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[amaabepo 0]

:huh: :crying: :( :(

OMGGGGGGG SO DEVASTATED OUR K1 GOT REJECTED AND IS BEING SENT BACK TO THE US... I DID EVERYTHING THE RIGHT WAY AND

I DO WANT TO THANK YOU GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND COOPERATION. WELL OFFICIALLY I HAD NEVER TOLD ANY ONE OUR STORY BUT HERE

IT GOES AND I DO WANT YOUR HONEST OPINION AND BEST POSSIBLE WAY TO GET A SOLUTION, I HAD A NIGHT MARE FOR THE LAST 3DAYS

SO PLEASE HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP...

ANNEURYS AND I GREW UP TOGETHER STARTED DATING AT 14 AND BEEN ON AND OFF SINCE. IN 2007 I HAD A RELATION SHIP W A JERK THAT

DINT WORK 1 NIGHT WE DECIDED TO GET MARRY AND LIVE TOGETHER HERE FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS HERE IN DR. WE DID AND HAD LOTS OF PROBLEM

WE REALIZED THAT IT WASN'T WORKING AND I FILED FOR DIVORCE WE WERE MARRIED 1 YEAR EXACTLY INCLUDING THE TIME FOR THE DIVORCE

IT ENDED IN 2008 I WENT BACK TO MY TOWN AND SAW MY ONLY 1 AND TRUE LOVE BECAUSE IF WE HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN THIS IN SO MANY YEARS

SOMETHING IS GOING ON THAT SPARK LIGHTED UP AGAIN. I LEFT AND 2 MONTHS LATER FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT WE WERE SO HAPPY MY SON WAS

BORN IN USA AND WE CAME RIGHT AT 3 MONTHS AND WHEN HE WAS 1 YEAR OUR RELATION SHIP IS REALLY STRONG BECAUSE WE HAVE

BEEN THROUGH SO MANY THINGS TOGETHER... INCLUDING THIS 1 WHEN I LEFT 1 DAY THE MR WAS DRUNK AND I DON'T KNOW THINKING WHAT AND

SLEPT W SOMEONE THAT GIRL HAS A BB NOW AND HE DINT BOTHER TO TELL ME BECAUSE HE KNEW WHAT WAS COMING. IF FOUND OUT BY SOME ONE ELSE

WE TALKED I WAS MAD FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS BUT GOT BACK TOGETHER I FILED ALL THE PP BECAUSE I DO LOVE HIM AND INC HIS BB IN ALL.

THE PP WORK AND WE DO WANT TO BE TOGETHER AND RAISE OUR CHILD I STILL SUBMITTED THE PP WORK AND PUT HIS BBB IN THERE

TO ME IN MY MIND THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT WE DO LOVE EACH OTHER IN OUR OWN WEIRD STRANGE WAY EVEN THOUGH WE ALWAYS FIGHT THAT'S

JUST A HABIT IF WE DON'T SOMETHING FEELS WRONG WE KEPT ON GOING WE THE RELATION WE CANNOT TURN TIME BACK

THAT BABY IS HERE AND IT IS NOT HER FAULT. I HAD A GUT FEELING THAT WAS GOING TO CAUSE SOME TROUBLE ALONG THE WAY WELL IT DID

WE GOT TO THE INTERVIEW FINE AND WHEN THE CONSUL CALLED US HE SWORE US IN SPANISH AND THEN ASKED ME IN ENGLISH HOW LONG WE

HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER? I SAID 24YRS HOW LONG U BEEN DATING? SINCE 2008 THEN HE ASKED ME ABOUT MY MARRIAGE AND I TOLD HIM YES

FOR 1 YEAR AND THEN I GOT DIVORCED AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE JULY 08 NON STOP HE SAID OK WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT

HIS BB THAT IS NOW 9 MONTHS I SAID YES I KNOW AND WE CANNOT TURN TIME BACK BECAUSE I FELT OK WITH IT I GOT OVER IT ALREADY

HE THEN TOLD ME DO YOU ACTUALLY WANT ME TO BELIEVE THAT YOU GUYS HAVE A LEGIT RELATION SHIP WHEN YOU GOT DIVORCED THEN HAD A

BB WITH HIM AND NOW HE HAS A BB WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHAT GUARANTEES ME THAT WHEN U GUYS GET TO USA YOU INDEED ARE GETTING MARRIED

HE HAD SEEN OUR PICS A WHOLE ALBUM FILL W STUFF AND DINT CARE HE TOLD ME THAT STRAIGHT UP I WOULD HAVE TO GET MARRIED BECAUSE

HE WAS NOT GOING TO ACCEPT THE PETITION AS A K1 BECAUSE ALL THE FRAUD HE THEN SAID I'M DONE W YOU AND GAVE US THE PASSPORT

AND I TOLD HIM OK IF THAT'S THE PROBLEM WE WILL DO IT AS IS.

