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XXXXXXYYYY   1

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Generally, and there will be exceptions of course:

If you are going through the Philippines, Vietnam, Russia etc etc the USC will be male and will be older that the beneficiary, sometimes by quite a bit.

If you go through MENA countries it is the opposite, most petitioners are female and will be older than the beneficiary.

Wow.. really?

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Being a man it's more accepted, But an older woman, wow! not too many ppl like to hear that you're with a younger man..Good Luck I Wish You Both The Best

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I am very happy you made this comment. I read a post yesterday and it seems the couple may have been denied the visa because of the age difference. I have been very worried about this. There is not a

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~happyndinlove~   540

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Build a comprehensive evidence of relationship file and you should be fine.

Have read many VJ member success stories with a larger age difference than yours.

Good Luck!

Immigration Timeline Summary

10.21.2008 – CR-1 Visa Application Filed (By Hubby's Sec)
09.04.2009 – Visa Interview | Passed
09.10.2009 – Visa Packet Received
09.17.2009 – US Entry | Home
07.05.2011 – ROC Petition Filed
05.01.2012 – ROC Approved (No Interview)
05.18.2012 – 10-year GC Received
06.19.2012 – Eligible to apply for Naturalization (procrastinated)
06.24.2013 – N-400 Application Filed
09.30.2013 – Civics Test / Interview | Passed
10.03.2013 – Oath Taking Ceremony | Became a USCitizen!
04.14.2014 – Applied for "Expedite Service" Passport (as PI travel date was fast approaching)
04.16.2014 – Passport Issued & Shipped
04.17.2014 – US Passport Received

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A and T   82

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You look super young for 49! haha

07-24-2009 Received NOA1
08-05-2009 Touched
10-02-2009 I-797C for Biometrics Appt
10-26-2009 Biometrics Appt. Completed
05-11-2010 Request for Evidence on both the I129F and I130
07-01-2010 Case Transferred to Vermont Service Center
10-20-2011 Contacted Ombudsman
02-07-2012 Case denied after almost 3 years =(
03-07-2012 Appeal Filed!
01-20-2013 Contacted Ombudsman again...

06-25-2013 EOIR Appeal Review

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Shenzhen   34

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Mavylyn and I met on MySpace almost 4 years ago. Just friends. To me at that time just a pretty philipina. The last year and a half I began to talk to her all the time. As I got closer to her I realized there is a 17 year age difference and I was getting to serious and with her feelings in mind and her future tried to end it. She was not happy and hurt. I deleted My entire MySpace account but forgot she was on my Messenger. 2 Days had passed and I sat miserably but knowing I did the right thing. Suddenly, a message come from Mav. I was so excited to hear from her. And it went from there.

Mavylyn is 32 and I'm 49. I met the family last August and have their Approval. I proposed to Mav January 30th 2010 and she is wearing my ring. (Well her ring) LOL

How do you feel and what do think the Philipphine Consulate will feel.

Mav and I talk EVERYDAY. Either Yahoo, web cam, phone.

Your imput is welcome. Oh, Mav don't know I wrote this yet. Our Account on VJ is Joint. OMG! She's going to kill me !

Thanks. Say it as it is please.

One of my co-workers just came back from this week with his fiancee from the Philippines she's 20 he's 58 all was approved in about 6-7 months. Age is not a problem. He filed 1 month and she is here. I am still waiting for my papers to arrive at the NVC. You will not have a problem.

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pepper   34

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It wont be a problem as it is fairly common in the Philippines.I'm 20 years older than my wife:D...Best wishes to you both!!

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N400 Timeline:

4/14/12- 3rd yr as PR

1/17/12- mailed packet

Biometrics-- waived

4/25/12- interview- passed & took my oath the same day!!-- US Citizen!!!

