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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ireland
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if he comes here on a tourist visa and stays- i know that is an overstay- can i file for a waiver based on hardship for him so he could stay here?

No, because there is no petitionable relationship (ie he is not your son).

Bye: Penguin

Me: Irish/ Swiss citizen, and now naturalised US citizen. Husband: USC; twin babies born Feb 08 in Ireland and a daughter in Feb 2010 in Arkansas who are all joint Irish/ USC. Did DCF (IR1) in 6 weeks via the Dublin, Ireland embassy and now living in Arkansas.

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
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As penguin said, you cannot petition for him or file a waiver for him. You do not have a relationship that USCIS recognizes for immigration

Good luck

USCIS
August 12, 2008 - petition sent
August 16, 2008 - NOA-1
February 10, 2009 - NOA-2
178 DAYS FROM NOA-1


NVC
February 13, 2009 - NVC case number assigned
March 12, 2009 - Case Complete
25 DAY TRIP THROUGH NVC


Medical
May 4, 2009


Interview
May, 26, 2009


POE - June 20, 2009 Toronto - Atlanta, GA

Removal of Conditions
Filed - April 14, 2011
Biometrics - June 2, 2011 (early)
Approval - November 9, 2011
209 DAY TRIP TO REMOVE CONDITIONS

Citizenship

April 29, 2013 - NOA1 for petition received

September 10, 2013 Interview - decision could not be made.

April 15, 2014 APPROVED. Wait for oath ceremony

Waited...

September 29, 2015 - sent letter to senator.

October 16, 2015 - US Citizen

Filed: F-2A Visa Country: Jamaica
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Posted

LPR petitions for a minor child are not considered immediate relatives.

Current cut off date F2A - Current 

Brother's Journey (F2A) - PD Dec 30, 2010


Dec 30 2010 - Notice of Action 1 (NOA1)
May 12 2011 - Notice of Action 2 (NOA2)
May 23 2011 - NVC case # Assigned
Nov 17 2011 - COA / I-864 received
Nov 18 2011 - Sent COA
Apr 30 2012 - Pay AOS fee

Oct 15 2012 - Pay IV fee
Oct 25 2012 - Sent AOS/IV Package

Oct 29 2012 - Pkg Delivered
Dec 24 2012 - Case Complete

May 17 2013 - Interview-Approved

July 19 2013 - Enter the USA

"... Answer when you are called..."

Filed: Country: South Africa
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Posted

LPR petitions for a minor child are not considered immediate relatives.

ok thanks everyone for the information! greatly appreciated.

for those who are waiting on visas, I just want to offer words of encouragement.

My wife and I went through quite the wait when I was coming to the US.

But hang in there and stay persistent with the consulate, it will happen!

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Posted

I would like to jump in here with a very similar question...

BACKGROUND:

In late 2009, I got engaged to a woman in the Philippines who I have known for just over 10 years (through our entire twenties). Seven years ago, her mother died she assumed raising her then 5-year-old sister. The father is in the picture, but barely. As I understand it, he visits for a day or two every few months - He is unfit, has no money, no home, and has another child my another woman who is also receiving no support. Flash forward to 2011, and we are in same boat as the OP - How to get the now 12-year-old sister here with my fiance. My fiancee is 29, college-educated, employed, responsible - everything a child needs. But she never officially adopted her, because that's just not necessary to assume rearing of a sibling there. (The only other sibling is a 26 year old brother who travels for construction jobs and sleeps wherever he can lay his head.)

ISSUE:

We can't leave the girl there by herself, but her "father" is still alive. My fiancee and I read the same pages on USCIS that say a woman can have her children, step-children and adopted children accompany her with the K1 visa. She actually found it first - because she is worried about leaving her sister - and showed me. So I told her to go ahead and adopt her sister, as it looks like it is the only way... But now it looks like you guys are all saying it will not work?? My fiancee has raised her sister, the girl may as well be an orphan.

QUESTION:

I saw someone say that in some cases, a child who does have a living parent or parents can still be adopted by a relative IF the parents are not deemed fit by the fiancee's country. Well, I believe we fit into that scenario... How do we go about proving it to the U.S.?

My fiancee actually has an appointment/visit with the Philippine equivalent of Social Services (I guess), next week. They are coming to evaluate her eligibility for an official adoption. If they will allow her to adopt her sister, her lawyer tells her that it would be retroactive for at least 5 years. Her brother has been calling their father and he SAYS he will show up to the interview, to sign over rights, if necessary. How do we PROVE to the US/Immigration that this is not a "sham adoption"? That we are just making official, something that has already been true for many years - my fiancee IS her sister's only "parent".

