California hasn´t checked any October fillers but some November and December

[missyouhoney 1]

According to Igor´s list, they haven´t checked any October case while they are now checking November and December? What´s going on?

Is this another sign from heaven that i´d better break up my engagement, find a local and marry him?

[Tero 105]

According to Igor´s list, they haven´t checked any October case while they are now checking November and December? What´s going on?

Is this another sign from heaven that i´d better break up my engagement, find a local and marry him?

Seriously though, is that true?

[Mrs O. 29]

According to Igor´s list, they haven´t checked any October case while they are now checking November and December? What´s going on?

Is this another sign from heaven that i´d better break up my engagement, find a local and marry him?

Been seeing many signs lately?

Nah...just persevere, your turn is just round the corner, cheer up!

[Channah&Aaron 51]

; OMG, OP, are you serieus?

Why freakin' out if you still have 2 months (or so) of waiting left? I am an October filer as well (VSC), and VSC also have approved some Oct/Nov/Dec filers (maybe expedited cases?).

I ain't jumping outta the waiting line, just because of that. My 5month mark will be, like yours, in March. That is the month you need to hold on to in first place.

Cheer up, don't be silly and 'enjoy' the last part of the bumpy ride

Edited January 29, 2011 by Channah&Aaron

[missyouhoney 1]

I don´t know.... I see other couples who e-mail each other, skype, and visit, etc. My fiacné has enough with a daily 10-minute call....

Anyways, good luck to you all!

[Moomin 292]

I think it's quite common to act on your frustration when being apart but if you let that guide you then ofcourse the ride will make your stomach turn to the point of where you're acting on it, and not the bond between you.

It's individual how much time people spend together however, you are planning on living together in the future and somewhere beyond "only ten minutes a day" you might be looking for an answer to why you have to pour everything into those minutes when you desire more. If you're not satisfied with the way you are communicating make sure that your significant other understands it's going to be a dramatic change spending days, weeks, months and years together in the future.

Good luck to you no matter what!

[missyouhoney 1]

I think it's quite common to act on your frustration when being apart but if you let that guide you then ofcourse the ride will make your stomach turn to the point of where you're acting on it, and not the bond between you.

It's individual how much time people spend together however, you are planning on living together in the future and somewhere beyond "only ten minutes a day" you might be looking for an answer to why you have to pour everything into those minutes when you desire more. If you're not satisfied with the way you are communicating make sure that your significant other understands it's going to be a dramatic change spending days, weeks, months and years together in the future.

Good luck to you no matter what!

Very wise words indeed. I gotta be careful with the way i react towards frustration.