My N400 Journey took 3months & 8days!:)

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christera22   8

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: India
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I am the man 35 and my wife is 56....we didnt have any problem. So long your relation is bonafide you wont have any problem. :thumbs:

AOS
Married: June 9, 2008.
Visa expired : June 12, 2008
Filed for AOS . Sent through USPS Priority Express : March 03, 2009
Package Delieverd at USCIS: March 05, 2009
March 13, 2009 : Checks Cashed
March 13, 2009 : NOA 1 received on I-485, I-130, I-765. Dated March 11th, 09
March 17, 2009 : Biometrics Letter recieved (Dated 13th March). Interview on 1st week of April
April 2, 2009 : Biometrics done. Total time taken with wait 20 mins.
April 22, 2009 : Called USCIS. They have received fingerprints and work permit is in process.
May 7, 2009 : I-765 case online. Card Production ordered.
May 11,2009 : EAD card received.
May 12,2009 : Applied for SSN.
May 18,2009 : Received SS card.
June 08,2009 : Received Letter for Interview ( scheduled on July 14 th July )
July 14th : Great Interview. All done in 20 mins.
July 18th: Online status - Card Production ordered. Thank God !! I-130 online status : Pending
July 23rd : Welcome to USA & I-130 approval letter recieved. Online status still shows pending.
July 31st : Received conditional green card
Removing Condition
3/25/11 - Received reminder from USCIS to file for ROC
5/6/11 - Sent I-751 Packet to CSC via usps
5/9/11- Package delivered to csc.
5/11/11- Check cashed electronically by CSC
5/16/11- NOA 1 received
5/27/11 - Biometrics letter received.Scheduled on 06/06/11. Case Online
6/6/11 - Biometrics done
9/6/11 - Approved.Card Production Ordered
9/12/11- Card Received

Citizenship

10/13/15 : Sent N400

10/16/15 : NOA

11/13/15 : Fingerprints

11/17/15 : In Line for Interview

01/11/16 : Interview- Passed & Given Oath letter & Date by hand

01/14/16 : Oath Ceremony done & Naturalization Certificate in hand.Proud citizen of USA

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Marizhell   11

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Mavylyn and I met on MySpace almost 4 years ago. Just friends. To me at that time just a pretty philipina. The last year and a half I began to talk to her all the time. As I got closer to her I realized there is a 17 year age difference and I was getting to serious and with her feelings in mind and her future tried to end it. She was not happy and hurt. I deleted My entire MySpace account but forgot she was on my Messenger. 2 Days had passed and I sat miserably but knowing I did the right thing. Suddenly, a message come from Mav. I was so excited to hear from her. And it went from there.

Mavylyn is 32 and I'm 49. I met the family last August and have their Approval. I proposed to Mav January 30th 2010 and she is wearing my ring. (Well her ring) LOL

How do you feel and what do think the Philipphine Consulate will feel.

Mav and I talk EVERYDAY. Either Yahoo, web cam, phone.

Your imput is welcome. Oh, Mav don't know I wrote this yet. Our Account on VJ is Joint. OMG! She's going to kill me !

Thanks. Say it as it is please.

Age really doesnt matter. Im from the Philippines, 30 and my husband 47. We didnt have any problem no RFE so far :) evry comments here are all tru, just show a bonifide evidence and evrything will works fine. Goodluck

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zachm611 Explorer

zachm611   3

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
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Age is just a number....love has no boundaries, my wife is 5.5 years older than me... shes a beautiful filipina :) she is shy of her age or our age gap kind of at times but we love eachother and its all that matters... she doesnt look very old at all! :) good luck!

USCIS

09/15/2010 - I130 Submitted

09/17/2010 - I130 Delivered (USPS Delivery Confirmation)

09/21/2010 - I130 USCIS Received I130 Email & Text

09/24/2010 - Form I-797C Received NOA1 Letter

12/20/2010 - Form I-797C Recieved NOA2 Petition Has Been Approved! (87 Days Since NOA1)

NVC

12/28/2010 - Case number and IIN generated

12/29/2010 - DS-261 Submitted (Online Choice of Agent) Submitted

12/30/2010 - AOS fee paid

01/07/2011 - IV fee paid

01/14/2011 - DS-260 Completed (Online IV Application)

01/24/2011 - AOS Package Received (Stupid snow storm delayed it)

01/27/2011 - Civil Documents for DS-260 received

02/01/2011 - Re Submitted DS-260 (Wrong number entered as Beneficiary ID)

02/10/2011 - AVR Says RFE for civil documents (False RFE, just had to wait for wife's package to be reviewed)

02/14/2011 - Sign In FAIL!

02/15/2011 - Case Complete!!!!

