K-1 spousal abuse & green card

[vett 6]

We American didn't think we held such a commodity for some people. Life is a circle, what goes around always find a way to come back to you.

ditto my friend ditto!! i live by that law!

[vett 6]

What I am saying is that if he shows up and explain why he is not willing to AOS, they will either deny or give her the opportunity to present her WAVA claim. A WAVA claim is not easy. But it will let him off the hook, all he will have to do is divorce her at his leisure, or she will have to divorce him at her expense.

All of the work and expense will be put upon her to try to obtain her GC thru the wava claim if there is any creditability to it. He will be able to go his merry way, because he will not be under any obligations to her any longer. If I remember correctly there is a child involve in this marriage, that would be another court case.

yes your memory serves you well, there is a child involved

[americandiva 0]

We American didn't think we held such a commodity for some people. Life is a circle, what goes around always find a way to come back to you.

Vett what part of the state is this. Also he should show up at the interview , contest it..Does he work for a government,or city ,or cty job.If so he might want to let his superiors know what going on to protect his job. Also he should put a restraining order out on her. I work as a Social Worker in Calif, for the County, so I do lots of referrals based on domestic violence.

[amykathleen2005 441]

OP you could attempt to report her to ICE and USCIS.

[vett 6]

Vett what part of the state is this. Also he should show up at the interview , contest it..Does he work for a government,or city ,or cty job.If so he might want to let his superiors know what going on to protect his job. Also he should put a restraining order out on her. I work as a Social Worker in Calif, for the County, so I do lots of referrals based on domestic violence.

they are in the vegas area.

[staceluvyou 6]

well thanks guys for all your replies. i feel so much for my friend he does NOT deserve it. i know he would NEVER hit her, so i know she is just trying to

build a case against him. after all she did to him she is still trying to bring him down. but karma will deal with her. she was my friend too, but now i do

not want to be her friend anymore bcuz she has shown me that she can be a viscous, conniving, manipulate witch!! i wish her all the best.

leave her to God, her day will come soon, it's women like her who make it bad for other women. i agree that he should contest it and file for a divorce.

[luckytxn 2,265]

I would definitely get a hold of them and say that he wanted to withdraw his support and was starting divorce proceedings due to her marrying him only for a green card and ask how to go about withdrawing the support document. That may get them to take special notice.

[Chavonia 4]

yes that is exactly what she did. but they also has a son together so i guess she figures with that fact, plus the fact that she got him

arrested on domestic violence she has a solid case to get her green card. bcuz he told her that he was not going to the AOS meeting.when

he found out that she was cheating with the neighbor, and she told him that it's over. also she did not consummate the marriage, that is

what she and him told me.

Ok, so just a question or two. How is it relevant to their case that they have not consummated the marriage? Does the USCIS really inquire about the sexual relationship of couples petitioning for visas? Just wondering. Also, they have a son together...biological son I am assuming so it's not like they have never had sexual relations before. Anywho, I was just wondering. I think that you should stay out of this, which I think may be hard. Sorry you are losing a friendship in this but you should just stay out of it!

[vett 6]

Ok, so just a question or two. How is it relevant to their case that they have not consummated the marriage? Does the USCIS really inquire about the sexual relationship of couples petitioning for visas? Just wondering. Also, they have a son together...biological son I am assuming so it's not like they have never had sexual relations before. Anywho, I was just wondering. I think that you should stay out of this, which I think may be hard. Sorry you are losing a friendship in this but you should just stay out of it!

well the consummation of marriage part comes in because her husband wanna file for annulment. and yes i do agree with you that the best i can do is

just stay out of it. this is exactly what i should have done from the get go. but being there for over 8yrs playing consular with these 2 has put me where

i didn't want to be. IN THE MIDDLE! and now her husband is asking me to write an affidavit stating things that she told me, that might help his case.

i'm like are you nuts?? this will never happen. i do feel for him and what he is going through. but i would NEVER betray a friend's trust by doing that

even if her and i never speak to each other again. i will take what she told me to the grave. and i will do the same on his part.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

well the consummation of marriage part comes in because her husband wanna file for annulment. and yes i do agree with you that the best i can do is

just stay out of it. this is exactly what i should have done from the get go. but being there for over 8yrs playing consular with these 2 has put me where

i didn't want to be. IN THE MIDDLE! and now her husband is asking me to write an affidavit stating things that she told me, that might help his case.

i'm like are you nuts?? this will never happen. i do feel for him and what he is going through. but i would NEVER betray a friend's trust by doing that

even if her and i never speak to each other again. i will take what she told me to the grave. and i will do the same on his part.

The laws vary from one state to another, but an annulment based on a claim that the marriage hasn't been consummated usually requires proof of an inability to consummate. For example, impotence on the part of the husband, or frigidity on the part of the wife. Annulments are almost never granted to a couple who had children together prior to the marriage. Your friend should save himself some time and money and just file for a divorce.