Online)

03-04-2009 : IV Application Processing Fees $400 (Online)

03-05-2009 : Payment Received from my bank (IV APS)

03-07-2009 : DS-230, and I-864 Sent (by USPS)

03-12-2009 : USPS confirm arrived at NVC for DS-230, & I-864

03-13-2009 : NVC received DS-230, & I-864 (Case in progress)

03-20-2009 : NVC case completed in 1 week NVC completed 03-20-2009.

04-02-2009 : NVC Left to HCM city

04-22-2009 : Medical Passed

05-12-2009 : Received a package IV from HCM Consulate by email

05-18-2009 : My wife got Pink.. yeah..

05-26-2009 : Visa received

06-18-2009 : US Entry!!! Yeah, my wife finally here.

06-29-2009 : Received SSN from snail mail

07-20-2009 : Green card received by mail

09-15-2009 : Writting test from DVM.

11-03-2009 : Driving Test.

01-20-2010 : Working.

04-20-2011 : Submit I751

04-26-2011 : Received I-797 NOA with Receipt Number

05-11-2011 : Received ASC Appointment Notice

06-03-2011 : Biometrics Apts @ 11:00 AM

10-11-2011 : Submit more evidence.

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Hi Guys.

I haven't see my wife since Nov and right now it's killing me each day. I miss her a lot and we dont' have much time talking.

How do you guys deal with this?

I am not able to eat and sleep for a few weeks.

Need some nice advise or words of wisdome. :-)

I hate the waiting game....

I was fine for two years till we get married...

I say good morning and good night,,, each day,,,twice

hang in there,,,,,,,,,,,,,me,, Dieu is my future

I just talked to her not even 2 hours ago but after reading your post and thinking about her. can say a tear did wet my cheek [sorry for being sappy, guys]

remember good always concurs evil,,,,,and my love is big as a Cadillac however long it takes ,,,to be with the one you really love and can not do without ,,hang in there

some days are tough some are joy but always remember her gentle touch, the smile , the feeling in your heart

and then say how can i not wait for her

chippo

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EmYeu   3

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Thanks Chippo.

My wife just suprised me earlier.. I just got home from work and she called me.. we just finished talking 30 minutes ago...

Miss her so much... but she have to do something now so I am missing her again..

She said go to bed early 12:30 because i m not online so you should go to bed.. i said no..then she said NO?? I m not online you go to bed..hahahaha

I love teasing her..

"Someday or tough and some day are joy...her gentle touch, the smile, the feeling in your heart" I like this Chippo....

I think if each of us come in here and post something it help us dealing with the waiting game.

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enhance the communication with postcards and letters. snail mail.. its a surprise and it breaks the routine.. As has been said, skype or yahoo video chats really help..

"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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b_weeks   6

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Been there, done that. All you can do is keep your head on straight, looking toward the future when you'll be together every day. that helps to get you through it. Be strong for her. She feels the same. It's tough on her to.

Just know that once your past the first step, everything else flies by (except for VSC Removing Conditions, they seem to be about 1 months behind CSC)

Hang in there.

Filed Removal of Conditions: 11/05/10

Rec'd NOA1: 11/08/10

Biometrics: 12/22/10

10 YR Greencard: 03/03/11 APPROVED

10 YR Greencard Rec'd: 03/08/11 RECEIVED

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