06/20/2002 - Introduced through her Aunt
07/05/2002 - Correspondence begins and continues for years; friendship and feelings slowly but surely grow stronger.
05/12/2009 - Met in Philippines! Stayed for two weeks and had a great time. Can't wait to go back!
10/11/2009 - She said YES! (became engaged)

USCIS
10/29/2010 - Mailed I-129F
11/08/2010 - Check cashed
11/11/2010 - Received NOA1 dated 11/05/2010 (My case landed in Vermont - #######!)
11/15/2010 - Touched
04/05/2011 - It's been 5 months and not a peep from USCIS/VSC :-(
04/19/2011 - Touched/Text Message and Email this AM (APPROVED!)
04/22/2011 - Hard copy NOA2 received (166 days)

US Embassy
(All dates are Philippines dates)
05/20/2011 - Birth Certificate error cleared up
06/03/2011 - Fiancee waiting for her Passport
06/03/2011 - Not a peep from the Embassy (Manila)
07/21/2011 - Passport obtained
07/22/2011 - Interview scheduled 8/4
08/01/2011 - Fiancee and family on first flight EVER, to Manila
08/02/2011 - Medical
08/03/2011 - Medical (Passed, no concerns)
08/04/2011 - Interview! Passed! (they think)
08/24/2011 - Received Embassy email indicating fiance's visa has been issued!
08/31/2011 - 09/13/2011 Philippines Vacation!
09/14/2011 - Arrived together in Dallas, TX!

11/11/2011 - Married!

Filed: Country: South Africa
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Posted

I would like to jump in here with a very similar question...

BACKGROUND:

In late 2009, I got engaged to a woman in the Philippines who I have known for just over 10 years (through our entire twenties). Seven years ago, her mother died she assumed raising her then 5-year-old sister. The father is in the picture, but barely. As I understand it, he visits for a day or two every few months - He is unfit, has no money, no home, and has another child my another woman who is also receiving no support. Flash forward to 2011, and we are in same boat as the OP - How to get the now 12-year-old sister here with my fiance. My fiancee is 29, college-educated, employed, responsible - everything a child needs. But she never officially adopted her, because that's just not necessary to assume rearing of a sibling there. (The only other sibling is a 26 year old brother who travels for construction jobs and sleeps wherever he can lay his head.)

ISSUE:

We can't leave the girl there by herself, but her "father" is still alive. My fiancee and I read the same pages on USCIS that say a woman can have her children, step-children and adopted children accompany her with the K1 visa. She actually found it first - because she is worried about leaving her sister - and showed me. So I told her to go ahead and adopt her sister, as it looks like it is the only way... But now it looks like you guys are all saying it will not work?? My fiancee has raised her sister, the girl may as well be an orphan.

QUESTION:

I saw someone say that in some cases, a child who does have a living parent or parents can still be adopted by a relative IF the parents are not deemed fit by the fiancee's country. Well, I believe we fit into that scenario... How do we go about proving it to the U.S.?

My fiancee actually has an appointment/visit with the Philippine equivalent of Social Services (I guess), next week. They are coming to evaluate her eligibility for an official adoption. If they will allow her to adopt her sister, her lawyer tells her that it would be retroactive for at least 5 years. Her brother has been calling their father and he SAYS he will show up to the interview, to sign over rights, if necessary. How do we PROVE to the US/Immigration that this is not a "sham adoption"? That we are just making official, something that has already been true for many years - my fiancee IS her sister's only "parent".

Actually- you are in a different situation from me because it is your fiance's sister who is a direct relative and your fiance can petition for her, mine is nephew so I would have to bring my sister here first then my nephew. As far as bringing her sister at the same time, may be another issue. I'm sure there are some on this board that will have answers for you on that.

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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you would need an underlying petition to file the waiver with and there is no reason. Also if the father is alive to be an orphan you need them both to die.

What do you mean by "underlying petition"?

And what difference does it make if the father is alive if he has had little to no involvement in her upbringing? We would rather he give the girl to us than to sell her to some random stranger who aims to "put her to work"...

Please, tell me more about the "underlying petition".... We have a good chance, I think. What does she need to show to this case worker next week to prove, basically, there is no "father"?