IT WAS 11 AM WHEN WE GOT OUT THANKS GOD I'M FROM HERE AND FROM NAGUA ALSO I CALLED A COUPLE OF PEOPLE WENT TO MY HOUSE

MY GRANDPA HAD A NACIMIENTO I HAD MY SONS AND WE GOT 2 WITNESS AND GOT MARRIED AT 4PM YESTERDAY WHEN I TOUGHT THERE WAS NO HOPE

BECAUSE THEY SAID WE COULDN'T GET MARRIED GOD SHINED THAT LIGHT AND WE DID... TOOK OUR PICS AND CRIED I KNEW I WAS LEAVING TODAY

AND I WAS LEAVING I A WORSE SITUATION BUT I KNOW GOD WILL PULL US THROUGH THIS 1 AGAIN "TENGO FE"" WE BEEN THROUGH WORSE

AND OUT OF IT.. WE GOT A YELLOW PAPER THAT SAID YOUR PETITION IS BEING SENT BACK TO USA

NOW MY ???????????????????????????????????????????????? IS PLEASE HELP ME AND WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO NOW

SHOULD I FILE A K3 OR I HAVE HEARD ABOUT DIRECT CONSULAR FILING WHAT IS THAT AND HAS ANYONE BENN THROUGH A DENIAL PROCESS

THAT CAN GIVE ME SOME LIGHT PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.......... AND SORRY FOR WRITING IN CAPS

[Aztec&Taino 144]

:huh: :crying: :( :(

OMGGGGGGG SO DEVASTATED OUR K1 GOT REJECTED AND IS BEING SENT BACK TO THE US... I DID EVERYTHING THE RIGHT WAY AND

I DO WANT TO THANK YOU GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND COOPERATION. WELL OFFICIALLY I HAD NEVER TOLD ANY ONE OUR STORY BUT HERE

IT GOES AND I DO WANT YOUR HONEST OPINION AND BEST POSSIBLE WAY TO GET A SOLUTION, I HAD A NIGHT MARE FOR THE LAST 3DAYS

SO PLEASE HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP...

ANNEURYS AND I GREW UP TOGETHER STARTED DATING AT 14 AND BEEN ON AND OFF SINCE. IN 2007 I HAD A RELATION SHIP W A JERK THAT

DINT WORK 1 NIGHT WE DECIDED TO GET MARRY AND LIVE TOGETHER HERE FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS HERE IN DR. WE DID AND HAD LOTS OF PROBLEM

WE REALIZED THAT IT WASN'T WORKING AND I FILED FOR DIVORCE WE WERE MARRIED 1 YEAR EXACTLY INCLUDING THE TIME FOR THE DIVORCE

IT ENDED IN 2008 I WENT BACK TO MY TOWN AND SAW MY ONLY 1 AND TRUE LOVE BECAUSE IF WE HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN THIS IN SO MANY YEARS

SOMETHING IS GOING ON THAT SPARK LIGHTED UP AGAIN. I LEFT AND 2 MONTHS LATER FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT WE WERE SO HAPPY MY SON WAS

BORN IN USA AND WE CAME RIGHT AT 3 MONTHS AND WHEN HE WAS 1 YEAR OUR RELATION SHIP IS REALLY STRONG BECAUSE WE HAVE

BEEN THROUGH SO MANY THINGS TOGETHER... INCLUDING THIS 1 WHEN I LEFT 1 DAY THE MR WAS DRUNK AND I DON'T KNOW THINKING WHAT AND

SLEPT W SOMEONE THAT GIRL HAS A BB NOW AND HE DINT BOTHER TO TELL ME BECAUSE HE KNEW WHAT WAS COMING. IF FOUND OUT BY SOME ONE ELSE

WE TALKED I WAS MAD FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS BUT GOT BACK TOGETHER I FILED ALL THE PP BECAUSE I DO LOVE HIM AND INC HIS BB IN ALL.

