Girl with girl cheating OK, half of boyfriends say

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

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NEW YORK (Reuters) – Half of men would forgive their female partner's infidelity, as long as it was with another woman, according to a new study on cheating.

Women, however, were less likely to forgive and forget if their boyfriend had been with another man, the University of Texas at Austin study showed.

Researchers asked 718 college students to imagine being in a long-term relationship and what their reactions would be to several different cheating scenarios.

They found that overall, 50 percent of men would likely continue a relationship with a woman who had a dalliance with another woman, while 22 percent said they could forgive betrayal with another man.

For women, the results were reversed. If their boyfriend cheated with another woman, 28 percent said they'd keep him around, but only 21 percent said they would if he cheated with another man.

Published this month in the journal "Personality and Individual Differences," the study concluded the participant's reactions were based on basic jealousy instincts.

"A robust jealousy mechanism is activated in men and women by different types of cues -- those that threaten paternity in men and those that threaten abandonment in women," said Jaime Confer, the study's lead author and a PhD candidate in evolutionary psychology.

Men, they said, felt more threatened by a rival male because of paternity uncertainty, whereas they saw a female partner's homosexual affair as "an opportunity to mate with more than one woman simultaneously, satisfying men's greater desire for more partners."

Mark Cloud, one of the study co-authors, stressed in an interview that the homosexual infidelity scenario they asked participants to imagine was very rare in reality.

So, the researchers asked participants about their real experiences with cheating. There again, men showed less tolerance of cheating than women.

"Men were significantly more likely than women to have ended their actual relationships following a partner's affair," according to the study.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Surprised?

[mawilson 2,133]

Girl with guy cheating OK, the other half say.

[Jenn! 918]

21% of women would stay with a BF who had cheated on them with a guy? Really?

[mawilson 2,133]

21% of women would stay with a BF who had cheated on them with a guy? Really?

Why not? 21 percent isn't a lot.

Poll reveals 14 percent would choose pet over spouse in US

[Jenn! 918]

Why not? 21 percent isn't a lot.

Poll reveals 14 percent would choose pet over spouse in US

No doubt the 14% is just a subset of the 21%. Pretty f'ed up if you ask me!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I would feel equally betrayed, regardless of who my spouse cheated with.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I would feel equally betrayed, regardless of who my spouse cheated with.

What if you were tied to a chair and forced to watch?

[mawilson 2,133]

What if you were tied to a chair and forced to watch?

If I was forced to watch, I'd choose a guy, as I'm more turned on by heterosexual sex.

And if the missus enjoys it, I could learn a thing or two.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

If I was forced to watch, I'd choose a guy, as I'm more turned on by heterosexual sex.

And if the missus enjoys it, I could learn a thing or two.

wth ? You would rather watch a guy doing your wife than some hot chick ? I would love to see s hot chick getting it on with the wife.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

What if you were tied to a chair and forced to watch?

I just hope I'd have at least one hand free and a box of tissue to drown my sorrows in.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I just hope I'd have at least one hand free and a box of tissue to drown my sorrows in.

That's for round two, if you are a good boy and don't complain too much during round one.

[Ban Hammer 13,480]

I just hope I'd have at least one hand free and a box of tissue to drown my sorrows in.

no granola bars to chew on while watching?

[one...two...tree 2,762]

That's for round two, if you are a good boy and don't complain too much during round one.

I might let out a whimper or two.

[mawilson 2,133]

I would love to see s hot chick getting it on with the wife.

Nah that would be weird. I don't have the right equipment to compete with a chick.