06/20/2002 - Introduced through her Aunt
07/05/2002 - Correspondence begins and continues for years; friendship and feelings slowly but surely grow stronger.
05/12/2009 - Met in Philippines! Stayed for two weeks and had a great time. Can't wait to go back!
10/11/2009 - She said YES! (became engaged)

USCIS
10/29/2010 - Mailed I-129F
11/08/2010 - Check cashed
11/11/2010 - Received NOA1 dated 11/05/2010 (My case landed in Vermont - #######!)
11/15/2010 - Touched
04/05/2011 - It's been 5 months and not a peep from USCIS/VSC :-(
04/19/2011 - Touched/Text Message and Email this AM (APPROVED!)
04/22/2011 - Hard copy NOA2 received (166 days)

US Embassy
(All dates are Philippines dates)
05/20/2011 - Birth Certificate error cleared up
06/03/2011 - Fiancee waiting for her Passport
06/03/2011 - Not a peep from the Embassy (Manila)
07/21/2011 - Passport obtained
07/22/2011 - Interview scheduled 8/4
08/01/2011 - Fiancee and family on first flight EVER, to Manila
08/02/2011 - Medical
08/03/2011 - Medical (Passed, no concerns)
08/04/2011 - Interview! Passed! (they think)
08/24/2011 - Received Embassy email indicating fiance's visa has been issued!
08/31/2011 - 09/13/2011 Philippines Vacation!
09/14/2011 - Arrived together in Dallas, TX!

11/11/2011 - Married!

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Nigeria
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Posted

If the child came on a visitors visa and overstayed, the only forgiviness is as the immediate relative of a US citizen who is petitioning. You run into the same issue about the child not meeting the adoptable orphan requirements. Immigration is pretty tough on the defination of immediate relative. My husband has 21 siblings , imagine the immigration flood if he "adopted" all of their kids ( his nephews and nieces) so they could quickly get to the US using the arguement that Nigeria is a 3rd world country.

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
Timeline
Posted

I would like to jump in here with a very similar question...

BACKGROUND:

In late 2009, I got engaged to a woman in the Philippines who I have known for just over 10 years (through our entire twenties). Seven years ago, her mother died she assumed raising her then 5-year-old sister. The father is in the picture, but barely. As I understand it, he visits for a day or two every few months - He is unfit, has no money, no home, and has another child my another woman who is also receiving no support. Flash forward to 2011, and we are in same boat as the OP - How to get the now 12-year-old sister here with my fiance. My fiancee is 29, college-educated, employed, responsible - everything a child needs. But she never officially adopted her, because that's just not necessary to assume rearing of a sibling there. (The only other sibling is a 26 year old brother who travels for construction jobs and sleeps wherever he can lay his head.)

ISSUE:

We can't leave the girl there by herself, but her "father" is still alive. My fiancee and I read the same pages on USCIS that say a woman can have her children, step-children and adopted children accompany her with the K1 visa. She actually found it first - because she is worried about leaving her sister - and showed me. So I told her to go ahead and adopt her sister, as it looks like it is the only way... But now it looks like you guys are all saying it will not work?? My fiancee has raised her sister, the girl may as well be an orphan.

QUESTION:

I saw someone say that in some cases, a child who does have a living parent or parents can still be adopted by a relative IF the parents are not deemed fit by the fiancee's country. Well, I believe we fit into that scenario... How do we go about proving it to the U.S.?

My fiancee actually has an appointment/visit with the Philippine equivalent of Social Services (I guess), next week. They are coming to evaluate her eligibility for an official adoption. If they will allow her to adopt her sister, her lawyer tells her that it would be retroactive for at least 5 years. Her brother has been calling their father and he SAYS he will show up to the interview, to sign over rights, if necessary. How do we PROVE to the US/Immigration that this is not a "sham adoption"? That we are just making official, something that has already been true for many years - my fiancee IS her sister's only "parent".

Contact Laural Scott. Your case is complicated. She is an immigration attorney that gives free chats on Wednesdays. Condense your question and ask there.

Unless the child is a true orphan -which it is not-then I do not believe a petitionable relationship exists. But that is what Laural Scott is for

Good luck

USCIS
August 12, 2008 - petition sent
August 16, 2008 - NOA-1
February 10, 2009 - NOA-2
178 DAYS FROM NOA-1


NVC
February 13, 2009 - NVC case number assigned
March 12, 2009 - Case Complete
25 DAY TRIP THROUGH NVC


Medical
May 4, 2009


Interview
May, 26, 2009


POE - June 20, 2009 Toronto - Atlanta, GA

Removal of Conditions
Filed - April 14, 2011
Biometrics - June 2, 2011 (early)
Approval - November 9, 2011
209 DAY TRIP TO REMOVE CONDITIONS

Citizenship

April 29, 2013 - NOA1 for petition received

September 10, 2013 Interview - decision could not be made.