THE PP WORK AND WE DO WANT TO BE TOGETHER AND RAISE OUR CHILD I STILL SUBMITTED THE PP WORK AND PUT HIS BBB IN THERE

TO ME IN MY MIND THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT WE DO LOVE EACH OTHER IN OUR OWN WEIRD STRANGE WAY EVEN THOUGH WE ALWAYS FIGHT THAT'S

JUST A HABIT IF WE DON'T SOMETHING FEELS WRONG WE KEPT ON GOING WE THE RELATION WE CANNOT TURN TIME BACK

THAT BABY IS HERE AND IT IS NOT HER FAULT. I HAD A GUT FEELING THAT WAS GOING TO CAUSE SOME TROUBLE ALONG THE WAY WELL IT DID

WE GOT TO THE INTERVIEW FINE AND WHEN THE CONSUL CALLED US HE SWORE US IN SPANISH AND THEN ASKED ME IN ENGLISH HOW LONG WE

HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER? I SAID 24YRS HOW LONG U BEEN DATING? SINCE 2008 THEN HE ASKED ME ABOUT MY MARRIAGE AND I TOLD HIM YES

FOR 1 YEAR AND THEN I GOT DIVORCED AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE JULY 08 NON STOP HE SAID OK WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT

HIS BB THAT IS NOW 9 MONTHS I SAID YES I KNOW AND WE CANNOT TURN TIME BACK BECAUSE I FELT OK WITH IT I GOT OVER IT ALREADY

HE THEN TOLD ME DO YOU ACTUALLY WANT ME TO BELIEVE THAT YOU GUYS HAVE A LEGIT RELATION SHIP WHEN YOU GOT DIVORCED THEN HAD A

BB WITH HIM AND NOW HE HAS A BB WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHAT GUARANTEES ME THAT WHEN U GUYS GET TO USA YOU INDEED ARE GETTING MARRIED

HE HAD SEEN OUR PICS A WHOLE ALBUM FILL W STUFF AND DINT CARE HE TOLD ME THAT STRAIGHT UP I WOULD HAVE TO GET MARRIED BECAUSE

HE WAS NOT GOING TO ACCEPT THE PETITION AS A K1 BECAUSE ALL THE FRAUD HE THEN SAID I'M DONE W YOU AND GAVE US THE PASSPORT

AND I TOLD HIM OK IF THAT'S THE PROBLEM WE WILL DO IT AS IS.

IT WAS 11 AM WHEN WE GOT OUT THANKS GOD I'M FROM HERE AND FROM NAGUA ALSO I CALLED A COUPLE OF PEOPLE WENT TO MY HOUSE

MY GRANDPA HAD A NACIMIENTO I HAD MY SONS AND WE GOT 2 WITNESS AND GOT MARRIED AT 4PM YESTERDAY WHEN I TOUGHT THERE WAS NO HOPE

BECAUSE THEY SAID WE COULDN'T GET MARRIED GOD SHINED THAT LIGHT AND WE DID... TOOK OUR PICS AND CRIED I KNEW I WAS LEAVING TODAY

AND I WAS LEAVING I A WORSE SITUATION BUT I KNOW GOD WILL PULL US THROUGH THIS 1 AGAIN "TENGO FE"" WE BEEN THROUGH WORSE

AND OUT OF IT.. WE GOT A YELLOW PAPER THAT SAID YOUR PETITION IS BEING SENT BACK TO USA

NOW MY ???????????????????????????????????????????????? IS PLEASE HELP ME AND WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO NOW

SHOULD I FILE A K3 OR I HAVE HEARD ABOUT DIRECT CONSULAR FILING WHAT IS THAT AND HAS ANYONE BENN THROUGH A DENIAL PROCESS

THAT CAN GIVE ME SOME LIGHT PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.......... AND SORRY FOR WRITING IN CAPS

Amaabepo,

I am so sorry to read that your fiance was denied his visa. I was looking forward to hopefully reading good news from you! I am surprised you were able to get married so soon (I thought there was a wait of at least a couple of days or something). Anyway, I guess you have chosen your new route. Upon return to the USA you need to file the I-130 and petition for your husband to try to get the CR-1 visa. You need to get your Dominican marriage certificate translated as USCIS will need the translation of the original Spanish document.

You could file your I-130 petition as a DCF (Direct Consular Filing) only if you were living in the DR. I have read that you would have to be a legal resident of the DR and have a cedula (ID card) in order to be able to file DCF. Yet, it sounds as though you are returning to the USA and does not seem as though you are planning on living in the DR for now. Now, I wish you had considered your situation more carefully and would have consulted with other people who have gone through the process in the DR (such as the people in the Dominicans to the USA website). I am sure they would have advised you to get married and file for the CR-1 and not bother to try to get the fiance visa because of the potential red flags in your relationship. At any rate, stay strong and look forward with a positive mind to plan B. I hope someone with more knowledge can tell you whether you need to write a letter to USCIS to withdraw your I-129 F petition in order for your upcoming I-130 to be processed.

