AGE DIFFERENCE

[ally and moh 3]

Thank you SO much for your words of encouragement. I cannot believe you allowed them to scream at you this way.

I would have gone straight through the ceiling. I'm a very very nice woman, but if someone pulls this nonsense on

me, I am a tiger. In fact, my husband calls me a tiger!!! The judge in Morocco refused to approve a marriage for us,

and I confronted him in the court house. My husband said he was shocked when I got up and told the judge I wanted

to talk to him. When I was through, obviously he gave us permission. I called the USCIS today and complained and

had a very rude guy at first and then asked for his supervisor who was lovely and then went on to tell me her own mom

married a man 20 years her junior. I am kicking up a lot of dust here. How did they ever have the nerve to talk to you,

a citizen of the USA, in such a manner? That is so horrible. I'm sitting here stunned. You look like a very happy

couple and I wish you every happiness. Best to you!

Those guys did make me very angry! So angry I left the room in tears when they were done and told my husband not to talk to them that we would just live in Jordan. Of course they told him if he didn't go with them, our petition would be void.

I finally looked at one of them when he said "you are not Muslim" and said "I may not be today but tomorrow I may be!"

As for kids, my husband never wanted kids and even refers to most of them as monkeys.... LOL! (And yes I told them that he had said that, too... LOL)

They told both of us they would be here to arrest us in 2 years when he had his permanent green card and filed for divorce. I told them to come on and try... we are happy together and still will be in 2 years.

It was an experience to say the least and one I hope we never have to go through again.

I think what angered me most was that they had so much doubt about our relationship, but still did not ask for a single phone log, picture, chat log or anything.

But in the end, we are together. And I think this journey and all the struggles we went through to be together have only made us stronger and closer as a couple.