03/01/2011 - Interview Date Assigned (well 1:18am on March 2 best wake up ever!)

US CONSULATE - MONTREAL

03/23/2011 - Medical - Complete PASSED!

04/08/2011 - Interview

00/00/2011 - Visa Received

00/00/2011 - POE

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PhilAmTx   14

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me and my hubby met on myspace too.he was hesitant for our gap differences.he kept telling me "you are to young for me" and i always said "no you're not" it was big deal for him that he is 15 years older than me. that's why i said to him one day "okay ,if im too young for you then quit talking to me" :( ...and he answered right away " uhh.. nope we are fine.. you are not too young for me.. :P lol... that's how our love story started. (L) (L) (L) BRY (L) ANN

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Richie Rich   70

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Philippines
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I agree what many on this thread said that Age is just a no .Love and trust is what matters between you and yr fiancee/wife. I also have a age gap difference , but it does not bother my fiancee or her family . We have grown to love and cherish each other and is waiting to spend the rest of our lives together. The people of the Philippines are very tolerant and hospitable .

-400 CITIZENSHIP TIMELINE

01-17-2015 = N-400 packet sent (to P.O. Box Dallas via USPS Priority Mail)
01-21-2015 = N-400 packet delivered
01/25/2015 = E confirmation / Text received

01/26/2015 = Check cashed .

02/02/2015 = NOA1 received (Priority Date 01/21/2015)
02/09/2015 = Biometrics Letter received .

02/18/2015 = Biometrics

02/20/2015 = In line for interview

04/10/2015 = Interview Letter received .

05/11/2015 =Interview .

05/11/2015 = Passed Interview
07/01/2015 = Oath letter received
07/24/2015 = Oath Cerememony

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she&chael   0

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Filed: AOS (apr) Timeline
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Hello,

For me age doesn't matter. Don't worry about your age gap the important there is your truth relationship. My husband is 16 years older than me but i don't care about that, as long we are both live happy together. Just bring more important evidence that's it.

SSW

K-1 Process in P.I.

1-2-2008 - Meet online

4-5-2008 - Engaged

10-25-2008 - File for the I-129

1-14-2009 - Received Approval Notice from USCIS

1-29-2009 - Received a letter from US Embassy Manila

2-25-2009 - Medical in SLMCEC

5-7-2009 - Medical Done in SLMCEC

5-27-2009 - Interview in US Embassy Manila,Passed!Thank God!

5-31-2009 - Visa Received Delivered by Airfreight 2100 Inc.

6-1-2009 - Attend Seminar Pre- Departure Orientation Seminar

6-3-2009 - Arrived in Los Angeles Airport.I am very happy!!!

8-18-2009 - Married in Norwalk California

AOS TIMELINE

8-27-2009 - AOS sent to Chicago IL

8-31-2009 - USCIS Received Date

9-5-2009 - Received Notice of Action I-485,I-765 and I-131

9-10-2009 - Received Appointment Notice I-485 for Biometric

9-10-2009 - Received Appointment Notice I-765 for Biometric

10-1-2009 - Biometric Schedule and Done!!!

10-15-2009 - Received Employment Authorization Card and Advance Parole

10-15-2009 - Received Notice of Action REQUEST FOR APPLICANT TO APPEAR FOR INITIAL INTERVIEW

10-20-2009 - Medical and Vaccination CIVIL SURGEON wait for 1 week for blood test result and TB skin test

10-29-2009 - Medical and Vaccination Done and PASSED!!!

10-21-2009 - Apply for SSN

10-27-2009 - Received SSN in mailbox

11-17-2009 - INTERVIEW DATE

11-17-2009 - Interview Done and Passed!!!

GOD is GOOD all the time

11-20-2009 - Welcome letter received today!!! Thank you Lord

11-28-2009 - Received my Permanent Card.Thank you very much Lord!!!

12-1-2009 - Passed the written examination for driving

Please pray for me and Good Luck to others

Boiler Grand Master

Boiler   46,176

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
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If age does not matter why do we not see older women and younger me going through the Philippines?

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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PhilAmTx   14

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If age does not matter why do we not see older women and younger me going through the Philippines?

because, women here loves older men... :wow: and older men there loves younger men.. simple as that... thats why men there and women here are very "COMPATIBLE" :P

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