Best wishes!

[amaabepo 0]

Amaabepo,

I am so sorry to read that your fiance was denied his visa. I was looking forward to hopefully reading good news from you! I am surprised you were able to get married so soon (I thought there was a wait of at least a couple of days or something). Anyway, I guess you have chosen your new route. Upon return to the USA you need to file the I-130 and petition for your husband to try to get the CR-1 visa. You need to get your Dominican marriage certificate translated as USCIS will need the translation of the original Spanish document.

You could file your I-130 petition as a DCF (Direct Consular Filing) only if you were living in the DR. I have read that you would have to be a legal resident of the DR and have a cedula (ID card) in order to be able to file DCF. Yet, it sounds as though you are returning to the USA and does not seem as though you are planning on living in the DR for now. Now, I wish you had considered your situation more carefully and would have consulted with other people who have gone through the process in the DR (such as the people in the Dominicans to the USA website). I am sure they would have advised you to get married and file for the CR-1 and not bother to try to get the fiance visa because of the potential red flags in your relationship. At any rate, stay strong and look forward with a positive mind to plan B. I hope someone with more knowledge can tell you whether you need to write a letter to USCIS to withdraw your I-129 F petition in order for your upcoming I-130 to be processed.

Best wishes!

thank u so much i also wish that i would consulted someone too and not wasted my time and money but i still stand true to my relation ship and going trough everything.. i was able to marry because i have my dominican cedula and all my dominican stuff i have never let it expire and also that we are from the same town and was able to get my birth certificate that my grandparents have and i had my sons org certificate w me also. the judge that married us is a very good friend w my uncles wife that's also a judge in nagua that's why we were able to do it so quick i do thank god and look forward to getting this over with someone told me that i shouldn't file right away and i don't know what to do?????

[Aztec&Taino 144]

thank u so much i also wish that i would consulted someone too and not wasted my time and money but i still stand true to my relation ship and going trough everything.. i was able to marry because i have my dominican cedula and all my dominican stuff i have never let it expire and also that we are from the same town and was able to get my birth certificate that my grandparents have and i had my sons org certificate w me also. the judge that married us is a very good friend w my uncles wife that's also a judge in nagua that's why we were able to do it so quick i do thank god and look forward to getting this over with someone told me that i shouldn't file right away and i don't know what to do?????

Why shouldn't you file right away? You married right away, so why would it be damaging to your case to file right away? Think about it, you married right after the K1 visa was denied just in time before you returned to the US. Would waiting weeks or months to file to I-130 change that fact? No. It would only mean that your case would take longer to complete.

[amaabepo 0]

Why shouldn't you file right away? You married right away, so why would it be damaging to your case to file right away? Think about it, you married right after the K1 visa was denied just in time before you returned to the US. Would waiting weeks or months to file to I-130 change that fact? No. It would only mean that your case would take longer to complete.

i honestly don't know i went too see an actual attorney yesterday and they advised me that because of the bbs situation she said so they wont think its a fraud it made no sense to me either that's why I'm asking for advice i feel im very prepared to demonstrate that the relationship is true but i really don't know what to do i'm sooooo frustrated.. :crying:

[Aztec&Taino 144]

i honestly don't know i went too see an actual attorney yesterday and they advised me that because of the bbs situation she said so they wont think its a fraud it made no sense to me either that's why I'm asking for advice i feel im very prepared to demonstrate that the relationship is true but i really don't know what to do i'm sooooo frustrated.. :crying:

How would filing 6 months from now or 1 year from now change the fact that your SO made a baby with another woman during the time that you were in a relationship? The child is still going to exist. She will only be older, she is going to be 15 months, 21 months, etc. How is not filing now going to change the facts?:

a) Your SO was denied the K1 visa.

b) Your SO has a baby daughter with another woman.

c) You married the same day of the K1 denial.

d) You will have to file the I-130 if you intend to bring your husband to the US to live with you. If you wait to file it just means you will be together as a family in the US later rather than sooner.

I am sorry, but the lawyer's advice makes no sense to me. Of course, I am not a lawyer and since you went through the trouble of getting professional advice I suppose it is best that you follow this advice as not to waste your money.