April 15, 2014 APPROVED. Wait for oath ceremony

Waited...

September 29, 2015 - sent letter to senator.

October 16, 2015 - US Citizen

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: India
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Posted

I would like to jump in here with a very similar question...

BACKGROUND:

In late 2009, I got engaged to a woman in the Philippines who I have known for just over 10 years (through our entire twenties). Seven years ago, her mother died she assumed raising her then 5-year-old sister. The father is in the picture, but barely. As I understand it, he visits for a day or two every few months - He is unfit, has no money, no home, and has another child my another woman who is also receiving no support. Flash forward to 2011, and we are in same boat as the OP - How to get the now 12-year-old sister here with my fiance. My fiancee is 29, college-educated, employed, responsible - everything a child needs. But she never officially adopted her, because that's just not necessary to assume rearing of a sibling there. (The only other sibling is a 26 year old brother who travels for construction jobs and sleeps wherever he can lay his head.)

ISSUE:

We can't leave the girl there by herself, but her "father" is still alive. My fiancee and I read the same pages on USCIS that say a woman can have her children, step-children and adopted children accompany her with the K1 visa. She actually found it first - because she is worried about leaving her sister - and showed me. So I told her to go ahead and adopt her sister, as it looks like it is the only way... But now it looks like you guys are all saying it will not work?? My fiancee has raised her sister, the girl may as well be an orphan.

QUESTION:

I saw someone say that in some cases, a child who does have a living parent or parents can still be adopted by a relative IF the parents are not deemed fit by the fiancee's country. Well, I believe we fit into that scenario... How do we go about proving it to the U.S.?

My fiancee actually has an appointment/visit with the Philippine equivalent of Social Services (I guess), next week. They are coming to evaluate her eligibility for an official adoption. If they will allow her to adopt her sister, her lawyer tells her that it would be retroactive for at least 5 years. Her brother has been calling their father and he SAYS he will show up to the interview, to sign over rights, if necessary. How do we PROVE to the US/Immigration that this is not a "sham adoption"? That we are just making official, something that has already been true for many years - my fiancee IS her sister's only "parent".

Cant blame US authority - they were lax on the issue but ppl were mis-using and bring whole families over in US with fake adoption and fake relatives.

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Posted

Cant blame US authority - they were lax on the issue but ppl were mis-using and bring whole families over in US with fake adoption and fake relatives.

But this is neither a "fake" adoption nor a "fake" relative. She is going through all of the bells and whistles of an authentic, official adoption there in her country. And this is her true, blood relative - It's her sister, they have the same parents. It's just that the mother is deceased, the father is not in their lives and the sister is a minor with the only "parental" force in her life being my fiancee. I think I need to call USCIS to see what they need to prove that the girl is essentially an orphan.

06/20/2002 - Introduced through her Aunt
07/05/2002 - Correspondence begins and continues for years; friendship and feelings slowly but surely grow stronger.
05/12/2009 - Met in Philippines! Stayed for two weeks and had a great time. Can't wait to go back!
10/11/2009 - She said YES! (became engaged)

USCIS
10/29/2010 - Mailed I-129F
11/08/2010 - Check cashed
11/11/2010 - Received NOA1 dated 11/05/2010 (My case landed in Vermont - #######!)
11/15/2010 - Touched
04/05/2011 - It's been 5 months and not a peep from USCIS/VSC :-(
04/19/2011 - Touched/Text Message and Email this AM (APPROVED!)
04/22/2011 - Hard copy NOA2 received (166 days)

US Embassy
(All dates are Philippines dates)
05/20/2011 - Birth Certificate error cleared up
06/03/2011 - Fiancee waiting for her Passport
06/03/2011 - Not a peep from the Embassy (Manila)
07/21/2011 - Passport obtained
07/22/2011 - Interview scheduled 8/4
08/01/2011 - Fiancee and family on first flight EVER, to Manila
08/02/2011 - Medical
08/03/2011 - Medical (Passed, no concerns)
08/04/2011 - Interview! Passed! (they think)
08/24/2011 - Received Embassy email indicating fiance's visa has been issued!
08/31/2011 - 09/13/2011 Philippines Vacation!
09/14/2011 - Arrived together in Dallas, TX!

