Jackson Lee blasts 'demeaning' Pepsi Super Bowl ad

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

[clueless_in_usa 8]

she is beautiful and intelligent and loves me.....;

Why is the add-on insult to American women needed?

My wife loves me, like no other woman has ever loved me (except my mum) ...

... so, why is it that this young, beautiful, super-smart, and caring woman, who can certainly have almost any other man she chooses, loves me so much, but the wonderful American women don't even want to look at me?

... even when I tried my best to talk to women in this country, the answer I got was "get lost!" I don't even have American women friends. Why is that?

Is it something very wrong with me, or something not right about American women's expectations?

This is something I have always wondered and have yet to find an answer for. Fortunately, my MOB (although we met in a different way) makes the search for an answer unnecessary. I am one of those who thanks God for women in other cultures/countries.

[tmma 467]

My wife loves me, like no other woman has ever loved me (except my mum) ...

... so, why is it that this young, beautiful, super-smart, and caring woman, who can certainly have almost any other man she chooses, loves me so much, .......

Well, I know I have never asked ' why' your lady loves you so much.

It's you whom is asking.

If you read the thread you would see that I was saying that when the lady has so many qualities that stand alone....why is there the need to-

1. Describe her online to a bunch of strangers in a crass and disrespectful way...

2. Push into the conversation insults to American women, as almost a reason to be with your current lady....

Most of that commentary was directed at the guys on here that objectify their spouses, broadcast the most personal of details about their life to the net & I don't know if that's you or not; however you did include a few lines describing your lack of attention from American women straight after listing all the wonderful qualities of your lady.

Why?

I am not sure why you would include the love of your mother into the mix.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

This really isn't about Pepsi, is it?

[tmma 467]

This really isn't about Pepsi, is it?

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

My wife loves me, like no other woman has ever loved me (except my mum) ...

... so, why is it that this young, beautiful, super-smart, and caring woman, who can certainly have almost any other man she chooses, loves me so much, but the wonderful American women don't even want to look at me?

... even when I tried my best to talk to women in this country, the answer I got was "get lost!" I don't even have American women friends. Why is that?

Is it something very wrong with me, or something not right about American women's expectations?

This is something I have always wondered and have yet to find an answer for. Fortunately, my MOB (although we met in a different way) makes the search for an answer unnecessary. I am one of those who thanks God for women in other cultures/countries.

If you can't get a date in your own country, it's more plausible that the fault lies with you rather than with the female population

[Fandango 1,439]

And that's one of the many differences between American women and Eastern European women. American women get "skeered", and I have yet to meet an Eastern European woman that didn't have b@lls bigger than a bull...so to say. I believe the economic and social factor plays the #1 role for Eastern European women marrying US men. But even with that the US guy looking for a "relationship without the head games" is still coming out ahead of the game imo. If Eastern European women get scared, they don't show it. If there's something that bothers them, they tell you right off the get go...no head games. If they plan on moving to the US they decide to do it and there's no looking back. Granted they miss there family, but they made the decision and that's that. A lot of friends and co workers here in Alaska married Russian women when they still had a majority of Alaskan's working the Sakhalin oil field in Russia back in the 90's and early 2000's. Out of maybe a half dozen of those marriages that I know of, only one hasn't worked out, and it was due to the fact he didn't get off the booze.

It's easier for some men to just take the plunge and marry a foreign gal...like shopping for a car I guess, then to go through all the bs that goes on here in the States. That and chances are a guy marry's a chick half his age, college educated, bi lingual, and she usually looks like a Victoria Secret model. I was lucky enough to be one of those guys thanks to "myspace.com".

If some guy I im'd here and there, even for a few months, was willing to just walk away from his life to move to wherever just to be with me, I'd say that person has some sort of issues. The comment was an off the cuff silly one...but I would certainly think twice.

Furthermore, can you not talk about EE women as if they are a breed of dog? They are individuals, and I've read enough in the effects forum and elsewhere here which proves the above not to be true across the board.

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I think the reason this issue seems to get under the skin of so many women here in the USA is because men have always valued a woman's attractiveness, as women have valued a man's ability to provide. The dynamic is suddenly being upset as foreign women have abruptly entered the dating 'marketplace'. Attracting a mate has always been competitive from both sides. Now women face competition they did not have before and they don't like it. Globalization has been tough on many people job-wise, but a boon to others. The same is now happening in relationships. But don't for a minute think that the only factor driving this is the physical attractiveness of foreign women! Some men may be this stupid (as 'gold-digging' women are equally stupid) but the majority of relationships I know of (even including Gary's, I think) are based on many levels of connection and attraction. A much bigger turn-off for me relative to many american women I have known is the over-developed sense of entitlement that many seem to have. There are many more issues important to me as well that have led me in the direction I have gone. I am sure that you women could probably list a number of reasons you find your foreign boy-friends/husbands more appealing than us American guys!

Trust me, imo the foreign women are doing us a service cleaning up the place.

I say give em all instant citizenship, hazard pay, and keys to the city.

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If you were better educated you may not worry about other people so much. I NEVER concern myself with what other people choose for their level of education.

But I see that if I comment on my wife's other skills, she gets criticized anyway. Good cook? Intelligent? Does it make any difference? Nope. Just hate on her all the same. Why?

You are pro choice? Unless I choose not to marry an American woman. Pro choice unless I choose to post late at night, and then you want to know WHY. Pro choice unless someone wants to choose to further their education (in a new language no less!) You understand that Alla is TEACHING English now, right?

What I see here only reinforces the choices I have made. Thanks.

And AJ is right...I love it and it is better than I would have imagined!

For such an educated woman, she certainly married a plonk because you clearly fail in reading comprehenison on something as basic as a flippin mb.

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

That pervert Charles is into the heels and cobblestones and he makes em wear life preservers too

high heels and cobblestones are an inside joke that you may not be aware of.

[tmma 467]

lol@plonk.

[Amby 490]

Tmma and Lisa come in to clean up at the end. Plonk made me lol

[tmma 467]

If you can't get a date in your own country, it's more plausible that the fault lies with you rather than with the female population

ITA.

Can I use this in my siggy?

[Fandango 1,439]

Tmma and Lisa come in to clean up at the end. Plonk made me lol

Hey, I woulda loved helping out, but the hubby restricts my internet usage during certain hours

[tmma 467]

Tmma and Lisa come in to clean up at the end. Plonk made me lol

I don't know about Lisa but i don't mind clearing up.

It's the very least I feel I can do for my beautiful intercontinental sisters that have had to endure those who get told to get lost by the awful, fat, ugly likes of us here in the States.

[B_J 2,752]

If you can't get a date in your own country, it's more plausible that the fault lies with you rather than with the female population

I think we have a winner!

[Fandango 1,439]

Hey clueless...I thought your post was refreshingly honest. Bravo.