11/11/2011 - Married!

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
Timeline
Posted

The girl is not an orphan, the child has parents

Contact that lawyer I sent you the info for. USCIS is known as the 'misinformation line" you do NOT need misinformation regarding the future of a child

USCIS
August 12, 2008 - petition sent
August 16, 2008 - NOA-1
February 10, 2009 - NOA-2
178 DAYS FROM NOA-1


NVC
February 13, 2009 - NVC case number assigned
March 12, 2009 - Case Complete
25 DAY TRIP THROUGH NVC


Medical
May 4, 2009


Interview
May, 26, 2009


POE - June 20, 2009 Toronto - Atlanta, GA

Removal of Conditions
Filed - April 14, 2011
Biometrics - June 2, 2011 (early)
Approval - November 9, 2011
209 DAY TRIP TO REMOVE CONDITIONS

Citizenship

April 29, 2013 - NOA1 for petition received

September 10, 2013 Interview - decision could not be made.

April 15, 2014 APPROVED. Wait for oath ceremony

Waited...

September 29, 2015 - sent letter to senator.

October 16, 2015 - US Citizen

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Nigeria
Timeline
Posted

The point you have to prove is that the parent(s) are incapable of supporting the child to the local poverty level. This could mean that they are disabled or inprisioned or something of that sort. That is the "loophole" of not being an orphan. Proving is in the legal sense not just making statements and not that you can provide a better life. You have to prove your sister is not capable of raising the child.

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

Posted

I would like to jump in here with a very similar question...

BACKGROUND:

In late 2009, I got engaged to a woman in the Philippines who I have known for just over 10 years (through our entire twenties). Seven years ago, her mother died she assumed raising her then 5-year-old sister. The father is in the picture, but barely. As I understand it, he visits for a day or two every few months - He is unfit, has no money, no home, and has another child my another woman who is also receiving no support. Flash forward to 2011, and we are in same boat as the OP - How to get the now 12-year-old sister here with my fiance. My fiancee is 29, college-educated, employed, responsible - everything a child needs. But she never officially adopted her, because that's just not necessary to assume rearing of a sibling there. (The only other sibling is a 26 year old brother who travels for construction jobs and sleeps wherever he can lay his head.)

ISSUE:

We can't leave the girl there by herself, but her "father" is still alive. My fiancee and I read the same pages on USCIS that say a woman can have her children, step-children and adopted children accompany her with the K1 visa. She actually found it first - because she is worried about leaving her sister - and showed me. So I told her to go ahead and adopt her sister, as it looks like it is the only way... But now it looks like you guys are all saying it will not work?? My fiancee has raised her sister, the girl may as well be an orphan.

QUESTION:

I saw someone say that in some cases, a child who does have a living parent or parents can still be adopted by a relative IF the parents are not deemed fit by the fiancee's country. Well, I believe we fit into that scenario... How do we go about proving it to the U.S.?

My fiancee actually has an appointment/visit with the Philippine equivalent of Social Services (I guess), next week. They are coming to evaluate her eligibility for an official adoption. If they will allow her to adopt her sister, her lawyer tells her that it would be retroactive for at least 5 years. Her brother has been calling their father and he SAYS he will show up to the interview, to sign over rights, if necessary. How do we PROVE to the US/Immigration that this is not a "sham adoption"? That we are just making official, something that has already been true for many years - my fiancee IS her sister's only "parent".

I am going to ask you a question according to your statement the mother died 7 years ago, why didn't the SO adopt her sister then, Why is it necessary for the OP to adopt the sister now that she is attempting to migrate to the US. Also, you have stated that you'll have known each other for 10 years, and none of this was a concern even in her home country, the OP want to have guardianship over her sister. To the US immigration, the adoption at this time will look as if you are only using it to gain a pathway for the sister to enter the US.

BTW, the father is still active in the sister life, even if it isn't up to your standards. So, all of this proves that the sister has never been a true orphan. This will be the 1st obstacle you will have to overcome , in the true sense the sister is not an orphan. Will he give up his rights to the sister, yes if he think sending her to the US will give her a better life.

Hell, everyone in a 3rd world country would do this, but this is not the definition that the US immigration uses to define an orphan. I know this is not what you want to hear, but it is what is.

I am not judging or criticizing your actions I am only stating our this will look in the eyes of immigration. If all else doesn’t work, then think about putting the sister in a private boarding school, and give her the best you’ll can offer.

 
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